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@brazospress
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I miss old Instagram, where you could post a brunch photo and be like 'here's some good food I ate!' and now in Christian IG world it's 'here is my brunch, and here is how the Lord spoke to me through my omelette, here is the lesson God wants me to give you through my toast'
On Easter, I recall that I'm a Christian in part because no one would have invented a religion that (1) features an itinerant Galilean preacher rising from the dead, and (2) had the whole thing hang on the testimony of women. It's nothing they, or we, would have expected.
Also when did addressing abuse in the church become a liberal/“woke” issue? What’s the long game here?
I have theories but I’m also genuinely asking. I can’t understand the culture-war framing of something that’s simply about protecting vulnerable people from harm.
Probably too sweeping to be helpful. This is simply something I've seen (not all men, etc.):
The most arrogant Christian men I've met are those with just enough seminary education to think they have the answers, but not nearly enough life experience to have tested most of it.
Now that we're talking about Dave Ramsey 🙃, I want to share something from the chapter in "Celebrities for Jesus" on abuses of power:
We tend to forget that anger and malice are disqualifying behaviors for Christian leaders.
Y'all: these men color-coordinated their outfits for this.
There was an email or text thread in which it was declared that burgundy tones would look good from the stage.
There's no way this is coincidence.
Twitter etiquette after someone's death is tricky, but:
Imagine a group of friends, family, and loved ones gathered at someone's funeral, and you bust in from the back to list off all the ways you personally disagreed with the dead person.
We agree this is tacky, yes?
This may mean I'm really just an evangelical normie but: I do not like "Jesus Christ" as a curse. Can we not extend respect for the sacredness of others' beliefs? Are there not literally hundreds of other ways to express frustration?
If your church fires a leader for abuse, misconduct, or inappropriate behavior, church leaders *must* let the community know why the leader was fired.
I've heard one too many stories of leaders being given a pleasant send-off, only to learn they repeated their abuse elsewhere.
This is exciting and humbling! After three-plus years as an acquisitions editor, I've accepted the position of editorial director of
@BrazosPress
. Thanks to
@PublishersWkly
for including the announcement
“As for Carl and Laura Lentz, I’m not a betting woman...But I’ve seen enough to wager that Carl will announce a return to church ministry within six months.” - me, exactly six months ago.
.
@PaulTripp
on deconstruction: "We should all be deconstructing our faith, we better do it. Because our faith becomes a culture, a culture so webbed into the purity of truth that it's hard to separate the two. I celebrate the church of Jesus Christ...but I'm sad for the church"
On Easter morning I recall that I’m a Christian in part because no one could have invented a religion that (1) features an itinerant Galilean preacher rising from the dead, and (2) had the account hang on the testimony of women. It’s nothing they, or we, would have expected.
@TGC
This is a very strange take, since the basic plot of the Little Mermaid hasn't changed in this movie, or the previous movie, from the 1837 fairy tale from Hans Christian Anderson.
What has changed is the reviewer's fixation on finding 'LGBTQ agendas' in relatively banal things.
When a male leader consistently crosses physical boundaries, you start to rationalize that it's normal behavior.
Then you realize that not one other male colleague has ever touched you in the workplace, ever.
Power is the ability to warp others' perceptions of what's normal.
I've read a lot of articles on 'why people are deconstructing,' and nearly to a person, they end up sounding defensive, dismissive, or speculative. Pastors are so eager to explain to other pastors a phenomenon that is best understood by talking to individuals.
My doctor just told me that allergies in NYC are so terrible this season because the city planted a ton of male trees, which release more pollen.
So basically these male trees need to keep it in their plants.
What’s a food whose ‘healthier’ version you simply reject?
Mine is veggies masquerading as noodles. Get out of here with your spiralizer. No one has ever eaten a bite of zucchini noodles and thought, ‘yes this brings the same amount of mouth joy as carbonara’
Saying this very much as an SBC outsider, it's hard for me to see why all women shouldn't leave the SBC.
What if anything has the denom communicated to women in recent years that would make them feel valued, protected, and esteemed as co-laborers in Christ?
It has also become clear to me that I am simply not well-suited to the politics of institutional life in the SBC.
Therefore, I have made the difficult decision not to return to SEBTS in the fall.
2/3
Ah okay, I'll go in on one of my bits.
I don't find the deconstruction thread about worship music being "manipulative" that convincing. Why is live music manipulative in an evangelical worship service, but a powerful encounter of transcendence or whatever at a U2 show?
For anyone who knew Tim Keller personally or has a story to share: he seemed to me to be anti-celebrity pastor, even while he had national name recognition and multiple best-selling books.
