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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I’ve never celebrated motherhood like I did last week when my first born welcomed my last born into big school during tie ceremony! I’ve never experienced such emotions! A new kind of happiness and gratitude was birthed within me 🥰🥰🥰
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
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Fruits of my labour 😌🙌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
To 35 years and counting! 🥂🥳
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
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No offence to believers, but not all problems need a prayer. Some need money right now, some need medical attention, some need professional assistance such as psychologists, lawyers, etc. So, please read the room before ukhulume…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Kanti guys, how do you manage to get your sons to reputable soccer academies/professional soccer clubs? Please hook me up. I beg you! My son is talented and his talent must be nurtured correctly. Ngiyacela 🙏
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
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I want a person who will baby me regularly. I’m tired of being a strong woman. Ngifuna ukutefa nami 💅
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
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My monthly PAYE can cover my car’s instalment and one of my bonds. Our tax system is unreasonable! Employee tax is the enemy of progress 😪
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
When growing up, I decided that I’ll never get married because everyone close to me was in a toxic marriage. This guy convinced me that I shouldn’t live my life based on other people’s experiences, then he showed me flames 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
4 years
My toys 😍🥰❤️... #independentladies 🥂
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
Whoever invented this girl is a star
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
My baby! 🥰
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
I’m tired and I have lost interest in everything. I’m literally on autopilot
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
When should one accept defeat in this life thing and stop trying?
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Kukhona le-pain that you don’t share with anyone. It cuts so deep that you choose to be in denial about it…Adulting is not what we ordered, but we’ll be fine 🙂
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I used this padlock in 2005 at res when doing my first year. Now, I’m using it for my locker at gym 😝…Nginempatho! 😉
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
It took me 2 yrs to remove my wedding ring after my divorce. Yes, I was at peace that the marriage didn’t work since I believe we tried everything to make it work. However, my ring had become a part of me, hence I had a special bond with it. Emotional matters shouldn’t b rushed
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Ladies and gents, I recently heard (from an attorney) ukuthi lobola ceremony defaults you to “marriage in-community of property” if negotiations concluded prior to you entering into a prenup 😉
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Reality is; life goes on with or without you…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
After a messy divorce settlement, I got depressed. Then I lost my main income because of depression, which messed me up completely…I’m slowly getting back up now
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
I’m now 100% convinced that over-thinkers should only date effective communicators
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
My family wants me to remarry, but my biggest concern is losing my freedom…Freedom to just be and do as I please 😌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
They assume that I’m married 🙄
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
My income is exactly where I want it to be! I’m grateful 🥲 🙌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Gents, if you and your partner already have kids from previous relationships; is it necessary to have another one after you get married? 🤔
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Fragile, but lively 😌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I low-key hate alcohol 😏 1. I lost my one and only brother 2. My first boyfriend (ex) passed away while also intoxicated 3. Lost my home (where I grew up) 4. It contributed to my divorce I know some people drink in moderation, however it still triggers me and scares me 😏
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
When I was 18 and innocent 😌…Let’s see your teenage-self 😝
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I was crying (when I took this photo izolo), but no tears were coming out…Had to go home ngiyoncela, ngabuya sengi-right ☺️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
The only make up I know is a bit of lipstick 😁
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@Thush_Mcobothi @Mdakani_tv2 How many kids does she have? Is she willing to relocate? I don’t need a helper, however I can hire her until she gets something more stable. I can arrange for her and her kids to get counselling from one of the NPOs in my town…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@thabetheim @Real_Msimango Kodwa still we don’t get leyo-everything 🚮
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Day 6 of sugar-free diet ☺️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Sbwl ukumitha 🥰
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Solo-work coffee date 🤓
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
I look so much like my dad lately
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@lekoloanemanam2 Could be that she lost weight and it fell-off without her noticing 🤷‍♀️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Umfana ovakashela imama elengise izandla (no flowers, no chocolate, not even snacks nje) 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@allthingsgreyy All of them
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@SirGamede I’m doing everything you’ve mentioned except for paying bribes. I’m not gonna do it
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Why nifuna ukuncengwa about reassuring us uma sesiniqomile? 👀🤷‍♀️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
MaNjoms ☺️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
If they want to, they will 🤷‍♀️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@Doublevum Yeah. They wear a different uniform in Grade R, so they have a tie ceremony on their first day of Grade 1 to formally welcome them to big school 😄
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Ngisayodlala neziny’ingane 😋
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
99% of people I’ve opened up to have either used that information to spite me, or to take advantage of me…So, being a closed book is the way to go…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@au_badela 1987 = 35
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
10 months
In my “I know my worth” era 🤌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
@Naytholo No, thank you
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
I forgot my glasses in the car; now I’m wearing sunglasses indoors because everything is blurry if I remove them 🙃
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@Neliswa_Nelli Average 😁
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@Camberry_cam Your son is outgoing. Remember when he went on a shopping spree at school?! 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Bengigqoke this 8 year-old outfit izolo. Ziyithandile izinsizwa 😝
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Bigger person akasekho. I’m revealing the other side of me 🙂
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Mina guys, I want a person who will add value to my life; be it a friend or a partner…Your presence must improve my life somehow, otherwise you are wasting my time 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@GrantWahl Weren’t you aware of this?
