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Big Ki 🦋
8 months
I created #WriteYourselfALoveLetterChallenge back in 2016 as a young 22yo trynna love herself and decided to document it publicly. Since then… I got 2 books. An annual event. Some shirts… And now… a card game that fosters community & vulnerability. Available soon. 🌹
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
A badder bitch is loading and I’m very excited about that.
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Big Ki 🦋
7 months
When Usher was like “Spotlight! Big stage! 50 thousand fans screaming in a rage” and the camera panned to the crowd! Baby that’s manifestation coming to fruition! Give my man his flowerssssss 😭🌹
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
This what Imma be doing 😂
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Wyd at a club in your 30s
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
📍CHICAGO If y’all know those lovely humans, tag them. 🪩🪩🪩🪩🪩🪩 #RENAISANCEWorldTour
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Serious question: Who is encouraging men to become better people? Because all the self-love, personal development wave is promoted to women. And if women are the only ones healing & striving to become better people, then what tf is happening to these men?
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Big Ki 🦋
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@queenveej 💀💀💀💀 I am screaming cuz she ain’t wrong
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
@___inCANdescent I thought it was Big Latto.
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Big Ki 🦋
9 months
Merry Christmas ya filthy animals 😉🎄
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Big Ki 🦋
9 months
A bad bitch on yo wish list. 🎄
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
Balloons on my page.
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
@MuthaLuvin @RealLathan Lmao I cannot stand her. Look at this TikTok she posted like last week tho 😭
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Big Ki 🦋
7 months
Drunk, sober, upside down, sideways…
@KeshiaKeee
la’keshia
7 months
Would Y’all eat this on a DRUNK NIGHT ⁉️😋😂
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Big Ki 🦋
4 months
Woulda had to drag me out the club when this came out lolll
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Rhythm & Blues 💎
4 months
Don’t Stop Til You Get Enough Michael Jackson 👑🕊️ (1979)
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Big Ki 🦋
5 months
This is how I know it’s like two Chicago’s. I’ve never stepped foot in a Foxtrot.
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Ben Crew
5 months
The Chicago coffee shop chain Foxtrot closed every store today without warning and I just watched someone try to open the front door, read the permanently closed note taped to the glass, and then yell "MY FREE REWARDS DRINK NOOO" like a Spongebob character
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Big Ki 🦋
8 months
@realjayelaine Mmmhmmm. Gotta get outta there as fast as you can.
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Lot29 would like a word.
@StreetFashion01
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3 years
Louis Vuitton FW22 Varsity🖤
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I want y’all to flourish in healthy relationships with people y’all actually like and love. Who like and love you back.
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Him kicking me out cuz he cheated on me with his Secretary and had 2 kids on me and then I gotta go live with my grandma and then I gotta go to church and meet a man with neck braids to fall in love with.
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Ladies what scares you about marriage ?
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
By working at it with someone who also wants to work at it.
@theBUSYofficial
OfficialBusyBrownGirl.
3 years
how does love just work out for y’all?
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Recently learned this and now I’m passing it to you: If it isn’t said directly to you, then it does not matter what was said.
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Big Ki 🦋
11 months
Nah…. But a Chicago man has definitely said this to a Chicago woman before lol
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1 year
EVERY FEMALE done told a nigga she was gonna kill herself if he left her 😂🤷🏾‍♂️🤷🏾‍♂️
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
I make you wanna sing RNB songs at the top of your lungs.
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Friendships are like romantic relationships.. have the hard convos. Commit to learning & growing with your friends. Practice empathy and understanding. Forgive often. Name your needs. 🫶🏾
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Chicago > wherever you from #RENAISANCEWorldTour 🪩
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
No reason me & @IAMSANEIT turnt up the House of BET like this 😭😭 repping the BEST city in the world 😭😭 #ChicagoGirlsDoItBetter #BETAwards23
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Big Ki 🦋
1 month
Demoting them out your life completely >>> You can’t even be my acquaintance if you aren’t good to me lol
@ichriecheblut
·:*¨༺˚ ✯ gîchœ łīçbåkt ✯ ˚༻¨*:·
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demoting people that aren’t genuinely good friends back to acquaintance >
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
If “do yo shit” was a person, it would be a Black Chicago girl. Prada us!
