loladavina
@Lola_Davina
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Author of "Thriving in Sex Work" Series. Self-care & wellness columnist for YNOTcam. I get around the web:
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I just learned this term, "toxic positivity," and it's a term I've needed all my life...
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Never occurred to me to frame it like this, but it's a terrific question.
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Etsy going rated G--I just simply cannot.
How can we continue to live in a world where sex = bad, violence = entertainment???
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Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex
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You don’t give up personhood when you sell sex.
You don't give up citizenship when you sell sex.
You don't give up bodily autonomy when you sell sex.
You don't give up dignity when you sell sex.
You don't give up humanity when you sell sex.
#SexWorkerRightsAreHumanRights
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Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
NEVER.
EVER.
EVER.
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Suddenly I've got a taste for glitter, and nothing else will do...
Happy Pride, ya'll!
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You don’t give up personhood when you sell sex.
You don’t give up consent when you sell sex.
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Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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They call sex work "easy money."
That's bullshit-- it's hard work.
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Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Ever.
#sexworkiswork
#sexworkersarepeopletoo
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Perfect encapsulation of the hypocrisy of criminalizing full service
#sexwork
#sexworkiswork
#decriminalize
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Sex work between consensual adults is a service that harms no one. So, why criminalize it?
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Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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The perfect encapsulation of why full service consensual
#sexwork
should be 100% legal.
#sexworkshouldbesafework
#decriminalize
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Sex workers offer beauty, excitement, variety, fantasies, creativity, and pleasure. Sometimes love, too.
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There will always be a client pool that thinks you’re smoking hot. You’ll leave some clients cold. The rest are just glad you are looking them in the eye and smiling. Focusing on the clients that find us attractive and letting go of the ones that don’t, is tremendously freeing.
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Just because YOU can't imagine ever doing
#sexwork
doesn't make it bad or wrong.
#sexworkiswork
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Sweet Sexy Workers—
With a heavy heart, I’m announcing I’m stepping away from what I call “The Lola Project” for the foreseeable future. I’ll no longer be involved on SM as Lola and won’t be available to the sex work community writing articles, offering advice...
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Anyone want to answer these for me?
--Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
--What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex? What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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There will always be a client pool that thinks you’re smoking hot. You’ll leave some clients cold. The rest are just glad you are looking them in the eye and smiling. Focusing on the clients that find us attractive and letting go of the ones that don’t, is tremendously freeing.
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Just because YOU can't imagine ever doing sex work doesn't make it bad or wrong.
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This neatly sums up the hypocrisy of criminalizing prostitution.
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Why is paid consensual sex between adults illegal? Can someone explain it to me?
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If you think all
#sexworkers
are female and all clients are male, I'm going to ask you to wake up and smell the 21st Century.
The sex industry is the marketplace of ALL genders and ALL sexualities.
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Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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If you think all
#sexworkers
are female and all clients are male, I'm going to ask you to wake up and smell the 21st Century.
The sex industry is the marketplace of ALL genders and ALL sexualities.
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This made me laugh, but that kind of dried-out, hollow laughter at something that doesn't feel that funny...
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If you don't like or approve of
#sexwork
that's fine, but know your reasons why.
#sexworkiswork
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Anyone wanna answer these for me...?
Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
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Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
NEVER
EVER
EVER
EVER
EVER.
#SexWorkersArePeopleToo
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The sex industry profits from myth sex workers are available for anything, but nothing could be further from the truth.
Only by honoring our values and enforcing our boundaries can we stay healthy, safe, and sane.
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Who, exactly, is harmed by paying for sex?
What, exactly, is wrong with sex as a job?
Anyone want to tell me...?
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Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
Paying for sex NEVER negates consent.
#SexWorkIsWork
#SexWorkersArePeopleToo
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If you think all
#sexworkers
are female and all clients are male, I'm going to ask you to wake up and smell the 21st Century.
The sex industry is the marketplace of ALL genders and ALL sexualities.
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Hollywood says: Find one person. Fall in love. Have sex with them and only them until you die.
Sex Industry says: Or not.
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