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When a man tells me he's looking for a 'real woman' I scurry away because I'm actually three owls in a raincoat AND HE MUSTN'T FIND OUT.
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Was hugging my dad a final goodbye at the airport and he literally told me (while I was CRYING) to... lose weight. Damn man is there anything else people think about when they see fat women or nah, like this is my biggest fear: my weight is all anyone sees and it's fuckin true
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Whenever I go to pee in the middle of the night, I ALWAYS kiss my boyfriend on his body before going back to sleep. He always chirps in his sleep when I do. Today for the first time I forgot to do it & he was fast asleep and he WOKE UP and said no kiss?! I'd die for this man.
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Men mansplain to me more often than not. Men I love. My own boyfriend.
What I hate about this is I can never call them out. I see the annoyance in their eyes because they don't think it is mansplaining (lol), the few times I have called them out. They think I'm overreacting.
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Since I got engaged all I've gotten is "Congratulations!" & "He's so tall, you're so lucky!". My fiancè on the other hand is getting "it's all downhill from here 🤣🤣🤣" sir I have single handedly improved the quality of his life but ok
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I was showing my mom my friends photo and the first thing she said was that she's still fat. Instead of snapping at her I just looked at her, held her hand, and said mama I'm so sorry that you were bullied for being fat as a little girl. She was taken aback but nodded silently.
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Can someone tell me ~exACtly~ when the world is ending so I can start travelling the world and quit my job and stop caring about losing weight thanks
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A heartbreaking thing that Pakistani women have internalised is lying to our parents. We lie about who we are, how religious we are, what we are doing, who we are with. I wish I didn't have to, but I will constantly have to: bec our parents' love comes w terms & conditions.
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my boyfriend is sleeping but I want a cuddle???? is it wrong to wake him up """accidentally""" for some cuddles? do men even deserve sleep? no
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You know what surprises me? After fully knowing what happens in childbirth (and if you don't, you DEFINITELY shouldn't reproduce), men go all "YEP, I want that to happen to the love of my life."
Only women should be allowed to have an opinion on this. It's their body.
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I literally ran away from Muslim countries so they could not throw Quranic verses at me about not showing my beauty to anyone other than my husband etc. I got to Canada only to be told by Muslims here that I can't critique Islam it's Islamophobic. Lol so when can I call shit out?
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Men constantly forget that women who have casual sex aren't 'easy'. If anything, they're quite hard to sex up. Do you know how much choice you have when you're okay with just sleeping around minus a relationship? Men are FALLING OVER THEMSELVES. Why the FUCK would she choose you?
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Women make sooooooo many accommodations for their husband's family and that is just the expectation. If the husband makes any accommodations for his in-laws, everyone starts handing him awards. And it's not even remotely the same kind of compromises. lol h8 it here
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I just booked my first therapist's appointment today!!!! I'm so HAPPY and EXCITED I took this step!!!
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21st century men are the biggest scam, y'all. They don't know how to cook or clean BUT they ALSO don't know how to assemble furniture or make more money than you or figure out the tech stuff. SURPRISE: you gotta do it all yourself. Amazing. Wow. Shoot me.
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90 people have died in Karachi, Pakistan during monsoon but no one in this part of the world ever talks about it. Brown lives aren't worth talking about. If this was Paris, there's be headlines and donations pouring in from everywhere.
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Straight men are such a scam. My boyfriend loves to think that he can clean but I assure you, ladies, he does not. He can't even scrub the tub or mop the floor. It's a lazy attempt at best. Then women end up cleaning AND cooking, even with feminist men. We're exactly our moms.
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A stranger on the internet called me fat today (it was a woman and she had hella internalised misogyny) as an insult and honestly I went through my profile pictures again and instead of a happy girl, I saw a fat girl. I worked so hard to forget that was my main identifier.
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The amount of women who will admit in private how much they regret childbirth / having children is.. astounding. Men literally think we out here wanna rip our vaginas apart lol no
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When I was 18 I thought I would get married by 22 & be a good wife (& no shade if u r!!!) but I just did LSD yday w the coolest girls and broke down the patriarchy and privilege as WoC while being 30 & unmarried. life is full of experiences I never thought I'd have.
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I absolutely LOVE telling men they're overreacting, delusional, to relax, chill, to not overthink...