Do you have any stories to share about how he resisted celebrity? Share them here (or DM)
Okay one more thing about faith deconstruction (my goat was gotten): it’s not the same as deconversion. Re-examining long-held beliefs, doubting, and questioning can be natural parts of faith *development.* Life is long. People come back to church—maybe just a different church.
“So many pastors put themselves on this pedestal. And it’s basically, church can be surrounded around the man, the pastor, the guy, and it’s like, ‘This guy has this ultimate relationship with God...' The reality is, every human being has the same access to God.”
@justinbieber
Single women having a rough go of it on this site the past few days. All this vitriol from men who fashion themselves to be culture warriors, dunking on single women for, IDK, not being miserable?
Meanwhile, the data show that women are faring better than men by every metric.
How can anyone really claimed to have been 'canceled' when they have a new book, tour, and comedy special? At this point, how can Crist advance the victim narrative with a straight face?
Acceptable occasions to wear yoga pants…
Alone in your house w/ your husband.
Working out alone in your private gym while your husband watches you.
The end.
No public venues. Not social media.
the male urge to get just enough seminary training to accrue the smugness needed to tell women they will die lonely and sad if they don't start having babies
Oh okay, the man I was engaged to a long time ago is now an Anglican priest who co-authored an open letter calling for a moratorium on women's ordination. Not that I ever wanted to be ordained, but you know how they talk about dodging a bullet?
We should all pay attention to the sermon at churches because we want to hear from the Holy Spirit, not because we want our pastor to know they are doing a good job.
This is micromanaging.
Small ways to encourage your pastor during the preaching event:
1. Sit near the front
2. Keep Bible open
3. Eye contact
4. Whatever non-verbal and verbal feedback you can muster, befitting your culture and personality
5. Phone silenced and away
6. Stifle yawns
7. Stay put
One cannot understand the psychological (not merely theological) dimensions of modern evangelicalism without considering “fear of liberal drift.” You can be outside that orbit for years and still worry that any change of perception is spiritually suspect.
Maybe we assume that men like Ramsey, Mark Driscoll, James MacDonald, John MacArthur, etc. are displaying righteous anger. But there's a difference between anger when one is personally offended or challenged, and Jesus' anger over greed and injustice perverting God's temple.
I don't mean this to sound conspiratorial, as if color coordination is evil! 😂
I'm highlighting this simply to underscore that everything that happened on Sunday at TVC was planned for appearances.
Okay I'm going to say it because no one else will and it could get me canceled:
It's extremely bad for pastors to show photos of their genitalia to staff!
how do i ask a man on a date?
i realize this seems like it has a simple answer, but after having been in a christian subculture where women weren't supposed to ask men out, i'm learning a new skill.
submit answers by 5pm ET Friday 😂
A general principle about drawing analogies between sex and faith:
The more graphic the details, it not only becomes more cringe, it also strays further from the scriptural analogy in Eph. 5.
Paul calls it a "profound mystery," so leave it at that.
I don't use this word often but it takes some particularly large CAJONES to go all in on defending complementarian ideology and church structures today
The best feeling when you write a book is holding it, and the second best feeling is submitting the final manuscript …. WHICH I JUST DID FOR CELEBRITIES FOR JESUS.
How should I even celebrate?
The New Testament says Christians are to put away hostility, enmity, "fits of anger," dissension, wrath, and malice. Church leaders are not to be quarrelsome but gentle.
Evangelicals have a pretty good ethical framework for sex and money. Anger, not so much.
We all get irritated! We all have let our anger get the better of us. (Especially on here!) Christian leaders are human, and many of them are under a lot of pressure.
But if a leader regularly verbally lashes out at others, that's a big red flag. In fact, it's disqualifying.
For
@CTmagazine
, I wrote an essay highlighting that the early church elevated females for their faith witness, not their fertility. Amid growing concerns about unmarried Christian women, I argue the church should do the same today.
So, I spoke with JP Pokluda -- probably best known here as the Waco pastor who inappropriately described a woman's body in a sermon, then apologized (inc. to me) -- about why most pastors shouldn't write books.
Unless you're like Eugene Peterson.
Public figures' legacies are worth discussion and debate! But waiting a hot second honors the person *as a person.*
I'm worried we all just see public figures, and their deaths, as a chance to rehash our ideological talking points. IOW, here's another chance to talk about meee!
Last week I learned that a forthcoming book on orthodoxy is being marketed with the offer of $100 for people who agree to tweet about it twice.
At the very least, influencers should disclose they have been compensated to tweet, yes?
(Then again, when your masculinity borrows more from John Wayne than Jesus, pastors like Driscoll and leaders like Ramsey often confuse bold leadership with acting like an SOB. 🤠
Some of this is fearing that gentleness might make you look weak. "Real men" take charge etc.)
