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POM is officially out! Woot! Woot! Order your copy here:
Lady Tundra Arctica of the Portal of Garnet will assume her rightful place as Ruler of the High Court, after she weds Prince Maze Wilde of the Fourth Garnetian Quarter. Born into supremacy, her role
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@CreepyOrg
Makes my skin crawl just watching it. 🤮🤮🤮
How many of us women have gone through this, never mind a kid. A nine year-old girl has no chance if over-powered by a man, considerably taller than her, stronger, whose intent is not to protect her but the opposite, to do harm.
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@InsaneRealitys
She doesn't have to be banned. All the driver needs to do is give her a lousy rating, and then future drivers will know not to respond to her call for a pick-up. Yep. That's right. We have the power to rate them as they do to us! (and rightly so).
I ride Uber plenty and when
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@stillgray
Whoever wasn't shown in the frame was baiting the poor kid, and his body posture showed that he hadn't an inkling what was coming next.
The assailant should be caught and charged.
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@ask_aubry
Yep. Women existing. Men objectifying. Not all men, ofc. But it does get boring real fast.
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@ask_aubry
I've encountered incidences w/ other young women about this type of behaviour. When the women talk about it, they include not just their reaction but their own behaviour (hers) as tho' they are reverse-engineering the situation to make him look better. He's a bully. He's abusive.
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@ask_aubry
In time perhaps, Lola will talk about what actually happened but we can read between the lines; she was woken up, reacted strongly (and rightly so) and showed the OP's brother that she's not one to fcuk with, at all, not ever... the OP should read this again, not ever!
And for
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@ask_aubry
An older brother (mid-50s) of a friend of mine did this; he flew to Russia to find himself an 'Eastern' wife in her 20s, who didn't have higher education. He returned to Canada and initiated the process to bring her here, to emigrate bcus she agreed to be his wife.
Fast forward
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@ask_aubry
The issue isn't that women are independent, but that men are not independent w/o women to pick up after them, to cook, clean and idolize them... at least in cultures that continue to perpetuate patriarchal values.
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@ask_aubry
So tired of reading the tolerance level of women to their husband's mistreatment.
Why is it a requisite that married couples sleep together? Sleep is the single most vital element in a person's life, along with air, water and food - all of which we cannot do without, so why
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If he has boundaries, and has put a lot of thought into it, which isn't an unreasonable idea, then by this logic, she too is allowed to set boundaries, one of which might just be the freedom to run naked in the streets in Ibiza. A girl's gotta have her time alone IMO.
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Hysterical. Men are highly skilled with time-management. Right-o! Men delegate the bulk of housework to their wives, freeing up their time, not hers, while scratching their heads, "Why isn't she sexually aroused by me anymore?" Hmmmm. Tricky question.
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@OliLondonTV
At least they'll be able to update their future resume to indicate: Hamas-terrorist simp 2023-2024
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This is very disturbing to say the least. I've heard this from a number of attached women, i.e. "I've told my daughters, 'don't leave me alone with your father if I get really sick'..." or another version, "I hope my husband dies before I do when we both get old bcus I know I
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It's one thing to have a knock-down argument, every blue moon, with a family member - you know between mom and daughter, father and son, sibling to sibling, because there's an undercurrent of love that is buried deep, and there are decades under each other's belt.
However,
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@CureBore
@InsaneRealitys
Deadly and devastating. 🤬😭Meeting a stranger on a dating APP isn't bad or wrong but it is foolhardy to regard them as safe or a friend; you don't know them; you owe them nothing!
You must only meet in public, on a patio, during the day, and end it after one hour, maybe two
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@melissablake
From small minds come small-minded thoughts. So glad to read that your strength of character rises above insensitive and cruel hatred.
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@HWickersWriter
Damn right she was in the right to keep her second seat, paid for, lock stock and barrel. When I flew back from Peru, I had pre-paid my seat in advance (paid an extra $100 to cherry-pick the seat), only for a Mom to park her keister in my seat, telling me to take another seat, as
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Division of labor is a discussion that must occur before couples move in together. Chores, how $$$ is wasted, saved and on what it's spent, plus how free time is used - these are the deal breakers, which brings me to my final point: She reached her breaking point and can't go
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He cares more about what his family thinks of him than he does of what she thinks of him. Basically it's all about him.
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Ah... yeah... but no. Anytime someone tells me they did something 'for my benefit' without prior knowledge of their pre-meditated action, they not only want to hold the reins of control but they want to be sure that you're in no position to stop them.
She is devastated by his
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Assault is a deal-breaker for me. I'm funny this way. Hit me once and you better make sure I don't ever get back up again.