They always get SO MAD and then I get to tell them they're being emotional.
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I want to talk about how marriage affected me and my partner who were already living together for 2+ years and were together for 3.5 years overall. For all purposes and not to anger the Muslimeen, we are irreligious.
A 🧵
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Can you be a diehard romantic and also a huge commitment phobe at the same time? Asking for a friend.
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I have seen friends stop commenting on my looks even when I look cute AF and they only say I look good when I am losing weight.
Please compliment your fat friends. Wearing a crop top is a whole battle for us. It's literally rebelling against beauty standards.
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My fiancè scoffed at his friends for using shampoo + conditioner hybrids with SLS. "Can you believe they wash their hair EVERY day, Aiman?", he shakes his head. Yeah, my guy, I do believe it bec when I met you, you was using a 5-in-1. Humble yourself.
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I told a man I wasn't into going on a date w him after chatting w him for a week-ish and he got so mad he blocked me and reported me to Hinge for abuse. Rejection is not abuse, Ahsan (names have not been changed lol)
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Honestly I respect all those women that do things their society tells them not to do. Drinking, smoking, having lots of casual sex, being fat, dark-skinned, hairy, irreligious etc. You'll are my heroes and I'm also learning to be myself more and more thanks to you guys.
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I remember a few years ago I used to say I hate men and some of my girl friends would go MAN you're a bit ~eXtRemE~ and now they're all misandrists. I love glow ups.
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And this is why I will always say all men. Because even good ass men are men at the end of the day. They've got unlearning to do and it won't happen in a day. Constantly working on yourself isn't easy. But I want men to push through the annoyance of constantly being told off.
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Oh my God I'm on some woman's fridge THAT'S IT GUYS I'VE PEAKED this was my purpose in life.
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If any men feel threatened or annoyed by the Women's March, first of all, lol. Second of all, good.
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Skincare internet terrifies me bec I definitely don't do enough and will this mean all my friends will have youthful skin while I decompose in front of their eyes????
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My nips were out at Pride and not 1 person stared (I wore lingerie) and I was like wow is this what it's like to be a man?! Felt awesome. 100% recommend.
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Men I love get upset -- and these are GOOD men. The men in my life are probably some of the bestest I've met. That doesn't mean they're not men though. They are ~usually~ open to feminist critique. But if we can't feel comfortable telling these men how to be better -- do you see?
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Yo no jokes I was single for most of my life and ACHED for love but JESUS FUCK when I found it I did not expect it to OPEN MY HEART LIKE THIS sorry my boyfriend is PRECIOUS and it HURTS MY HEART to think about him 🥺🥺🥺
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Do u see where I am going with this?
And again, it's not like my boyfriend or my friends have created an environment where I can't speak to them, but there's years of inequality. I know feminist allies know this already: listen to women. But I mean it truly. Listen, all the time.
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take it from a fat girl whose weight fluctuates, your partner should love you regardless of your size. honestly if true love is anything, it's this. you are not just sexual beings to each other, you are truly and wholly in love w this person.
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Imagine, I'm asking men to not get annoyed by being called out on mansplaining. Do you men have ANY idea of what it feels like to be mansplained by ALL men ALL your life? That's why tone-policing us is irrelevant, it's definitely not something an ally should do. And yes, all men.
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You know what sucks? Actively loving someone and finding out they are manipulative and mean and narcissistic. You kick yourself for not knowing any better. How come you didn't see it? The signs were all there.
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My father just said Taliban's govt is "moderate" -- I want someone to come at me when I say m3n are tr
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and say uR fAThR aLso?
yes.
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I feel awful for women in Pakistan. I'm sorry. I'm so so sorry. I hope all of you can leave but I know the reality. Today I am thinking of all of you.
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Is there a way to have discourse around being comfortable in your body without your friends telling you OMG BUT YOU'RE SO BEAUTIFUL JUST THE WAY U R!? I KNOW I am hot stuff lol I also know I'm conventionally attractive. Just bec I talked about being fat doesn't mean I don't know.
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It doesn't make you a bad feminist ally if you mansplained. Just try to figure out when you do so and you can't do this without being called out. So maybe keep the annoyance out of your tone, your eyes. Just swiftly acknowledge, apologise, and move on.
