I’ve never celebrated motherhood like I did last week when my first born welcomed my last born into big school during tie ceremony! I’ve never experienced such emotions! A new kind of happiness and gratitude was birthed within me 🥰🥰🥰
No offence to believers, but not all problems need a prayer. Some need money right now, some need medical attention, some need professional assistance such as psychologists, lawyers, etc. So, please read the room before ukhulume…
Kanti guys, how do you manage to get your sons to reputable soccer academies/professional soccer clubs?
Please hook me up. I beg you! My son is talented and his talent must be nurtured correctly. Ngiyacela 🙏
When growing up, I decided that I’ll never get married because everyone close to me was in a toxic marriage. This guy convinced me that I shouldn’t live my life based on other people’s experiences, then he showed me flames 🥴
Kukhona le-pain that you don’t share with anyone. It cuts so deep that you choose to be in denial about it…Adulting is not what we ordered, but we’ll be fine 🙂
It took me 2 yrs to remove my wedding ring after my divorce. Yes, I was at peace that the marriage didn’t work since I believe we tried everything to make it work. However, my ring had become a part of me, hence I had a special bond with it. Emotional matters shouldn’t b rushed
Ladies and gents, I recently heard (from an attorney) ukuthi lobola ceremony defaults you to “marriage in-community of property” if negotiations concluded prior to you entering into a prenup 😉
After a messy divorce settlement, I got depressed. Then I lost my main income because of depression, which messed me up completely…I’m slowly getting back up now
I low-key hate alcohol 😏
1. I lost my one and only brother
2. My first boyfriend (ex) passed away while also intoxicated
3. Lost my home (where I grew up)
4. It contributed to my divorce
I know some people drink in moderation, however it still triggers me and scares me 😏
@Thush_Mcobothi
@Mdakani_tv2
How many kids does she have? Is she willing to relocate?
I don’t need a helper, however I can hire her until she gets something more stable. I can arrange for her and her kids to get counselling from one of the NPOs in my town…
@Doublevum
Yeah. They wear a different uniform in Grade R, so they have a tie ceremony on their first day of Grade 1 to formally welcome them to big school 😄
Mina guys, I want a person who will add value to my life; be it a friend or a partner…Your presence must improve my life somehow, otherwise you are wasting my time 🥴
@uThembs_
Sorry beautiful. Please don’t beat yourself up about it…This is about his weaknesses, so don’t blame yourself in anyway…If he was mature and considerate, he wasn’t gonna string you along
Be kind to yourself and take care 🤍
One of the secrets to happiness is spoiling yourself regularly. Breadwinners have a habit of neglecting themselves…Be intentional about spoiling yourself to avoid being resentful towards your dependents
@PapaaMama_Bona
@Thush_Mcobothi
I get your point my brother, however even some biological fathers do it too…The long term, sustainable solution is for your gender to introspect, reflect, & take a decisive decision on how they can end this cruel behaviour. Even those who are innocent have power to do something
Indoda eshadile ingikhulumela i-nonsense. Ithi it would be best for me to date him because I know he’s married than dating an unmarried guy who’ll dribble me 🙄…Told him I rather be dribbled 🚮
My deepest wish was to be permanently based in Pmb, so I can spend more time with my babies. My wish came true sooner than I expected. I’m a happy mom 🥰
@fredtheinvestor
I’m in finance and academia by profession, however I love proof-reading and editing professional documents e.g. reports, assignments, thesis and so on.
Do you have any input on how I can turn it into a side hustle?
@thandoyenkosi
Is it about being made a wife or being with someone you love? 🤔
I personally would rather have a short-term relationship with someone I dearly love than settling long-term for someone who’s not my type
Is it normal to find closure while still in a relationship? I have developed a consistent tendency to find closure before the relationship ends (be it romantic, friendship or work-related) 🙃
@Naledi1818
I’m happy you said “personally”…Some people disconnect with their spiritual beings when they are facing deep life challenges, hence other sources of help are more relevant to them at that particular moment/during that phase