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Simple rules for the first date in the 21st Century: meet in public, during the day; never get into their car; don't meet at a hotel, don't shell out $$$ in advance, don't accept their offers to pay for anything up front (a form of bartering to leverage more out of you); don't
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Well, in all fairness to Morgan, she just had a baby and based on my second-hand experience of gf's telling me what it was like for them living the first year with 'baby brain', it's perfectly normal that she's missing a few steps, in terms of smacking him upside the head a few
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Mutilation. Subjugation. Subordination. The equivalent would be to hack off half the man's penis. Ironic that this OP speak about the supposed benefits (to themselves) for performing these brutal procedures, often in nonmedical settings, using unhygienic methods and often without
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@TheFigen_
Scientifically we'd be dead long before given that the gravitational pull of a planet this size would have turned out planet upside down on its head, even before we knew what was happening.
But it sure is purty to look at...
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@HundredHistory
@Morbidful
Good. She deserved to be sued as a retaliatory measure and with any luck Banks had hired a good lawyer to file a suit against her for destroying his future as a star prep prospect. Talk about utter devastation to a young man's life.
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Re-read his OP, "... a woman who is submissive and agreeable..." 🤢[Both are code words for I need to be able to control you]
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What would he have done if it was her who had blown thru $6K and lied, ignored, and obliterated the evening?
He needs to get on a payment plan, to pay back the $6K and to seriously check his behaviour at the door.
If she chooses to dump him, or take a break from him, there's
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I'm just going to leave this here... [from women they want devotion, service and sex]. So, yeah, women need protection from this antiquated ideology that may from time to time appear to go underground, but which has never left the collective male mindset, i.e. the old boy's
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@VisionaryVoid
@PicturesFoIder
Good! Solution: Place collar around neck of TSA agent and yank it for no good reason until he is made to feel the way he treated the woofins. No excuse!
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@integritycdn
Keep truckin' along everyone. Keep on pumping more CO2's into the atmosphere. Keep on burning them fossil fuels. Keep on with pollution, energy consumption (like drunken sailors), deforestation, plastic pollution... no problem here folks.
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@LindseyMarie_xo
@ask_aubry
Agreed. Lack of empathy, lack of remorse, lack of decency and perspective, to see their wives, gf's as whole individuals, rather than extensions of their desires.
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@crazyclipsonly
Maybe dad was getting too upset or maybe he was in fact showing restraint.
This has happened to other people in front of me at the cash (in a pharmacy), buying a personal item and the cashier wanted a price check, so she yelled out the name of the item to another cashier -
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Brilliant response on her part: No. There are very few parts in the word 'no' that cannot be understood, even in multiple languages. Same goes for expansion: No! [Now if he doesn't mind, can she get back to grieving in peace, puh-lease?].
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😂😅🤣"... like why does this happen?..."
It's OK to be bisexual, srsly, which just means you like swinging both ways.
What I don't understand is why do men who like to use the expression "I don't believe in labels," are the first men who hide the fact that they swing both
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There are micro-aggressions (eye rolling, dismissing a person's feelings, telling a thin person they need to eat more) and then there are the bona-fide aggressions, the flat-out demonstrations of seething hatred, such as when a husband (or a wife) hurls anything in the direction
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To all the women in these types of relationships, if ever his hand slips just once, or if there is even one incident of violence toward you, this is your deal breaker and you should leave that relationship ASAP, even if you have to exit w/ barely the clothes on your back. If it
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Serving the birth of nations for millennia, dishing out pleasure for the owner of this remarkable female body part - I'd say this is a win-win all around.
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Pharmacists too are misguided. I asked one once where they kept their Midol on the shelves, for period cramps, to which he replied, "We don't carry it." Oh. OK, I thought, so I asked about their Advil, as an alternative, to which he replied, "You don't need Advil."
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Riiight um 10-4 no. If I stepped into a man's place and saw that it was a pigsty, food on the counter, dishes in the sink, clutter, unkempt bed, whatever... I'd turn around and head out through the front door.
Hire a maid.
Wanna test a woman to see if she's girlfriend
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@DoomScroling
Draconian laws that force women back into the Dark Ages. It's time that women rise up in states like Tennessee.
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Good question! I look for cleanliness, counter-tops that are not cluttered with dirty dishes; a made-bed, a clean bathroom, etc.
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Meningitis is quite serious, and can cause swelling of the brain, leading to death (for some within hours) so mom to hop onto the next plane makes perfect sense. Perhaps he should have suggested it himself because a honeymoon can be postponed, especially when dealing with a
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@ask_aubry
Agreed. I read the whole post and I didn't get that, that he had his face pulverized. The strength of women can often surprise men. This tells me that he was doing something more that had elicited her intense reaction.
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The real question worth asking: Could you accept/respect a man who's served prison time for rape? Which is to say, if the man has paid his debt to society, could you then look past this and accept him?
I think a man might be more forgiving but as a woman, it would more than
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@Paultheheretic
Historically, women have been condemned if they get pregnant, in non-ideal conditions, and condemned if they don't get pregnant, despite ideal conditions (to produce an heir).