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Yaar I'm tired. I'm tired of arguing w my dad about female witnesses (2 for 1 man) @ my nikkah. Of arguing w my friends about the compromises they expect from their female partners. Of explaining why Qandeel was a feminist icon, why Noor was allowed to have a boyfriend. Exhausted
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I wish being fat didn't take over my life. My mother is constantly telling me I am fat. I think about it every time I consume food (from the healthy foods to the unhealthy ones). It has seriously consumed me and yet I am unable to do anything about it for some reason.
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I srsly believe men aren't equal to women because women are far more intelligent and smarter just based on experience alone. They understand nuance far better than men, and it doesn't matter how much more verbose he is sis or how many degrees he got. One thing I know is men dumb.
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Things I hate:
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can we quickly talk about how being called "photogenic" is absolutely a back-handed compliment? sis u out here sayin' I ain't as stunning in real life and DAS RUDE!!!!
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I finally put my WhatsApp pic w my partner bec now that we're engaged, my family has told extended family and I can be PUBLIC w him and guys 🥺🥺 Even as a cishet girl, it took so long.
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can fat girls talk about being fat without their friends & fam rushing to tell them they're "absolutely beautiful" & "perfect just the way they are" lol WE KNOW, we just would like u to acknowledge ur internalised fatphobia and listen to our experiences. tf is wrong w u all???
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I fuckin' hate men who think they know everything. They always act """logical"""" and roll their eyes at your """"uneducated opinion"""" even tho they know diddly squat about the subject, but DAMN if they will ever admit it.
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It's Ramadan so please spare a thought for your neighborhood atheists. Some of them have to pretend to fast even though they don't want to because they live with their parents. Muslims love saying there is no compulsion in religion but a lot of people around me are forced.
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Why do white people go, all astonished,"Omg you TOUCH UR BUTT???" when I explain to them what my bidet is for. I sure hope you atleast touch your butt to wash it in the shower, Susan, or has your butthole never seen water?????
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It's ALWAYS our own insecurities. She passed them onto me, and I refuse to let the cycle continue. I am actively following fat / different bodies on Insta so I'm aware what the world looks like and how it's okay to show that tummy and double chin on your photo. It's a part of you
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in ur 30s, u'll find a lot of women telling u they're thinking about divorce. please for the love of GOD when they confide in u, whole-heartedly support them. they need support and that's what they're looking for & u telling them marriage is hard, men are just this way, ain't it!
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As a woman, I feel free. I feel seen, respected, liberated. I wish marriage didn't have to provide these freedoms for me. Nothing at all has changed in our lives away from family. We continue as we did. If it wasn't for my parents, I wouldn't have done this at all.
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Whenever I give a job interview I always check out the bathroom stalls because I wanna know what place I'm going to be crying in
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Also, I've worked so hard to think fat isn't bad. It's not easy when you're surrounded by ur skinny friends constantly telling u they're so upset they've gained weight. But u work on it and you appreciate fat bodies and slowly you start to be ok w urs. But it's SO easy to undo.
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I started wearing whatever I wanted. Crop tops. My legs in their full glory. No more changing in the car: I now belong to another man! And I get to say he LIKES the way I dress and all the Islam goes out of the window bec in the end it wasn't about modesty it was about control ☺️
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In b4 some chutiya tells me I'm hanging out w the wrong men in my life and mansplains my life to me :)))
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I truly hate Pakistan and yet I sometimes cry at patriotic songs. I realised today why that is: I WANT Pakistan to love & respect me but it will never happen. It could never be a safe haven and accept me for who I am. It would literally kill me. Happy Independence Day, I guess.
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I'm too high and my boyfriend was at the grocery store and he has no idea what cilantro is and I was afraid he was gonna get me parsley (again) so I messaged
@sheikhimaan
to text him the difference and anyway everyone should have a best friend like this
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I don't think enough desis criticise their own parents and that's fucked up. It's in-built in our culture to glorify and romanticize the 'sacrifices' they made -- which they constantly remind us of and use it to emotionally manipulate us.
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I didn't mean my thread about being called fat to turn into people telling me I'm gorgeous & I hope I realise that. Guys, I can't begin to tell you how painfully aware I am of how attractive I am. I truly think I'm hot stuff. It's a burden.
Thanks tho, it doesn't hurt to hear it!
