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Guild leader, Pro DM, Game Designer, and writer who's working to make the world a little bit better. Honor, Integrity, Improvement.

Arizona, USA
Joined December 2021
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@YeWiseWizard Wizard skater bros ftw. 😎
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I've mostly ignored backstories for the last few years. Normally, I don't ask for one, and my campaigns run very smoothly without worrying about PC baggage from before they start the game. But I'm curious: Do any of you have good experience integrating backstory? #dnd #ttrpg
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How long have you been a DM for now? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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A slightly more advanced discussion about #ttrpgs would be that of trivial encounters. Things like being stopped by guards while entering a city or buying rations aren't as meaningful the longer a campaign goes. How often do you use them?.#ttrpg #dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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Encumbrance is, I think, an important point of discussion for #ttrpgs. With online play, its not too difficult to track, but object weight is tedious to track when it's not automated. And I dont know anyone who thinks its fun. Do you track Encumbrance? #dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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As the DM, you are taking on the roll of the adversary, be it the elements, the monsters, the dungeon, shopping. it's OK to say YOU killed the player characters. It's your job. Quit denying what you are. Say it with me. "I am a villian." And we love you for it. #ttrpg #dnd
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The death of the game store, is definitely one of the saddest things I've seen in recent times. #ttrpg gamers, why do you think game stores are dying, and can they be resurrected? What could a flgs do to get you to come out and help them keep the lights on?.#ttrpgcommunity #dnd
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I had a great session yesterday, but the games might suffer from the players being a little TOO non agressive. Do any of you other DMs have a pacifist- make friends with everything- party of players?.#dnd #ttrpg #dnd5e #meme
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As I've gained more experience in #ttrpgs, I've found that a lot of DMs are too nice. I play recklessly in ways that should get my character killed, yet they live, often by DM intervention. For DMs out there, are you afraid to kill player characters? Why or why not? #dnd #ttrpg
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Ya know, this is a tired discussion. What I will do is approach it from a business point of view: the combat wheel chair miniature didn't sell at any gamestore I've been a part of. And as for your 'inclusivity', I DM for disabled people. They don't play these characters. 1/2.
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Have you ever experienced DM burnout? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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How do you escape the loop? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Alrighty people, it exists in a meme so it must be fact, right? Do you like infodumps at the beginning of a session, or is it a hard pass?.#dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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It's not a fun mechanic every time, and that also applies to tracking ammunition, weapon durability, and downtime. BUT it should be tracked in sessions with a heavy exploration focus in hostile terrain like deserts and tundras. It lends itself towards immersive play.
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How do you run death in your games?.#dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Another optional rule (at least in some #ttrpgs) is flanking for advantage! Do you use it? Compared to some rules out there, I think flanking generally makes sense and mostly works well in the games I run. How do you feel about it? #dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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Why is there so much hate on tieflings lately? Considering there's an entire layer of hell dedicated to lust, it's not that weird for devils to get it on with humans, not to mention the existence of succubus/incubus and other predators of that variety. #ttrpg #dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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They say that when life gives you lemons, you should make lemonade. Nobody tells you how many freaking lemons life gives you.
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Maybe actually run games for them and figure out what they want. My blind player plays a character that can see, and my wheelchair players play people who can walk. I run public play where anyone can join a game. If you aren't doing that, you don't actually represent diversity.
