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People often say that if we only read and speak good words from books without applying them in real life, we are just "bookish" dreamers! After publishing nearly 30 posts about lessons and wise words from the book "Psychology of Money," today, I want to share
"Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to!"
✨Similar to appealing to people’s nobler motives, giving the other person a lofty reputation to live up to incite in them a desire to meet those expectations. The Vietnamese applied it so well in many situations, and for
"Ask questions instead of giving direct orders"
✨No one likes to take orders. What if, instead of telling people what to do, we gave them the opportunity to do things themselves, to learn from their own mistake? Instead of saying “Do this” or “Don’t do that,” we should more
"Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct!"
✨If we tell our children, spouses, or employees that they are stupid or bad at a certain thing, have no gift for it, and are doing it all wrong, we strip them of any motivation to improve. If instead, we use the opposite
"Let the other person save face"
✨When we disagree with someone, even if we are right and he is definitely wrong, we only destroy his ego by causing him to lose face. We are so quick to criticize that we seldom offer others the opportunity to save face, especially when a
"Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person"
✨The next step to changing people’s ways without inflicting negative feelings is to admit that we are also susceptible to mistakes. It is much easier to listen to a description of our own faults if the person
"Praise every improvement even the slightest. Be hearty in your approbation and lavish in your praise!"
✨Take a brief look back on your own life to this point. Can you think of a time when a few words of praise have had a hand in shaping the person you've become? One of the
"Begin with praise and honest appreciation. It's like like the dentist who begins his work with Novocain. The patient still gets a drilling, but the Novocain kills the pain."
✨It’s much easier to listen to unpleasant things after we’ve been praised for our good points. That’s
"Get the other person saying Yes, yes immediately"
✨When talking with people, we should never begin with the points on which we disagree. We should start by emphasizing the things on which we agree, and be sure to convey that we’re both striving for the same result - our
"Begin in a friendly way. A drop of honey catches more flies than a gallon of gall."
✨If we’re angry or frustrated at someone and we go to them with our temper flaring, we’re sure to have a fine time unloading our feelings toward them. But what about the other person? Will our
"Show your respect for the other person's opinions. Never say: You're wrong!"
✨We should never telling someone that they’re plain wrong. Things get worse if we’re going to prove that they're wrong, in that case, they will interpret we’re essentially telling them that we are
"Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly"
✨Most of us respond bitterly to direct criticism. When we’re looking to change people without offending them or arousing resentment, simply changing one three-letter word can be our key to success.
Many people begin their
"Remember that a person's name is to that person the sweetest and most important sound in any language"
✨A person's name is a very powerful thing - it's an embodiment of that person's identity. It's a reference to them. So remembering and using someone's name is a great way to
"We should all be happy - and excited - to do something for someone else when they can’t do anything for us in return."
✨When we show gratitude and care for others without expecting anything in return, that is truly beautiful. Sometimes, a sincere compliment can change their
"Dramatize your idea!"
✨To be effective in convincing someone of our ideas or our argument, it’s not enough to merely state a truth. If we truly want someone’s attention, we have to present that truth in a vivid, interesting, dramatic way.
Instead of just saying marriage to our
"Let the other feel that the idea is his or hers"
✨Don’t you feel much more strongly about ideas that you came up with than ideas that are handed to you by others? If so, why should we try to jam our ideas down other peoples’ throats? Isn’t it much wiser to make suggestions and
"There is only one way under high heaven to get the best of an argument - and that is to avoid it."
✨We are often tempted to argue with others, especially when we are absolutely convinced that we’re right about something. But even if we are right, what does arguing about it
"Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view."
✨One of the fundamental keys to successful human relations is understanding that other people may be totally wrong, but they don’t think they are.
Don’t condemn them, try to understand them. There is a reason
"Let the other person do a great deal of talking"
✨Most people who try to get others to agree with their perspective do too much of the talking. Instead, let the other people talk themselves out. They know their problems better than we do. Let’s ask them questions and let them
"The deepest principle in human nature is the craving to be appreciated."
✨The only way we can get a person to do anything is by giving them what they want. What do most people want? Health, food, sleep, money? Most of these wants are usually gratified, but there is one
"If you are wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically"
✨Carnegie tells a story of taking his dog to the park without a muzzle or a leash, and running into a police officer who scolded him, as this was against the law. The next few times Carnegie took his dog out, he kept him on
"Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires."
✨What if there were a magical phrase that would stop arguments, create positive interactions, and make the other person listen to you attentively? Well there is.
We can say, “I don’t blame you at all for feeling the
"Throw down a challenge!"