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'Woke' skinny girls are so CASUALLY fatphobic on insta. they talk about getting rid of their "double chin" and "arm flab" and "food baby". pls fam have 1 empathy
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How do plus sized models have thighs bigger than me and waists smaller than me and absolutely zero back fat?????
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One of the reasons my boyfriend's mom isn't accepting me is that she's mad that I'm Pakistani (she is Indian). Same, girl, same. I'm also BIG MAD I'm Pakistani.
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I get so excited about my future whenever I think about the fact that we won't have kids so no need to buy a house, we can buy a spacious condo and not worry about snow removal and gravel replacement and all the things that come w owning a house.
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In b4 someone tells me I'm beautiful -- pls ma'am, I know, that's NOT THE POINT
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Everytime I put up a picture of my cat, atleast one man responds to it saying "nice pussy" and that is all you need to know about the unimaginative cardboard humans that are known as men.
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To all the girls in school who were known as "school sluts": I'm sorry I projected my own insecurities on you by bashing you behind closed doors. I was furious that girls were using their bodies in whichever way they wanted, and didn't act demure or shy about their sexuality.
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I have always known I didn't want kids but I also assumed that it wasn't reallu an option. fast forward to 2day & my parents v clearly hold no expectations after honest convos. i am finally TRULY childfree and it makes me giddy to have that kind of freedom over my life.
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Society lapped it up. My parents have never been happier which is a little sad because I have done far better things than get married. Everyone was BEYOND ecstatic that I found someone just as I turned 30 who doesn't hate me for having opinions? Groundbreaking
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We all play this extreme sport: when we're hanging out on WhatsApp's main dashboard and you see that ONE person who you texted some time ago 'Typing...' and you IMMEDIATELY exit the app so you can safely read the text in the upper nav bar instead.
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Damn does anyone else get triggered when skinny women talk about gaining weight? I always feel like I've gotta tell them OH YOU'RE SO SKINNY THO (bec they are lol) and they'd be like BUT NOOO look at how much weight I've gained. Okay I guess I'll just throw myself off this window
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Millennials ruin EVERYTHING. One even ruined my life!!! Spoiler alert: it's me.
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It should be mandatory for all men to go to therapy before doing ANYTHING
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Me in my Diversity & Inclusion meetings as white people tell me they're NOT racist while not having promoted me in 2 years and paying me lesser than my white counterparts
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Most of my friends' male partners don't do housework or do it incorrectly and I've got my partner cleaning my dildo after we use it. He also cleans the entire house and does all the chores for the cat. I've taught him well.
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I thought I'd hate it when aunties started asking me why m not going to have kids but yday I had a gr8 time asking why I SHOULD. 10/10 would recommend bec there is not a singular reason that makes sense LOL
Have kids if you are fully aware of what it encompasses & still wanna!
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Also people always forget that actual Islamophobes aren't gonna stop and ask me sis how do you identify? They gonna hate on me too. I look and grew up Muslim. They're not mad at Islam sis they're just racist lol.
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Do young women who are having casual sex know that they can get PAID for it???? It opens up a whole new world. Try it, ladies. Make men pay for what the fuck they've put us through.
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We are extremely PDA and we didn't change that in front of my parents and extended family. Nobody said a word, in fact some people actively said we were examples of being v much in love. Desi families need more affection, y'all.
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Not shocked at all. Went on three dates with him and on the third date he told me he's going to get married tomorrow, I've never laughed so hard at the absurdity of this man. A complete weirdo.
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women: pls let us walk home
men: what rights do u NOT have??? women are already given highest uhda in Islam and we are the proof. look my mom doesn't step out of the house and just sits at home mashallah why do u need to leave the house???
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Told my boyfriend to tell me something sweet yesterday & he went quiet and said "I sometimes think about the fact that I have someone I'm completely in love with and I come home to them and wake up to them everyday -- and it seems too good to be true." Anyway, I'm 🥺🥺🥺🥺
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Seeing him bond w my parents and extended fam was v sweet and I wish we were able to do this without the institution of marriage. This was a whole new way of seeing him and I wish we had the privilege of doing it earlier.
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Just because your mental health isn't "as bad" as your friend's, doesn't mean you're meant to make allowances for them on behalf of their mental health and at the cost of yours. That's a toxic friend who needs help and it's okay to bow out -- especially if it's a pattern.
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