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Guys, apart from gifts; what else do you appreciate on your birthdays?
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@aubrey_sizwe @ZANewsFlash She shouldn’t be forced to forgive either
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@uThembs_ Sorry beautiful. Please don’t beat yourself up about it…This is about his weaknesses, so don’t blame yourself in anyway…If he was mature and considerate, he wasn’t gonna string you along Be kind to yourself and take care 🤍
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
I only have two resolutions: 1. Physical fitness 2. Financial freedom
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Is it reasonable to presume that a person who hates you also hate your kids?
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@Real_LeFranc @thickmammie I literally begged him to request for permission to be paired with his brother. He charged me R20 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
A dreadlocked Chartered Accountant 🙄
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@gpdkaluma
Hon. George Peter Kaluma, CBS. MP.
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@SekuruRoddie Imagine your doctor, Lawyer, Engineer in dreadlocks 🏃🏃
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
My trust issues don’t allow me to buy online
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
My co-parenting is so healthy lately. It feels great when things are falling into place 😌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
One of the secrets to happiness is spoiling yourself regularly. Breadwinners have a habit of neglecting themselves…Be intentional about spoiling yourself to avoid being resentful towards your dependents
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
My little one is asking ukuthi why am I slim and where is my wedding ring 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@BellaTakwana Because we don’t tolerate nonsense...And we are stereotyped for being arrogant...
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@kundaiiiiii Yazi you wouldn’t be asking us this nonsense ukube wonk’umuntu uhleli kubo
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I love nature 😌🥰🤍
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@Forever_BlackZN Sikhona 😍
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
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2 years
@Nkosi_bam @ZANewsFlash Manje kumele aqambe amanga ngokuthi uzizwa kanjani? 🤷‍♀️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
It’s been more than 5 years since we parted ways with my co-parent, but we still can’t be civil with each other 🚮
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
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@phumeekubheka Babezithambisa: lack of physical exercise, indlela yokugqoka, staying in toxic marriages, etc
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@PapaaMama_Bona @Thush_Mcobothi I get your point my brother, however even some biological fathers do it too…The long term, sustainable solution is for your gender to introspect, reflect, & take a decisive decision on how they can end this cruel behaviour. Even those who are innocent have power to do something
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
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@KwaziMaAsk I agree with you. Marriage needs a lot of work. Being considerate, understanding and compassionate is necessary for it to work
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Indoda eshadile ingikhulumela i-nonsense. Ithi it would be best for me to date him because I know he’s married than dating an unmarried guy who’ll dribble me 🙄…Told him I rather be dribbled 🚮
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
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2 years
@Motla_M A husband can be a leader if he honours his duty to love his wife. Submitting usually comes naturally when you feel loved
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@sphola_rose Thank you for a delivery. Don’t call me, I’ll call you 😂
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
I don’t think I can spend a whole week with umfana bandla, I really value my space 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
10 months
Relationships are wild. You meet a stranger, then you trust them with your life 🥴
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Thank you so much for all the guidance, referrals, and well wishes! It really takes a village to raise a child! 🥹🙌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
How many soulmates does the universe allocate per person? 🤔
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Sisterhood 🥰❤️❤️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Once upon a time…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
My deepest wish was to be permanently based in Pmb, so I can spend more time with my babies. My wish came true sooner than I expected. I’m a happy mom 🥰
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
In my opinion, they settle where they want to settle…
@LebogangNM
Ke Motloung🐘
3 years
A man settles where he finds peace. Not beauty, not money, not status... BUT PEACE.
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
If you think you are always right in a relationship, then you are more toxic than you think 👎
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Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Eventful month! 😅
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@fredtheinvestor I’m in finance and academia by profession, however I love proof-reading and editing professional documents e.g. reports, assignments, thesis and so on. Do you have any input on how I can turn it into a side hustle?
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
1 year
I never thought I would experience being loved correctly 🥹
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Co-parenting needs ukuncengwa. At least one party must be really calm and tolerant for it to have a chance of “life”…
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
Another thing about male besties; they play the role of being a brother very well! They are present, supportive and tell it like it is👌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
@thandoyenkosi Is it about being made a wife or being with someone you love? 🤔 I personally would rather have a short-term relationship with someone I dearly love than settling long-term for someone who’s not my type
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Please let’s respect one another kuma-DMs. Don’t ask me: 1. My body count 2. When last I got laid Sibadala please 🙄
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Is it normal to find closure while still in a relationship? I have developed a consistent tendency to find closure before the relationship ends (be it romantic, friendship or work-related) 🙃
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
3 years
Me and my guardian angel having fun izolo 🥰…Indeed we meet people for a reason! 🙌
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
I’m wearing a pencil skirt and heels today, so I’m feeling myself 😝☺️
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@Ntobeko_Njomane
Ntobeko 🌸
2 years
@Naledi1818 I’m happy you said “personally”…Some people disconnect with their spiritual beings when they are facing deep life challenges, hence other sources of help are more relevant to them at that particular moment/during that phase
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