Some people are late bloomers b/c they didn’t think they were going to be here. How can someone plan for a future they never saw? Give yourself and others grace. Release the guilt of not having it all together yet. A lot of people are living life for the first time.
Unpopular opinion: it’s not always about managing how you react… sometimes you just need to get out of the environment that creates the reaction. I believe certain energies and situations can take the most evolved person out of character. The only thing you should do is leave.
Niggas are turning emotional intelligence into expressing their emotions and just ending the conversation there lol… expression is the first step. You also have to listen, perceive, understand, manage, and handle the emotions of BOTH parties.
@DJA_Tron
@cattastrophic__
There are clips from her actual pregnancy in the video (when she has black hair) but the scenes where she has blonde hair and twerking with the baby is not when she actually gave birth 😭😭😭 just an amazing concept for a music video !
@victoriangraham
@vickto_willy
How can you determine what is a breaking point for someone else ? Who are you to tell that girl what she should be imapcted by? What am I playing on? Why won’t you read ? You took the whole tweet and made it into something it’s not.
@victoriangraham
@vickto_willy
You turned this post into something completely different.I said she may of saved her life, why ? Because we never know what people are going through. There are some people who might leave that situation feeling like they are worthless or not good enough.
The realest and most meaningful bonds I have are with people who confront issues head on. I truly believe that if someone loves you they will confide in you about their issues rather than allowing them to fester and grow into resentment and animosity. Be brave… be honest!
@victoriangraham
@vickto_willy
We don’t know what other people have gone through and how things impact them ... We don’t know if this girl has gone through other negative things that could be building on her spirit . so that’s why it’s important to be there for people when they are down and show compassion.
These are the characters that truly aided Alex’s liberation. No matter how big or small, all of their contributions were life changing for her. And folks acting like she should be grateful to Nate or Sean?! PLEASE
#MAIDNetflix
@demisaysstuff
@jackieaina
Black women can be bullied and degraded constantly but as soon as we RESPOND back it’s a problem . We are labeled “mean and angry”. How about y’all leave black women alone.
That’s how ppl successfully gaslight. Make you feel crazy for the reaction but don’t care to talk about the initial behavior and environment that prompted it. If you want to reflect after you leave go for it but I think it’s unrealistic to try to evolve in the midst of chaos.
@demisaysstuff
@jackieaina
This man only refers to plus size black women as “fat bitches” , dark skin women as “black bitches” , on top of joking about black trans women dying . He hates black women...... and Jackie is problematic for posting his height???
Relationships are like gardens. You have to take care of them if you want them to grow. Water them. Tend to them. If you notice something is off you should investigate the feelings and address it before it turns into a bigger issue that could hurt the connection.
women who brag about “only having guy friends” or “not being able to get along with other women” usually have some heavy internal misogynistic weirdo energy going on.
There are two things that will always be for certain... the sun will rise and I will always make a pregnant woman look like a fine art painting 😅.
Photographer :
@SammyXSky
Creative Director:
@SammyXSky
@Breliloquy
It’s the way he didn’t even try to have a conversation about it 😂 SHE brought it up & was like something I said in the past might get “taken out of context” 🙄 He claims people like to “nitpick” & she’s not racist because she’s from “the Bay” & knows E-40....
Emotional intelligence is not a fixed personality trait, it's an ongoing life skill. Some people may be naturally inclined while others have to put in way more work to develop it. Some days you might be sharp and other days your skills might fall short.
It’s also not fair to hold onto issues & let them fester while the other person has no clue that anything's wrong. Honest communication is key. If you want your relationships to thrive you gotta be willing to put in the work and tackle challenges that come up together.
Neglecting a plant is a surefire way to kill it and the same goes for a relationship. You can't just ignore deeply negative perceptions of someone and hope for the best. It's like pulling weeds in a garden …you gotta get rid of anything that could harm your relationship.
Sorry to break it to y’all but none of the men on
#MAIDNetflix
are actually nice guys…even “nice guy” Nate. They were all either blatant contributors or complicit in the cycle of abuse Alex was in. None of them truly cared about Alex’s liberation.
I use to think being direct would inspire directness from the people I interact with but it honestly does not matter. A coward is gonna be a coward until they decide to face whatever fear they have.
@Zoleeofficial
Agreed! It goes so well on meats and in soups! Especially when you pair it with lemon, minced garlic, and butter. That combo makes everything taste like a 5 star meal 😩😩🤤🤤🤤
Me and my friend were talking about the Atlanta food scene/ Keith Lee coming to town and we have came to the conclusion that a lot of these new entrepreneurs have zero passion for food/service and see restaurants as a money grab. They should of just been fast food chain owners.
You might be able to understand emotions with ease and still lack the ability to manage it. If you are treating emotional intelligence like a fixed personality trait you deserve a medal for instead of a skill that can be developed you’re doing yourself a disservice.
But most importantly, ALEX was her own savior. She worked her ass off and chose her self not only for her daughter’s well being but for HER own happiness. I’m so proud of my girl 😭😭❤️
#MAIDonNETFLIX
#MAIDNetflix
Did a test shoot with my best friend and it was STRESSSS. My camera was acting insane and everything kept falling down 😭 but I was able to get this shot which made it all worth it 💕💕💕
Take it personally only when intentional malice is evident. Avoid unnecessary personalization; not everything is a slight and even if it is, it doesn't have to steal your joy. Control your reactions, nurture your mental, & dont let assumptions form the foundation of your reality.
“You’re so strong” is damn near a terroristic threat if you ask me. That phrase has set us back so much. I want more black women to not fall into the trap of being strong and pushing pass your boundaries for the sake or romantic love.
I’m not going to judge this. It’s traumatizing to constantly see your peers die, seeing their lifeless bodies on socials. Black men watching black men from so many backgrounds and social statuses get killed for no reason…it’s no surprise they are losing their minds.
@RoedlAaron
The child went live earlier and someone was coaching him and standing over him in the room. I don’t think it’s smart to donate to any cash app until we know he is safe and the money isn’t going towards the family members who are hurting him!
The lamest shit in the world is acting like everyone is replaceable. Losing real connections with people that genuinely love you because of your ego. I’ll never not fight for someone I really love. I’ll never act like something doesn’t hurt me when it does.
I have been holding back cause it’s still black history month but just know as soon as the clock hits 12:00am on Friday March 1, 2024 Eastern Standard Time I got some heavy words for my community.
Denzel has always felt like Hollywood was bias in its portrayal of black women. He’s said that he felt like black women were not often seen as objects of desire on film. He simply didn’t want to be used to push that narrative 🤷🏽♀️
OMG I GOT ACCEPTED!!! I am officially a member of
@BlkWomenPhoto
! This has been a goal of mine since 2020, I can not wait to grow within this amazing community 💖