Our generation is full of people who seem so happy outside. But when you start talking to them and knowing deeply about their lives you get to know that they are just happy faces outside, inner conflicts, grief for things or person or goals, and these are common in our generation
When Nasir Kazmi said: “Niyat e shoq bhar na jaaye kahin, tu bhi dil sy utar na jaaye kahin”
and Mirza Ghalib said: "Phir nhi basty wo dil jo ek baar ujarh jaty hain, Ghalib qabarain jtni bhi sajao koi zinda nahi hota" we all felt it.
When Franz Kafka said: "I cannot make you understand. I cannot make anyone understand what is happening inside me. I cannot even explain it to myself".
And then Faiz Ahmed said: "Dard itna hy ke har rag me mehshar barpa hy, or sukoon aysa ke mar jany ko jee chahta hy".
When Khalil Gibran said: "The tragedy of love is that it happens to people who aren't meant for you "
And someone said: "Kuch log apke liye nhi hoty, ap duaein karein ya jaadu karein wo apko nahi milty". And I lost all my hope here.
Hasraton ki qabron pr aansu bahana tooty sheeshy jorny jaisa hy, jo ja raha ho ussey awaz de kar rokna aesa hy jaisy ap ny apni mohabbat ki keel pr aakhri hathora mara ho, or moun wo hi pherty hain jo andar sy khokly hon, main or tum qeemti hain, youn zaya nhi hongy.
The outer world is a reflection of the inner world. Other people’s perception of you is a reflection of them, your response to them is an awareness of you.
Being kind gives me trauma, because everytime people took advantage of it and it broke my trust, it pains me everytime, coz really the trauma within me is terrifying. I always supporting people no matter what went wrong, and they always broke my trust, I'm done this time.💯
When Atif Aslam said in Sang e Mah OST " wo jo khud ko bhi mila nhi tjhy kya milyga" he is saying that never expect love in return from a person who does not love himself. And this is a great fact.
That always melts my heart that "Allah ek lamhy me maan jaty hain" when you're genuinely guilty about your mistakes & sins because He knows intentions of your heart. He just accepts you with all of your flaws. He never leaves or stop caring for you even tho He'd be angry with you
When Faiz Ahmed Faiz said: "Dil na-umeed to nahi nakaam hi to hy, Lambi hy gham ki shaam magar shaam hi to hy", This is the epitome of optimism. The heart is once again unsuccessful at some attempt but is not hopeless yet. So there is no need to worry until you have hope.
My biggest flex is that no matter how much attach I'm to anyone I never beg for their attention,I never stop if someone wants to leave.I change my bhvior as I see someone has changed.Still wish best for people who have left for any reason,just keep your eyes open to see red flags
Maturity is realising that just because someone is responding to your texts late doesn’t mean they’re toxic or tryna avoid you but it’s mostly because they wanna be in the right frame of mind so they’re able to carry on a conversation.
at this point i only care about my parents happiness. understanding how hard they worked & the sacrifices they made to give us the life we have, brought us from zero to this, the only goal is to be successful enough to give back & give them the best. inshaAllah
I'm seriously scared to catch feelings for anyone anymore, no matter how good it's going or how faithful that person is at the time, it seems like whenever i get attached everything just seems to go wrong.
Once you start living with "jo hota hy achy ke liye hota hy aur ussi main meri behtri hy, jo agay hoga uska bhi Allah ny kuch behtreen hi socha hoga" mindset, you literally get so laid back in life💯
Everyone is so afraid of love. It’s not love that hurt you. It’s the habitual snake behavior people commit so they won’t get hurt first. The constant running from themselves and hurting others in their wake.
Hr insan thak sa gya hy, koi apni zimedarion sy koi apny goal pury na krny sy koi pretend krny sy , koi strong rehny sy to koi Mohabbat ke naam pe fareeb milny sy , Zindagi bs guzari jaa rhi hy, jeena bhol gy hain idr
Please let’s normalize that marriage is not for everyone. That’s probably not that person goal in life. You all put so much pressure on people just for it to end as a divorce.
Independent females are so under valued, she doesn't even need you, she just wants you, she is doing to do her own thing with or without you & that's a queen <3
Yes,I treat girls with respect here, I don't flirt with them,I try my best to differentiate between right and wrong,I don't take cheap attention here, yet people call me bored.If a servant is called bored after doing all this,then call me bored,idc
For me a girl who can articulate her thoughts well and with confidence is far more attractive than the shy,blunt,cute,athletic,smart or whatever other stereotypical category you can think of.
What's the saddest thing to see in winter? Homeless cat's and dogs, They are beaten, kicked and even crushed under the vehicles, my heart cries for them. many of us can’t bear to see cats starve to death. Do take care of them if you found any, give them food and shelter.
People leave. Then it sucks slowly because they leave behind a part of themselves with you. A song, a poem, their favorite movie, their favorite food, the place where they gather a lot of memories, and the sound of their laughter. As long as you remember them, you keep grieving.
When Bano Qudsia said:
"Hum Kise ke dil me jhank nahi sakty or na hi jaan sakty hain ke kon hamary sath kitna mukhlis hy lekin wqt or rawaiye jald hi ehsaas dila dety hain" I felt that.