Besides Hillsong, Bethel, and Elevation: which current individuals or groups are creating good music for use in corporate worship settings?
Drop your recommendations here. 👇
Good things don't need a spiritual lesson extracted from them in order to count as good! We can just enjoy created goods for what they are, not for whatever content we can wrest out of them. (To be clear, I do this too sometimes; it works. But I don't like that it works.)
Amid the TGC article dustup, some people are surprised that a couple book endorsers hadn't read the full book.
But that's exactly in line with the way endorsements work in Christian publishing these days.
And that's a problem. My piece for
@CTmagazine
@daneortlund
This implies there are no healthy or unhealthy churches, which is obviously false. Putting aside questions of abuse, we need categories for assessing a church’s spiritual health, maturity, hospitality, care for those in need, and all the other things that mark the body of Christ
I'm convinced it's no coincidence so many critics of JESUS AND JOHN WAYNE for the life of them can't spell Kristin Kobes Du Mez's (
@kkdumez
) name correctly. She's not a person deserving of the five seconds it takes to look a name up; to them, she's a problem to react to.
BARBIE was so delightful for so many reasons, and Margot Robbie brought an unexpected depth and tenderness, but Ryan Gosling as Ken might be his best acting ever? He stole every scene. I want to see more actors commit this wholeheartedly
Me at the car rental: “Are you sure you don’t have anything besides the Mustang? I really just want a basic car.”
Clerk: “Oh we thought you’d like it! Like you’re in Thelma and Louise! Vroom vroom!”
Me: “Have you seen the end of that movie?”
So I knew that the
@CTmagazine
report was coming, because I spoke with the reporter a few months, and people are asking if I'm really surprised, and the answer is yes and no.
This will be bad for his soul, and I hold the professing Christians connected to Turning Point and all those who fund their efforts largely responsible
Hesitate to post this, but do we realize who we are becoming? This is absurd. It’s one thing to say a young man who made foolish decisions should be declared legally innocent. Another to turn him into a traveling folk hero. Not to mention what this will do to him, personally.
I don’t mean to add to the pile-on but we sometimes forget that children are people, so to say that you dislike a large swath of people is essentially discriminatory
Adviser boards and top staff might find it hard to address the leader's anger, because they don't want a verbal lashing and they don't want to lose their job. It's hard to stand up to a bully!
But we can be on the lookout for patterns early on in someone's leadership.
A pastor who has abused their power over people doesn't need a wellness retreat.
My concern is that this "pastoral recovery" center will be a place where unhealthy leaders cycle in and out, to check off a box in order to return to public ministry.
Here is advance access to my lead editorial for
@WNGdotorg
tomorrow:”The Verdict Is In: The Manhattan Show Trial Ends With Former President Trump Convicted— But Now the Real Trial Begins”
"...and I'm sad we've become so loyal to this culture, we're afraid to deconstruct in places where it's lost its way, it's harmful, it's producing things that allow the world to mock and cause young people to walk away...."
For the evening crowd: I'm not a betting woman but if I were, I'd wager that Carl Lentz will be back in church ministry and/or that he and/or his wife will publish a redemption story in the next 6-12 months.
This is why this story is not just about individuals behaving badly, but also about a culture that allows individuals to behave badly without recourse. It's culture, it's systemic, and it's undeniably rooted in male privilege.
This is an unfortunate response to the reality of abuse in the church. And yes, I’m addressing it publicly because it’s public speech.
Many people publicly address abuse because they tried to address it privately and were ignored or dismissed.
Here's best-selling evangelical author Shaunti Feldhahn reprimanding people who call out abusive pastors:
"There's something that feels really good about venting...But we're told in Scripture that's not [something] we should be perpetuating."
#churchtoo
On a more serious note, I would be interested in a book that addresses toxic positivity from a theological perspective and connects it to lament, grief, and joy.
Popped on X after a month away (glorious!) long enough to catch wind of a dustup involving Alistair Begg, followed by reaction and then reaction to the reaction.
It captures what I think defines modern evangelicalism and why I'm glad to be out of that subculture: ANXIETY.
He's back and, if you can believe it, got weirder? Like, we've always known he's offensive, but having him quiet for several months, he now just seems to me so impossibly *weird*
A few general principles on book endorsements:
- Endorse books you have read
- Endorse books you have read based on quality of content (not simply as a favor)
- Do not endorse books you don't have time to read.
- Do not offer 'endorsements' written by someone other than you.
What's something an editor can do when they see an author who's quite overdue on their manuscript tweeting to and fro?
I'm looking for something both passive and devastating.