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@TRHLofficial Professional here. It depends but I am all natural and cater to men who prefer the natural look (woman on the left). I'm much older too.
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@rpdya99 Good points Mr. Pandya, although there are many who stay married because of their fear of change, and it has nothing to do with money. Ideally people work on self improvement rather than divorce. Yet few people have the interest to improve their relationships. Very sad.
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Nobody has to put up with their spouse's refusal to address serious issues in the relationship. It never gets better. Insist on therapy, and if he/she refuses, then divorce him/her. Some men can meet their sexual needs in an affair or from a provider, but I could never do that. After the kids left home, I chose divorce. You have to be an adult and deal with it. Putting up with sexually shut down men or women is avoiding the situation.
The men who are really good in bed are emotionally attuned and had girlfriends or wives who also enjoy sex ---> the couple talks about what feels good, what doesn't Unfortunately there are too many shut down women who don't say anything, and the husbands are frustrated and can't figure out what's happening. What's happening is untreated/suppressed childhood sexual abuse or sex shaming and she doesn't have her voice anymore. She shut it all down. These women are often very beautiful, professionally successful, but sexually they're dry as an almond. I wouldn't put up with that. It never gets better. Insist on therapy, divorce her if she doesn't go or hire a professional because you didn't sign up for her untreated trauma that she refuses to address.
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I think it takes decades for women to bloom into our sexuality. Our sexual response starts internally in our thoughts and feelings, and our erectile tissue is internal so it's harder to figure out what's happening. Then we also experience more ways that men touch us that don't feel good (such as groping, being too quick, rubbing over the urethra opening).
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Women who don't like sex fall into these categories: 1. She was sexually abused as a child and has never gone to therapy (and most won't because they pushed it down and don't want to reopen the pain) 2. She was sexually shamed as a child for touching herself, told her body is bad, or told she shouldn't like sex or sex is an obligation she owes to her husband (religious shaming) 3. Therefore, when her husband touches her in a way she doesn't like, instead of speaking up, she says nothing and just decides she doesn't like sex. And believe me, men need and want to learn, because they're not born knowing how to be a good lover.
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