I'm amazed when people said *Tum badal gaye*, and I love to give them my best reply, "Jo Rab ko behtar laga usny wo kiya mery sath, usny agr mujhe badal kar nikhaar diya hy to ye sabsy behtreen badlao hy" and I couldn't agreed more.
Stop looking for relationship that makes you an option. Pray and hope that Qadr will come in your life tomorrow. Have a strong faith and sabar in every circumstances. Remember Allah test us in order to prove that we deserve halal relationship (Nikkah) with the right person.
Mard ki mohabbat ka mayaar uski aurat ke chehray par hota hy and i couldn’t agree more, i mean it’s so overwhelming to see women being actually happy and uncontrollably blushing when they being treated right, Allah ap sab ke naseeb achy kary amen.
Faaslyy raabton ke munqitaah hony sy barhty hain, dilchasp baat ye hy ke dono jagah anaah ki jung braber hoti hy, aksar apka pehal karna, apki izzat me izaafah karta hy, or kahi dairee doriyoon mein.
Now, whenever I feel that there is a danger of attachment, I immediately separate myself from this situation because main ny bary dukh dekhy is sy bara dukh nhi dekha ke ap aysy insaan sy attach hojaien jo apko mayassar tak na ho
Trauma makes you tolerate a lot of shit you don’t deserve because you don’t want to lose people. Healing makes you realize some people don’t deserve to be in your life, no matter how much you love them.
Appreciate "Kuch baatein karni hain tumsy, ek shaam fursat sy ana, Main apny khayal launga, tum wqt lety ana"
Before it turns to "Ek roz ayega koi saari fursat lekr, Ek roz hum kahengy ab zarurat nhi rahi"
Mard ki mohabbat ka mayaar uski aurat ke chehray par hota hy and i couldn’t agree more, i mean it’s so overwhelming to see women being actually happy and uncontrollably blushing when they being treated right, Allah ap sab ke naseeb achy kary amen.
Heartbreak, in quite literal sense, is one of the worst physical, internal feelings ever and probably not talked enough about. The heaviness in your chest, like the insides of your heart getting punched is so real, and painful.
In the midst of struggle, it can be easy to lose hope and feel helpless. But struggling through life is not a sign of weakness. It is a sign of resilience, determination, keep fighting.
and Bashir Badr said:
یہ پھول مجھےکوئی وراثت میں ملےہیں
تم نےمیرا کانٹوں بھرا بسترنہیں دیکھا۔
The guys i thought my back didn't have my back, the greatest filtering system in life is when you have a MASSIVE CRISIS IN YOUR LIFE you can immediately filter out 90% of people in your life, it's the fastest way to filter out the real people and the fake people in your life.
When Wajid Sheikh said,"tum ghairon sy to jeet jaogy, pr apno sy haar jaogy" and then someone said wo apny hi hoty hain jo lafzon sy maar dety hain, wrna ghairon ko kya khabar dil kis baat pe dukhta hy"
it hit me hard.
When Farhan Saeed said, “jo acha lagta hy, wo har hal me acha lagta hy or jo acha nhi lagta wo chahe mathy par chand saja ke ajaye, koi farq nhi prta”. And I can’t agree more.
University life is all about wasting 240 rupees on petrol, paying 200 rupees for biryani, getting stressed that your crush is eating fries with someone else.
I pray the person I love will be the person I marry, and the person I will grow old with. I pray we will always accept each other’s flaws and open up when there’s something wrong and talk about it to settle & I pray the person I love will stay with me no matter what will happen.
We always say choose a partner who is loving, caring, respectful towards you, loyal etc but what about yourself?? Ap khud kya hain, sirf dosron sy tawaqo rakhni hoti khud apni zaat ko sawarna nhi hota kya?? Kash mukhlis dhondny sy pehly log khud ko bhi khalis banaty
I pray that whoever reads this Allah swt heals whatever is hurting you, whatever is breaking ur heart, whether it’s stress,sadness, anxiety or loss whatever is causing you pain I pray Allah replaces it with bounties of peace and happiness and helps you forget all the hurt Amen.
When Bano Qudsia said " Dunya ka sab sy khoobsoorat insaan wo hy jis sy baat krna asaan ho, jis sy mushkil me madad maangna asaan ho, jo dosron ke dukh or dard me shamil rahy, jo aansu pochna janta ho, marham lagana janta ho" she really gave all right reasons to live <3
Inhien bs ek tempting si bht hi faidy wali koi reason chahiey tmhien chor deny ke liye, ye baat apny pally sy baandh lo koi tmhien apny zaati mafaad sy aagy nhi rakhny wala.
Apni zindagi sy ek baat to seekh li ke ziada mohabbat or parwah krny sy kuch hath nhi ata na hi qadr milti hy bs dimagh ek fareeb ke circle me ghoomta rehta hy ke jaisa main sochta hon wesa samny wala bhi mery liye sochta hoga lekin reality mery liye hamesha bilkul opposite rahi.
Sabar ajana is a real thing like you don't hate the person but you don't love them either, the people who were so important to you once just don't exist for you now, no love, no hate, no feelings, nothing.