Having trouble finding legit subs? Wonder why?
It's because so many of you are scamming arseholes. Until you start calling out your own kind you can cry me and every legit sub and absolutely river.
@babiminaash
1. Dommes who disappear after a send (just because it's bad business management)
2. Dommes whi send Beem requests with inappropriate 'for' reasons.
@RianneMay_
No, that level of redness/swelling around the eye is highly suggestive of someone who doesn't know what they are doing. This could lead to a torn/detached retina and permanent vision loss.
Do NOT slap people near the eye, ever.
There is a reason Dommes are professionally trained.
If you think treating people with inherent disdain is "Findom" or "Femdom", you need to look for other avenues of revenue.
This line of work is not for you.
@babiminaash
For example if requesting for the first time just say 'for lunch' or something equally innocuous. Then when they send if they send with a for that is equally innocuous just keep it that way. If they say 'for being a loser' etc then request in that regard.
If you are a legit, trained Domme, hit me up. If you are someone who thinks a rubbish tweet "I'm sexier than your GF" is domination, unfollow me. You are, frankly, embarrassing.
Not sure how much clearer I can be. I am a sub who pays for FEMdom sessions. If I choose to send a tribute to a FINdom, it's because I appreciate them. Please don't slide into my DM's with a "tribute me".
There is a level of intellectual stupidity in
#FindomAus
that is unsurpassed in any other field of human endeavour. It is, quite simply, mind-boggling.
I don't know why this is hard, but it clearly is, so I'll type slowly...
I am NOT a finsub, I pay for FEMdom sessions.
If I choose, from time to time, to send You a gift, that's because I appreciate You. Nothing more nothing less.
If you are a 'Domme' and we haven't interacted before and you slide into my DM's with a 'Send'; I'm afraid I'm going to have to require an initial tribute.
Professionally trained Dommes: "For a booking please fill out my thoughtfully developed application".
Some finchick on twitter: "You should pay my electricity bill"... "Oh yeah...loser".
PSA: the whole 'loser' narrative is particularly boring. If that's what someone is into, god bless, but the assumption submissive people are inherently 'losers' is nothing short of moronic.
@MissAylaReid
I've been fortunate enough to share some time with Miss Ayla, and this would be absolutely worthwhile. Everything exceeded expectations, but it was the details that were perfect. The choice of music, the little heater to ensure I wasn't cold, the jelly beans after. Perfect.
If you whinge about sub baiting and time wasters but you also lie to people, take a good hard look in the (unfiltered) mirror; you are part of the problem. Would love to see more dommes calling this shit out.
All whinging aside there are some incredibly genuine Dommes on here and I've been fortunate even to come across a number of them. It's not my place to shout them out in public, but they are out there. Just can't let the scammers make you jaded.
It's important, particularly in the femdom space, to treat each other; Domme, sub or otherwise with the basic human decency to which we are all entitled.
If you feel otherwise, perhaps this space isn't for you.
A sub who pays for FEMdom sessions isn't necessarily into FINdom.
FINdom is a particular kink and is a subset of FEMdom.
If you don't know this, you should be doing neither.
End of rant.
@MistresssMuse
@moonmilph
@jamiepaypig9
@sxylayla
@babiminaash
You're right on the money, aftercare in whatever form (a 'thank you', a 'good boy/girl' etc) is important. For astart, it's denotes the end of the interaction (important for you and the sub), it's also just professional, being a Domme is a responsibility, being a dick is not.
@the_miss_ginger
@GoddessLivbad
Something a bit fishy here as well...
"He then asks to call my "Mean girl next door line" which was OFF," (emphasis mine)