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I have no idea why it blew up, but I swear #StarshipTroopers is half my feed. If someone could let me know the tldr on it that would be great. #meme
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What is the one #ttrpg opinion you'd go to war to defend?.#dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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Why are wizard towers so expensive?. Quick maths- 15,000 gold for a tower- exchanged to the dollar at 2,390 dollars per gold piece. So. almost 36 million. I'm never gonna be able to buy a home. 😭
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Alrighty #ttrpg crowd. Do yall like terrain? I've noticed it adds to immersion some, and that the miniatures tend to attract folks more than theater of the mind games. Price aside, do you prefer games with or without models/terrain? (not my set up, but I'll do one soon) #dnd
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Heres a deeper topic for ya. Those who really want top-tier characters need to give them a family. "But people with families don't go on adventures!".Why not?.It stands to provide a secure income for months/years per job. Do your characters have families?.#dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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Now, after the discussion about tieflings being an infernal race, and a decent chunk of people wanting not liking them, do you feel equally passionate about Aasimar as a righteous race since they are descended from celestials? #dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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Where are you on the curve? .#dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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For GMs out there, how do you feel about players introducing lore? Do you feel like it steps on the toes of your role in the game? I feel like most players don't know how much lore and world building they can introduce. I welcome it, but what do you think?.#ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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I promote heroic gameplay. Weirdly, this has led to a lot of criticism about the games I run. From personal experience, I've seen that media and games influence peoples outlook on life, so I want to run good (aligned) games that encourage people to be their best self. #dnd #ttrpg
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We cycle through these topics over and over, and people get so angry about them. Why? Folks get so heated, so I'm curious what your logic is behind people's passions. Lmk if you have any good guesses. #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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It is like that sometimes. #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Let's discuss a topic I'm especially fond of! Heroism. Personally, I feel better after a game where my PC does good things. Do you feel that playing a heroic character inspires you to be better in your daily life?.#dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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I'm running a DM workshop later today. For those experienced DMs out there, what advice would you share to new DMs? I'll pick a few of the best ones to share with the group. #dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgs #ttrpgcommunity #pathfinder
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Alright, here's a deep discussion. for those who don't like certain #ttrpg races (for whatever reason), why do you find it beneficial to hold that view? What's the value in your POV? Would you reccomend other people share it? #dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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I am finally burnt out. for now. I have run 16 hours of #ttrpgs over the last 2 days. Someone else can take over the next shift. What's the longest session you've ever run?.#dnd #ttrpg
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As a player, how do you feel about DMs who fudge dice? #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Soo. Dungeon Masters. How do you push through your burnout phase? Or do you? For those who have never been burnt out, how do you avoid it? Is there a such thing as a DM vacation? I've definitely been feeling like I could use one for a few weeks now. #dnd #ttrpg #dnd5e
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In fantasy based #ttrpgs, what is your 'average person'? Do they have access to magic? Obviously, the player party is abnormal. Many people (GMs included) don't actually consider what their everyday normal Npc's experience is. Do you have any 'everyman' characters? #dnd #ttrpg
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I wrapped up my last session of the year last night, grand total of PC deaths this year between all 4 campaigns is 29. Do you feel that's low, high, or just right? Imo, when players see characters die, it solidifies the stakes. What's your death count this year, DMs? #dnd #ttrpg
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I had a player attempt to cast a spell on a shopkeeper of a magic shop with extremely expensive items. He got counterspelled, the guards were called, the player ran, got chased down, and had a hand chopped off as punishment. Do you feel that's fair? Why or why not? #ttrpg #dnd.
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So it looks like #WotC (like always) is passing the costs of their poor business decisions onto others. I understand why companies do it, but it's still dishonorable. Laying off over 1000 people when the executives who make the bad decisions stay. Smh. #dnd #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg
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Is this accurate or should the rolls be reversed? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Advance DM advice- Balance should not exist in #DnD. As a DM, run the world as realistically as possible, and feel free to prepare monsters, traps, and social encounters well outside the party skill level. Let them worry about how to manage what is presented. #ttrpg #dnd5e.
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Dear Dungeon Masters,.Just wanted to remind you that you're a nerd, running a made-up game for other nerds. Having a god complex where you need to flex your 'power' over other nerds is dumb. This also applies to superiority complex players. Be better. 😑.
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Vampirism is a fun curse in most #ttrpgs, but I think it suffers from humans and not humanoids being affected by it. A vampiric orc or goblin, not to mention other races, seems like a good concept for a session. Have any of you ran non standard vampires in your games? #dnd #ttrpg
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@DieinPlace I am the oldest that Gen Z has to offer, and I'm self-employed, working half the time I did at a full-time job and making twice the income. What worked for older generations no longer applies, or I'd maybe be working for someone else. 🤷‍♂️.
