You really can’t be cheap when doing for yourself .. cause if you are that just means you don’t believe you can get it back & that definitely sounds like a discussion you need to have with yourself .
Ppl will look deep dark in the depths of your life/soul to find the bad they are so in desperately in need of finding in order to justify the bull shit they are looking to be on . Don’t take it personally because those people are likely miserable as it gets as it is .