My mom said “Waiting for someone to act correctly is a disrespect to yourself. You’re compromising your worth just because someone can’t fully afford it.” And I just... whew.
The worst part of your 20’s is the uncertainty of things. Knowing you want to be successful but not knowing exactly what path to take to get you there. It’s very overwhelming.
One of my friends is in med school & her parents take such good care of her. Rent? Paid. Hair, nails+any self maintenance? Done. Little trips for her mental health? Booked. I love it bc that’s how you parent. Why you trying to make your kids “get it out the mud” when you got it??
“When did you start drinking”
“I didn’t know you were old enough to drink”
“You like liquor now”
“So you’re an alcoholic”
“That’s what you do up in Tallahassee”
Unpopular opinion: A lot of people use weed/ alcohol to cope with things and it truly isn’t a healthy nor effective mechanism.. You don’t really deal with the problem; it’s just buried away but will always arise.
@VindiTweets
@Itsbigglee
Learning to take yourself out of equation in people’s lives help you see things better. Sometimes they can’t communicate it right away and being on the receiving end, you should understand. As long as they eventually let you know, it shouldn’t be a problem. 😌
I understand that everyone shows love differently but if I see that you showing love loudly for everyone else and silent when it comes to me, I can’t fw you.
Forgot to text this man back for two lil days. To get back at me, he waited 3 days to text me back. Lmfao welp, guess he won’t hear from me till next month since we playing those games.
You didn’t fail, you weren’t rejected, you aren’t lesser than. It just wasn’t in God’s plan for you. Anything that is for you will eventually gravitate to you naturally. You don’t have to force it, just do your part and God will handle the rest.
African American college students have it so tough man. A lot of us are first generation college students and really out here doing this and figuring this thing out by ourselves. It takes a tole psychologically cause we know this world isn’t for us and we just trying to be great.
I have a very toxic habit of not speaking up about my emotions sometimes and letting it build up. Then cutting you off without an explanation weeks or months later because I don’t feel like “dealing with it”. 🤦🏾♀️
@techieshay
Literally the worst. We had a host whose property had so many issues, broken chairs, broken heat & scratches. We told him about this the first day and he did nothing. Next thing you know after we check out I have a $500 charge for a “scratch” on the wall that we didn’t make lmfao
I’d be drinking water, minding my business and chilling with Jesus, then BOOM! The devil sends someone’s demon son to try and ruin my life. Unt unt. Lemme alone. You not gone get me! 😂
This is the perfect time to get over someone lol We’re in quarantine so you won’t accidentally bump into them anywhere or see them. Just block them and heal in this solitude.
You ever had someone do you so dirty after you’ve tried your best to do right by them and you just think “damn, I just wanna know what flaw stuff I did to deserve this?” Nope? Just me? Ok.
Switching to natural soaps and organic pads and tampons was one of the best decisions I’ve made for my body. PH balance regular, cramps hurt a lot less and so many more great benefits.✨