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Do you run time sensitive events in your campaigns?.#dnd #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity #meme
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For most of my fellow #ttrpg enjoyers, how often do you run from an encounter? Retreat feels like defeat, but that is something an actual adventuring party would need to do often. Lmk what your take is. #dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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When the playstyles dont match. #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Assuming XP Leveling, should each player get the same XP each session they attend? I know it's extra work, but assuming a perfect XP leveling system, not every character contributes the same amount to any given session. Do you reward bonuses or subtract XP ever? #ttrpg #dnd
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Alrighty, here's a regional map of one of my campaigns. I'm using inkarnate, but I feel like there should be some stuff I can do to level up my map making skills. Who's working on maps? Feel free to show off and post some tips in the comments! #dnd #ttrpg #maps #ttrpgcommunity
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Alrighty, let's make something together. 🍻.I'm thinking we'll make a fully stocked in-game library, so. go ahead and drop a book title and author in the comments! I'll make a list/table out of it when I'm done and post it here. Get creative! #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity #dnd
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So. assuming you do XP leveling and you do role play encounters, does anyone have a good system for awarding xp for diplomatic solutions over combat ones? I pretty much do the 'what I think is best' but I there's some benefit to guidelines if anyone has any. #ttrpg #dnd
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Time magic is messy as hell. I'm curious, has anyone run a good time travel campaign? I think that this and multiverse concepts are extremely difficult to implement, so is this something we completely ignore or do you think it can work? #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity
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Quick question, should the GM run followers and hirelings or the players? I've noticed they don't come up in many games I run so I'm curious how y'all handle them. #dnd #ttrpg
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Some editions and games are more egregious than others in this regard, but death needs to be a part of the game. Aside from the 'there's the door' approach to players who like being difficult to kill, how do you make death matter? #ttrpg #ttrpgcommunity #dnd
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For the folks playing #ttrpgs, which do you think fall apart more often? In person groups, or online groups? I believe that online groups are easier to join, but group retention is important, and irl may be better if that's the case. What are your thoughts?.#ttrpgcommunity #dnd
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Ahem. Exactly how many of you are working on their own ttrpg system? How many on their own modules? Show of hands in the comments, please! If you feel inclined to share any info, feel free! I like hearing about everyone's projects. 😁.#ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg.
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What's your favorite kind of dice and why? Personally, I'm a pretty big fan of metal dice since they tend to 'drop' it helps me get the rolls done quickly as a DM who needs to get a lot of rolls done quickly. Bonus points if you show off your favorite set!.#dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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Maybe the biggest red flag for me about online DnD is that there's so many ways you can lose everything you spent money on. A few examples:.A. You forget your account info and can't recover it. B. WotC gets hacked. C. Getting banned. Anything else you can think of?.#dnd #ttrpg.
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Stepping into the role of the DM is a massive paradigm shift. #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Who has a good prayer mechanic in #ttrpg land? I've tried rolling a religion check, but that doesn't feel right. The punch card of 'you do 10 prayers you get an answer on the 11th prayer' doesn't feel satisfying either. Should there be a level requirement? What's your take? #dnd
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I paint. U like?.#dnd #miniaturepainting
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Charisma, the RP stat. You can make great points and people still won't like your opinion if its low. Strangers naturally gravitate towards you and find you attractive when it's high. Is this stat handled well, or do people need to understand it's role better? #ttrpg #dnd
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I'm sure you're cool. But are you wizard summoning a dragon out of an active volcano while the freaking stars align to watch cool? I didn't think so. Happy Monday everyone. #wizardlife
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Everyone asks, "Who is the grey mage?".Nobody asks, "How is the grey Mage?"
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How often do you deal with problem players? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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Alrighty, I'm doing some worldbuilding today. What are some luxuries that the wealthy would have in a high magic setting? There's always fine food, beautiful estates, and elegant clothes, but what about the little things that show disposable income? #TTRPGs #dnd #ttrpgcommunity
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Dear wheel chair debaters,.You have my permission, as well as the permission of everyone who likes this post, to stop talking about wheel chairs in #ttrpgs. Maybe try again next year. Or never. Sincerely,.GM & Friends.#dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #meme
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Similar to the curse of vampirism, we have Lycanthropy. This one is supposed to be more limited to humanoids, but as far as curse/magic continuity goes, should lycanthropy affect all living creatures as vampirism seems to do? How do you feel about werewolves? #dnd #ttrpg #TTRPGs
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So. has anyone tried hippo? I have a sneaking suspicion that I will need to describe what hippo tastes like after one of the groups fights a dire hippo on a river encounter. They've debated the ethics of humanoid creature consumption before, so this probably warrants some prep.
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They say a GM is only as good as the media they steal from. Is that true? As someone experienced, I can often notice when a GM is taking inspiration from a story, most often in NPC personalities. Is it a good or bad thing to copy from major media?.#dnd #dnd5e #ttrpg
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I'm running a city today with a 95% magic user population, there's a lot of things like wealth, food, weather, sickness, etc. that likely wouldn't be an issue in this place. What issues do you think an extremely high magic setting would have? Need extra creative help! #dnd #ttrpg.
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Since things aren't too heated at the moment. harassment and cancelation. I believe you can block people with conflicting views or who are jerks, but it takes a whole new level of hate to actively start tearing someone down and to tell others to do it too. So. why?.#ttrpg
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Alrighty, I haven't asked before, so here it goes. How many of you have tried a #TTRPG outside of the #dnd family?.Since my followers are pretty cultured, yall may need to share the post so the results aren't quite so based. Thanks. 🍻.#ttrpgcommunity.
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How do you feel about Metagamers? #dnd #dnd5e #ttrpgcommunity #ttrpg #pathfinder2e #meme
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