And as for the men who impregnate and leave, I can think of a few choice words; first one I'll share
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@Morbidful
He left his mark. Would have preferred to see more of his work but some bright stars burn brightest before they're gone way too soon.
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@ask_aubry
Precisely! And it's when these creepy guys travel into countries like Cambodia and Vietnam to have sex with nine year-olds, that just hearing about them makes my skin crawl.
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"Peak female delusion"... Tate managed to write without spelling mistakes. Tate's ego and what he promotes to wannabes that follow the likes of him only prove to me that their script cannot change; otherwise it will die.
Lupita Nyongo is a successful, strong and stunning woman.
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equally as terrifying is the fact that he shows no fear whatsoever for openly threatening to assault her 'bloody'
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Good on her. And yeah, that's precisely what the individual was doing, attempting to justify and diminish that guy's behaviour. She had explained herself clearly, why she wasn't coming in.
One time on-site at work, a Director had made an off-hand comment to me, to the effect of,
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Maids are paid for their time, as are escorts for theirs. His offer is a 'reasonable consideration' for her time. Bite me.
This is so creepy bcus there's an articulate level to how this has been composed: worship my offer to clean up after me, then make yourself available for me
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@ask_aubry
Useless at 30?!!!!! Huh? Take it from me, you are but a babe, honestly and truly. You're so young that when you look back on this age, when you hit 60, you'll realize that you have sold yourself a bill of sale. So U-turn this attitude and revel in your youth, beauty and how it's
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Horrific tragedy, the bi-product of treating females like chattel (enslaved), of which 90% are obligated to arranged marriages. My initial take: the brother was covering up his crime by assigning the blame to his sister, i.e. did he rape her?
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@ask_aubry
I asked my mom once to describe marriage, given her generation, to which she replied, "The woman puts in 80% and takes out 20% and the man puts in 20% and takes out 80%." That answer has stuck with me, like forever. I don't need or want to live with someone; we can each have our
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I quote a female friend, "You want to put me in the mood?" she asked of her husband. "Good, then try cleaning the bathroom for a change, rather than me begging you to pull your weight around the house." It's not easy to be horny when you're exhausted.
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These posts of yours Aubry are so hard to read, most of the times. However, what you're doing by sharing these stories is a public service to every woman, for the young, middle-aged and older, but mostly I think for young women to empower them, not to endure for one bit the utter
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Very kind of him to reinforce this fact of life: woman serves man... However, and if I may, some women have taken this edict to heart, and have 'served' their man poison, straight up by spoon, slipped into tea, put into his food. I say men with grandiose designs on their
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@Anunnabalance
@ClownWorld_
Correction: Men can have it both ways. Women attempt to but are judged more harshly (by men & women). Life is rarely a fair affair.
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He wants an explanation as to why it took her 'so long' to reply? Huh? How is one hour too long? How about one day? One week?
When you see the tip of the iceberg, in terms of either his or her controlling behaviour, if you have to reply back justifying your actions from the
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@MixtrixFix
@HWickersWriter
Agreed. I'm an aisle person too, but what I hate is the presumption of others who figure, well I'll just help myself and take what I need, never mind about what you had paid for upfront.
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@ask_aubry
This is why Keanu Reeves is so beloved, and also bcus he's the coolest. His current girlfriend is the same age as his decade. Women in their 40s are physiologically suited to guys in their early 20s as both are at their peaks. The notion of very mature men going after really
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@ask_aubry
This is an ideal time to post this Internationally-accepted image recognized for women who are in danger and/or in distress at home:
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@crazyclipsonly
Leave a polite note on the door, stating your request. My neighbour has two small dogs who are left alone far too frequently for the entire day, resulting in them barking non-stop for hours. One note and my neighbour went to the trouble to find a babysitter down the hall for
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@buitengebieden
They have a sweet nature, dutiful and purposeful. I kept waiting for this guy/gal to gnaw on the bannister wood.
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@1followernodad
Mark Twain, "A lie can travel half way around the world, while the truth is putting on its shoes."
So if Nicholson has had his assault crimes against sex-trade workers hidden all these years (despicable creep).. very happy to read that they are now coming out.
Women choose the
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@ask_aubry
He's allowed to pay special attention to whoever he wishes, which is precisely how he behaves.
She too can play this game with him, to ignore him entirely when in the company of other men.
But in elevating the status of other women while in the company of his wife, she's more
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Had a friend whose gynecologist was a man with a thick Scottish accent and he referred to lady parts as her 'wee twitch'. Dayum. That made me laugh. Don't know though if he was this gorgeous.
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@ask_aubry
Put-downs, over bearing behavior and a short temper - all are danger signals. Watch out for these vs. a laid back dude, one who's able to regulate his emotions, he's damn interesting and sexy all at once and it's good for your health to get all over this 😘
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