Submissive men are the gift that most women fail to recognize. They are emotionally available men, strong enough to be vulnerable, wise enough to listen, and intuitive enough to anticipate her needs. Often seen as too nice, that many women to fail to see their value as a result.

Submissive men need denial. It's not just a kink or a fetish,it is a core need of who he is. He is at his happiest point, feeling most alive,when he is kept in the aliveness of arousal. He can't do this on his own,his will power is not strong enough. He needs her dominance. #FLR.

It's not about duration!. Locking him in chastity isn't about how long he is locked. Yes, its great to lock him for months at a time, or even make it permanent. But it's really not about that. It's about how hard it is for him!. 24 hours in his cage, teased mercilessly is.

One of the best moments in a #FLR is when he orally services her while locked,and they both know he won't be getting unlocked after. She can relax into the pure service,and he can eagerly taste and enjoy her orgasm. Then they both realize afterward,that this is the new normal.

Submissives have a giving nature. When she understands this, she understands that her pleasure is his pleasure. That her orgasms matter to him. That he wants to put all of his focus into pleasing her. And that it's the best feeling in the world when she orgasms and appreciates.