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Now…. @BET . Y’all have a music museum that pays tribute to 50 years of Hip-Hop but no artist is from the Midwest. Specifically Chicago. 🤔 Stop leaving Chicago out of the hip-hop convo, and that’s for every brand and publication. #HouseOfBET #betawards #betweekend
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
“For the dick Imma hang off the airplane” - @YungMiami305 Thank you. Imma put this in my wedding vows 😭
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
So grateful for life. So grateful for peace that surpasses all understanding. So grateful for strength. So grateful for friends. So grateful for family.
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Big Ki 🦋
7 months
I haven’t heard a bad song from this boy yet.
@808andCarShakes
808s & Car Shakes
7 months
T.I.’s son Domani dropped new music for Valentine’s Day and it’s a vibe 👀🔥
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Paradise is where I am 🏝
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Big Ki 🦋
2 months
I can finally say it. I’m taking my talents to LA 🤭☺️
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Big Ki 🦋
3 months
Not me moving from Chicago in 2 weeks 😂✌🏾
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
My 1st book is finally in a bookstore! You can pick up #WriteYourselfALoveLetterChallenge from Soulfull, a BLACK WOMAN OWNED Mental Health Bookstore in Pilsen. 1508 W. 18th St Thank you in advance for supporting me ❤️
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Mood coming into this new week. 💫
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
Imagine getting the police called on you just because you kindly asked to be comped at a restaurant because they made us wait 2 HOURS for our food. Will never ever ever step foot into WILLIAMS INN AND PIZZA SPORTS BAR ON 2210 S. MICHIGAN again cuz that’s just FOUL.
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I have always said that ladies should not pay a crumb of attention to niggas with multiple children by multiple women on what’s respectable or not. Cuz when did those type of men become pillars of morality?
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
It’s allegedly Wednesday. But also, time isn’t real.
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
Allow me to (re) introduce myself… My name is Kia Smith, I’m a 2x self published author, a public speaker, a self love advocate & creator of #WriteYourselfALoveLetterChallenge Yesterday was my 5th annual event & I’m so grateful for everyone who came out ❣️ Til next year!!
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I looked so good for TayKeith wedding 🖤
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
One thing about me, imma pay for convenience. Why do it myself when I can pay the EXPERTS?
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
@MuthaLuvin @Bb___Bri @lovealwayste Every day I see something that makes me never wanna birth children cuz WHAT 🥴
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Hi guys. Twitter suspended my account because of a Triller video that had Da Baby’s song Bop in it from 2 years ago. I think most users don’t know about DCMA usage and copyright infringement. All y’all had to do was remove the video… not delete my account!
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
It’s finna be a hit. Him producing on a Meg track don’t miss.
@stallionaccess
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Juicy J reveals that he’s been working with Megan Thee Stallion on new music in a recent interview: “I’m producing a lot of records for Megan Thee Stallion”
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
@nhoodpublicist No. What happened to deposits? Is it crack!!?
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
30 hrs later… I made it safely to Bali y’all. 😅😮‍💨
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
Good morning from Bali 💚 I’m happy y’all woke up today 💫
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
My boyfriend took this pic of me 💙
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Big Ki 🦋
11 months
Sometimes it really do be like that.
@nihiinn_
BAMIDELE🕊
11 months
what is the saddest truth about life?
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
29 feels just as beautiful as me. 💿 thank you all for the beautiful wishes! 🍀
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Big Ki 🦋
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@MamieCrosb58090 Y’all looked so gooooood 🪩🫶🏾
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
Healthy relationships require a lot of introspection. It’s basically like holding up a mirror to yourself 🪞
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
Tubi and do me.
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Jasmyn
2 years
What's the Tubi equivalent of Netflix & Chill?
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Oooh wee. Look at my FACE 😭😍
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
This was us last year on Christmas. 1st date was this day too. This year we on his couch and I’m watching him play 2K 😂 and we just exchanged gifts. I love it here 🥰
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I love you. 😘
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
What y’all said about Black woken in orange?
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Dear Big Ki, You did it for the 6th year in a row shawts. Despite everything that was going on. Love you. - Bigger Ki. Thanks to everyone who came out to my 6th annual event today 🤎🫶🏾🤎 #WriteYourselfALoveLetterChallenge
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
If people mean something to you, you really can’t be afraid or too prideful or too fed up to have those difficult conversations.
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Okay finally lol. A Dan Ryan Dime has checked in 😂
@leilani_capalot
Leilani 💖
1 year
Chicago Women Thread? 👀…Let’s GO
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Big Ki 🦋
8 months
Back to the office, but make it fly.
