As women we need to collectively start shaming single fathers the way single mothers are castigated and shamed because this woman is so beautiful and still very valuable but the world view is how a man left her and her baby like he shouldn’t be the one ashamed.
I don’t think anyone is as obsessed with this as I am. This is what I aspire to be on any given day. African, LOUD, unapologetic woman. I keep playing it back because??? YOU WILL LISTEN TO WHAT SHE HAS TO SAY!! I wish to have that impact a lot don’t have that…IMPACT
@cyberch8se
She’s a very awkward person I think she was laughing little because she was nervous leading into such a discomforting story you can tell she gets more serious towards the end
The thing I hate about Zed reality shows is people are putting a life like we don’t see them basically in Lusaka. Who closes the shop for you to shop? To prevent what? Bc I guarantee no one is rushing to that woman even in shoprite. Unless I’m oblivious to what Facebook is doing
Problem when a typical Zambian man learns how to cook? Maka maka when they learn to put rice in the shape of a bowl? You will never see dinner at a nice restaurant again 😭
A man sent me money for not being able to see me. “Sorry for the inconvenience, get yourself something while I wait to see you, that’s if you’ll allow me”
mm mm he’s winning I’m afraid.
If you don’t like feminists simply don’t pay them mind. Date non-feminist women and move on not cosplaying a woman or becoming digitally trans to fuel hate/be obsessed. How weird can you get? Some of you are becoming sick elo on ignorance. You don’t even know what feminism is.
@EseDevlin
@Marknit0
The one who created the culture that he is the “provider” BY HIMSELF? Now when things are tough and you fail to provide you make it a problem? You said women don’t amount to much and should stay in the kitchen, we aren’t equal to men. So never be broke don’t ask for help.
People should dig deep within themselves and ask why women being loved right and treated well makes you so angry. Why would you mock men for treating someone like a special human being? It’s just not making sense? Why would you behave like that? Why do you wanna women miserable?
Yesterday I accidentally sent a 350 to the wrong number and called to get it back. He sent back a 300 and I didn’t protest at least I got most of it back. Doesn’t this man call me saying he wanted to use the 50 to send to someone but it’s not sending so I send another???? Ah mxm
Do people realise not all of us are here to “grow our pages” and be all “small accounts matter” we are just ordinary people talking about our own shit? Not everyone is trying to fight for k200 advertising??? Like relax. Your engagement irritates.
I don’t want you guys to feel bad or hold it against yourselves because friendships from high school didn’t work. As you grow sometimes you find out that you were friends just because you were at the same school. Genuine friends come from anywhere. Be easier on yourselves 🫂
People are going to mention these tired Facebook celebs but honestly I would want to know what the real rich kids are upto. Like the real ones who spend money like it’s nothing I want to see what James Ndambo’s children are doing more often …rich people like quiet luxury 😭
What’s funny is even if she twisted herself like a pretzel like y’all want he’ll still cheat if he wants to. Give him nothing girl it’s okay. He doesn’t deserve it anyway.
Nzila made her lotion on the 13th of May and coincidentally Nara Smith ran out of lotion 2 days later and made hers on the 15th of May…we’re not making this up…below I’ll post all the recipes Nara has stolen from other content creators with dates
The women go to empowerment seminars and colour picnics and the men strategically plant themselves where girls 10–15 years younger than them will be. Dacapo, colourfests, the cinema, Instagram parties
Been holding my breath but in the true bad girl fashion I formally quit my job 2 weeks ago with no back up plan. A decision that has been weighing heavy on me for a while but if you know me you know I’ve been unhappy for a bit. Everything got so loud in my head I had to let go.
Lmfao someone telling you they’ll marry someone else while being balls deep in you is nasty business. “Let’s respect Maureen” you can tell what type of husband Richard will be in future
If it’s the interracial ones? They make their races/nationalities as the whole thing. “Come and eat with us a Zambian-American” couple. “Teaching my British husband how to breathe Zambia”
@Lutweetstru
Are you listening to yourself?
Who is supporting rape? I can never support rape
Go and sleep, my opinion should burn you. Don’t allow that
Elo if your boyfriend is a lawyer and he’s going to Livingstone without you this weekend my sister just start chinalin your heart because he’s going with the one he actually likes
I know it’s traumatising and invasive but if they can? Women who have had babies should tell us the realities so that we know if it’s something we want bc the snippets that we get are seriously shocking omg 😭
Mmm I’ve never seen someone who likes accountability like my cousin mwebantu 😭 I sent him money for my cousin at the village. He’s copied the ka Airtel message on top of a screenshot. Last time he took a video giving my grandmother money we gave her 😭
They need a creative fashion lead. Every year the theme is just a new colour. Not a concept. Someone needs to make these people sweat for their costumes.
Mutinta Hichilema made it On a TikTok about beautiful First Ladies of Africa and I was going to be so concerned if she wasn’t because that woman genuinely is gorgeous 🫶🏾🥹
How do you cope with anxiety? I’m trying to look for an alternative to alcohol and ignoring everything that triggers anxiety because some things, you really can’t run away from them.
I’m retracting my words. I have been completely wrong and I sincerely apologise for the misrepresentation. The Japanese mascot actually works. It has a job. Sorry to that working mascot and its family in Japan and I sincerely apologise to the Japanese mascot community.🙂↕️
The immigration checks in this country should extend to Caucasians because they are starting to be very mannerless. That “the little life we’ve built ourselves here in Zambia” content must be investigated.
Lmfao ngl being famous outside my country where people BUY my music and cut me cheques when they use it for promo is way better than being famous in my country where people just download my songs through bootleg sites and my song isn’t played in major clubs bc it’s seen a ghetto
The deadbeat that left chipo and tinta probably regrets bc the personality that’s there? Get these finished socialites off the air and give those girls a tv slot.
Just 10 days after I was crying about my mother’s memorial I have lost my grandma. She as my mother’s mum took her place to n so many ways she was so proud of anything I did. She was the arms that embraced me throughout all my achievements. Now I have lost her too. rest my angel
I think people need really understand the concept of abuse and what it does to the victim. It might seem like an easy concept but in truth, it’s not. So telling the victim to just leave isn’t the best way to go about it. They become part of a cycle that is often hard to break.
So a you had the idea that she might not like her cousins because at 8 she was “having sex” with them and it didn’t cross your mind that it’s sexual abuse if that’s the case? But you made it the punchline and point to shame? I get y’all like to chime in but this is not it.
Someone’s has reminded Tio of how she used “force” friendship with youngsters to get followers bc of the gatekeeping influencing TikTok and I just- it’s getting messy y’all.
Minority groups like prisoners are not considered in HIV service provision a lot of them time because people in Zambia are too blinded they can’t fathom that men are sleeping with men. People are doing life sentences even just ma 10-20 years you think they won’t want sex?
No one at work is your friend. People are in survival mode. Make no mistake they’ll trade you off for bread 😂😂😂 just stop being familiar now if you are. Discuss nothing but work and leave. Don’t sink into those “are you okay”.