✨Most people have an innate desire to achieve. Along with that desire often comes a fierce sense of competition - everyone wants to outdo others and be the best. When nothing else works in winning people to your way of thinking, throw down a challenge.
✨If you’re rich, you have a high current income. But being wealthy is something different – wealth is not visible. It’s the money that you have that’s not spent. It’s the optionality to buy or do something at a future time.
✨So, it can be summarized into "Wealth can give you
"Appeal to be the nobler motives"
✨People usually have two reasons for doing things -- one that sounds good, and the real one. A person will recognize on his own the real reason he does something. We don’t need to point it out. But all of us, being idealists at heart, like to
✨People acquire wealth because they believe this will make them be liked and admired. But, wealth just makes others use this as a benchmark for their own desire to be liked and admired.
- The Psychology of Money
✨No one is impressed with your possessions as much as you are, so stop buy fancy items to gain admiration and respect from others because these things cannot be bought
✨Instead, spending your investment on humility, kindness and empathy
- The Psychology of Money
"Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves."
✨Remember that the people we are talking to are a hundred times more interested in themselves and their own problems than they are in us and our problems.
✨If you want to know how to make people shun you and
✨The ability to stick around for a long time, without wiping out or being forced to give up, is what makes the biggest difference.
✨This should be the cornerstone of your strategy, whether it’s in investing or your career, or a business you own, or simply with some people
The optimal portfolio is one that allows you to sleep at night. It allows you to generate reasonable returns, while also maximizing your quality of life and control over your life
- The Psychology of Money
✨“Controlling your time is the highest dividend money pays.”
This, more than your salary, more than the size of your house, more than the prestige of your job, more than anything, is the highest dividend money pays.
- The Psychology of Money
"The royal road to a person’s heart is to talk about the things he or she treasures most"
✨We now understand that people like to talk about themselves and have others be interested in them. The next best thing to talking about themselves is talking about the things that they
"Being rich offers you opportunities in the short-term, but being wealthy provides you the flexibility of having more of the items you want – freedom, time, possessions – in the future."
- The Psychology of Money
Financial success can be summarized by one word "survival" More than I want big returns, I want to be financially unbreakable and if I'm unbreakable, I actually think I'll get the biggest returns, because I'll be able to stick around long enough for compounding to work wonders
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✨Planning is important, but the most important part of every plan is to plan on the plan not going according to plan. The more you need specific elements of a plan to be true, the more fragile your financial life becomes.
✨If there’s enough room for error in your savings rate
This situation reminds me of the advantages associated with Low IQ, moderate IQ, and High IQ.
Individuals with a Low IQ might not be smart enough to engage in extensive thinking, so they tend to immediately take action and eventually make some money, even if it's just a small
@MasculinePeak
Whatever a girl test you for? Just be yourself and live with for value system. If you are a person that wants to laugh loudly at funny moment, just do that, don't feel hesitate or unconfident or any kinds of thinking like "Is it okay for me to do that in front of her?" That's the
"The optimal portfolio allows you to generate reasonable returns, while also maximizing your quality of life and control over your life."
✨You don't need a 30% annual return on investment; you just need a 10% annual return that gives you the confidence and belief to continually
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@wealth_director
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@MasculinePeak
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@BrianCrame97972
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@Pham_Dinh_Tuyen
Hãy đặt một cái móc treo quần áo ở phía bên phải nhất của tủ đồ mình. Cứ mỗi lần mặc 1 bộ quần áo, và giặt xong, ta sẽ treo chúng ở bên phải móc treo. Với cách làm như vậy, bạn sẽ hiểu chúng ta đang lãng phí và sống không tối giản như thế nào.
✨Compounding only works if you can give an asset years to grow.
✨ It’s like planting oak trees: A year of growth will never show much progress, 10 years can make a meaningful difference, and 50 years can create something absolutely extraordinary.
- The Psychology of Money
@wealth_director
This reminds me of the advantage of Low IQ, moderate IQ, and High One
The Low just isn’t smart enough to think, so they just do, and finally making some money (maybe just a little money)
The High is pretty smart, so there are no chances that they don’t find opportunities to make
When you are faced with 2 investment options, and you are wondering which one you should choose. In long-term vision, let's choose the one you have emotion toward (this stock is in my hometown, I have a passion about the business activities of this company), because in the long
For most amateur investors who have the long time zone, dollar-cost averaging into a low-cost index fund, leaving the money alone to compound, will provide the highest odds of long-term success.
- The Psychology of Money
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@tuivicp
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@CineHubxAI
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@18kSuper
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@Jaque135
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@MNq7WKYN1
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