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Big Ki 🦋
4 months
Big Ki. The journalist. The blogger. The social media savant. The author. Thank you for giving me my flowers while I’m still here 🫶🏾 thank you for planting them seeds back in ‘09. Love yall @truestardotlife #TrueStarRising #LegacyLeague
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
For Colored Girls Who Overshare On The Internet When The Groupchat and The Journaling and The Therapy Ain’t Enough.
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
So far, I like being 30! 🥳🍀
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Big Ki 🦋
7 months
@MissThrilla Swear I almost dropped a tear.
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
Been wanting to come to Bali for the last few years, said last year I was coming for my 30th bday. Look at God. 🥂 I hope the rest of my 30’s is me continuing to give myself what I want and deserve 💚
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
To the baddest fish in the sea.. ♓️
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Big Ki 🦋
9 months
Dear Santa, I’ve been (looking) good all year. 🎄
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
@OkSoMik I wanna know how she ain’t pass out from mixing all that 💀
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I could do this for hours..
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I like this Southside Show wayyyyy better than The Chi because for one, it’s actually SHOT on the SOUTHSIDE. That other show totally missed the mark filming out west and trynna cosplay it as out south. 🙄
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Big Ki 🦋
5 months
✌🏾☺️✌🏾
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Emotions are fleeting. Truth is stranger than fiction, you gotta trust yourself & be able to discern when yourself is sending you off. Hard to do when emotions cloud thoughts. Let the smoke clear 1st.
@MindBodyBronx
Bronxology 👑
3 years
Unpopular opinion: I DO believe that water signs have some of the strongest intuition out of all the signs but as a water dominant person, our biggest downfall to hearing our intuition is our own biases and personal feelings surrounding the situation which can skew the truth.
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
What if your purpose in this life is not some big, profound thing? What if it’s simply you just existing? Would that be good enough for you?
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Experiencing loss makes you change. I’m definitely not the same person anymore. I don’t even know what to make of it.
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
My TikTok is going viral. This is crazy. I really hope Modi gets hella new visitors at her store, and that my book and all the other books sell out. This is amazing! 🤯
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Big Ki 🦋
9 months
“It’s giving come down the chimney baby”
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Big Ki 🦋
5 months
I’ve been seeing an overwhelming amount of men posting women spazzing in their messages about these men ignoring them for days at a time… I guess my question to these men is why y’all can’t just tell these ladies y’all don’t wanna talk? Why just ignore? That’s a lil… childish.
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Thanks to @Groupon , I’m a vendor at this year’s Black Women’s Expo!!! Books and merch will be available for purchase! Come see me all 3 days! Friday, August 20th from 10AM - 6PM Saturday, August 21st from 10AM - 6PM Sunday, August 22nd from 11AM -6PM
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Do me a favor & do NOT book with this stylist. I had an appointment at 1:30 today. I was running behind so I got there at 1:45, but I texted her and let her know that I would be late. I get there, and someone was still in her chair. Okay cool. 🙂 1/
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
I read somewhere the other day that everything is not a trauma response, sometimes you have the appropriate reaction to people who be having you fucked up. And I agree.
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Big Ki 🦋
7 months
Not the dungeon!!! 😭😭😭😂
@shaTIRED
5hahem aka Dr. Durag
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me emotionally supporting my white friends before i have to put them in the dungeon for the rest of Black history month
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Heated 🪩
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Happy birthday to our favorite Chicago historian @6figga_dilla 🎉
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
Me and my new pal Mon’Key 😂🐒
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Big Ki 🦋
6 months
Running to 30 like…
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
Oh yay! I won a grant 🎉
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Big Ki 🦋
2 years
I got Beyoncé ticketssss. I’m so happy! I’ve wanted to see Bey FOREVER but was never able to afford it. Now I can! It’s up 🥳🐝🐝
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
I start my new job Monday. 🥂
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Big Ki 🦋
1 year
Very grateful to God for letting me see 29. 💘♓️
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Big Ki 🦋
3 years
Just a few hours shy of our first anniversary and I am genuinely blessed to be in a healthy relationship for an entire year straight. It feels good to be loved by somebody so genuine and romantic, and sweet. My cheeks be hurting cuz I smile and laugh so much. 🥲🤎
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Big Ki 🦋
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Yallll. I met @maiyathedon sweet self! I hope she stay in her Telfyyyy 4ever! #BETAwards
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