As I approach my middle 20s I love being a girly girl so much. 😭😭 it’s so nice being a woman , I am enjoying it. I love being a woman. Make up , lashes , the feminine aura , my opinionated self , my beautiful body , laugh everything. I love love being a woman.
One thing I am learning as I grow is to reduce the urge to ask for advice. 🙏🏾 Sometimes in life you just need to trust your gut feeling and instincts , pray about certain things and take the decision alone. Asking for advice will cripple your ability to trust your decisions.
😭can’t believe I can give myself the things I used to dream about. The luxurious spa dates , the shopping , being able to cover certain stuff myself , the solo dates , staycations and a whole lot more. God is faithful , my hardwork is paying bit by bit
One thing I wanna do this year is take effort on my physical appearance, I want to take pride in being a girly girl. I want to do my nails , I will get myself hair and do everything that makes me feel like a girly girl appearance wise. I’ve journaled enough.
Dating Rich definitely requires one to come from a well off family as well because if you take me to Paris , I don’t even have the funds to get you a PS5 😭🖐🏽🧍♂️
I got myself my first ever iPhone with my own money 😭❤️that I worked hard for. I can still get myself whatever I want , education pays. This is only the beginning
20s are dribbling me , they are so lonely , clueless like I feel like I get shocked at different body changes ,moods , meeting the person I thought I’d never be with in different faces , what’s happening career wise ? The worst is not having anyone to talk to.
I need more young girls to aspire to go to school. Education is not redundant it’s still in fashion. Go to school. Don’t let social media fool you. Good things take time. It’s just not your time yet but whatever you desire will come as you work hard.
Please give love a chance. Healthy love exists. A love that will add on the happiness you already have. A love that will spark the childlike nature in you. The kind , patient and considerate love. Don’t settle. Love exists you guys. 🥹❤️
I was able to pull through for my babies and get them class party stuff 🥺 let’s go have fun !
I got them bucket for ones
Watermelons
Cake
Snacks and Marshmallows.
To the end of a beautiful term 🥹💕🥺
I can tell you one thing. You can come back from anything if you want. As long as you are not dead , you can rise above any situation. Don’t stop trying. 🤍🙏🏾
I have no desire behaving like an adult ngina 23 guys. 🤣🙏🏾I will still go watch movies , bowling , wear clothes my age , watch Shrek or Moana , continue furthering my studies , go out for sundowners with my girlies 🤣, cut my hair. I am young I am going to be exactly that.
I use the school transport to get to work and today we waited for a child for like 7 minutes and I went to my app store and downloaded the K53 app , I’ve had enough !
Almost 4 months after my retrenchment, savings are at the brink,I am probably sick with anxiety because ayikho iMali but then I’ve seen the hand of the lord , I’ve seen his hand carry me , I chose to hold on to my stubborn faith. God has never failed , he won’t start with me. ❤️
I am happy that I am learning this in my early 20s to decentre myself from being “the good girl” to gain approval or be the “perfect example” I don’t want to be anyone’s perfect example , I don’t want to be placed on a pedestal. I want to live my own life , that serves me. 🤍
One thing about me when it comes to career and academic stuff I don’t play around. I will go to any lengths man to make sure my things are in order. Reach out to people with information, set myself out there , work hard .
Tough life , but I still say the best decision that I made and I continue to make was go to school. Whatever you do please get educated . Life is hard but much better when you are educated and have a hope for something coming your way. Please go to school.
Spiritual battles are weird because you can’t literally want to destroy me over my hard work ?!😭like after all that suffering working hard and wena you just want to destroy me because I look like I had it easy ? I worked hard bro. Witchcraft maths is dumb.
I will say this over and over again. Go to school , please educate yourself. If there is nothing going on for you , you will have a long life. Please please I beg you in the name of God. Go to school , life is already hard , it’s even harder when you are fully dependent on others
I am not a hater but you guys manifesting a Lamborghini that was bought with corruption money that affects us as the middle class bores the shit out of me. “Whatever sbani bani said in her prayers!” My foot.
I don’t know who needs to hear this but start that qualification, a year flies by fast , I am left with less than 10 assignments till the finish line. When I started it felt like a year was long but now we are in August the year is almost over , start that qualification
I need a Job. I have experience working for NGOs as a Life skills facilitator & Data Capturer , I hold a BA in psychology and criminology, an Honours degree in Community and health psychology, currently studying a PGCE , I have experience in teaching English intermediate phase.
There was a lady with a toddler on her back registering for her Bachelor of Science degree. I’ve never been impressed , she took that step towards her career! Ladies , skolo . Let’s go to school bafazi 🥹❤️
I want to spend the rest of my Sundays in 2025 with my husband. Slow Sundays , cooking there and there , galavanting around, being lazy , church in the morning, brunch and mimosas. Preparing for the week ,slow kisses and slow music.
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I know relationships have ups & downs but I am not going to be unhappy ,fighting for my life half of the time in that relationship, every chance I get I want to experience happiness , even in the midst of problems ,I want to experience joy. Can’t be fighting for my life everyday.
I don’t know if it’s me but I am such a Jesus centred girl yes I have my shortfalls but everyday I love to make sure that I speak the word , love people and show kindness. My greatest desire as a disciple of Christ is to be known for my love for people. ❤️
God - you knew this day before me. You knew the outcomes of this day before me. You also know the setting of the sun and rising of it .You have gone before me , you have seen it all , nothing comes as a surprise to you. You know it all , it is taken care of. It is well. 🤍
God - you have gone before me. You are with me , season in , season out . Passing through every storm & fire with me ,give me the serenity to not lose hope ,to keep the faith & hold on in your word , you are the same yesterday, today and forever 🤍. Things may change you do not.
Everytime I am at the brink of failure God carries me and renews my strength. Everytime I cannot do it , God gives me his strengths and capacitates me to get through stuff I thought I can’t. Oh Lord , what can I say to you !
My biggest fear is not having the financial freedom to make choices which are good for me. I don’t want my life to be tied down to someone all because I don’t have money to leave a particular situation when I need to.
It was my first time in Sandton today , cannot explain the butterflies I had. Life does get better , even with the challenges that we co-exist with you’d think you’ve seen better and life keeps on revealing better and better. I’ll definitely be back here as a corporate girl. ❤️
Congratulations to all those who passed the APC 😭🙏🏾. Listen to all those who didn’t make it ! As long as you are alive the chances are endless. We are proud of all of you. ❤️
It’s really going to be okay , I haven’t lost hope in who God is and his ability to be mighty and courageous, his promises are yes and amen and his word stands the test of time. 🤍🙏🏾he is God.
Being loved is so nice , it soothes your soul , self love is also nice but people willingly showing you soft , healthy and warm love is the best feeling in the world. Open yourself up and allow yourself to be loved. 🤍
Romanticise your life , with the little that you have , make your life worth living. Romance is not an expensive thing , it’s a mindset thing. Fill your life with love and peace and the little things that make you happy. Romanticise your life. 🤍
I remember during my honours grad , we passed by my grandparents house , my grandfather had cooked , bought drinks and my favourite cakes. Him and my grandmother gave me some money as a gift. 😭❤️there are so many moments that I will never forget , I will cherish them 4ever. 🙏🏾