@SammyCinnabun
Iโm coming up on 5 years. Honestly, it hasnโt been that hard of a change. Once you push through anxieties around changing and realize people arenโt paying attention to your underwear as long as youโre not showing it off, itโs not so scary.
@queen_jess3
It came with all the ๐ฆs and ๐s on it ๐ I got it from a local feminist adult toy store in Chicago,
@Earlytobed
, highly recommended.
@Softcollar1
@valen_abdl
I think being a good caregiver and being a good little both require tending to each other. Thatโs being a good partner. Being considerate, mindful, listening, doing your best to remember, and knowing that youโll both fall short at times but trying to do better each day.
@Softcollar1
@valen_abdl
I think thereโs a difference between being forgetful and irresponsible. Like if someone isnโt in โgood working orderโ (not meaning theyโre perfect functional), then itโs pretty hard to be a caregiver or frankly a partner. Life happens, and caregivers have tough days too.
@princess_cereal
@dlCamiWonder
I get that feeling sometimes too. I went through a purge cycle for a couple years feeling like that. I try to remind myself that feeling shame is taught. We get to make our own kingdom free from judgement with people who love us for who we are. Babies gotsta stick together ๐ผ
@unpottytrained
@bbg_nevermore
Honestly, as much as that hurts, consider it a gift. I you are confident and chill about what you like, most people can be pretty understanding. The folks who arenโt cool with it are just saving you time to focus on someone who will love you for all of who you are ๐
@HighBabyChels
@diaperboy27
Compromise is definitely a part of relationships, but you shouldnโt have to give it up completely to be with someone. If it were something like โIโm not comfortable around (Insert whatever)โ thatโs one thing. It doesnโt sound healthy to tell you itโs wrong. That sounds shaming.
@BurntOutUtopian
@dlCamiWonder
Potatoes are the best! Also asparagus is nice, but might not be the best little veggie since it can make your pee smell.
@d_subby
@PaddedFoxButt
Those pamps were made for snoofing, and thatโs just what youโll do. One of these days those pamps are gonna snoof all over you.
@unpottytrained
Aww. Thatโs precious. I really like how folks can pick up little bits and pieces of different styles of talking from different people or places theyโve lived as a cute little hybrid of dialects.