In the spirit of paying it forward, I would like to start something on twitter! Send a heart ♥️
#randomhearts
(any color) to a stranger on twitter. If you get one send one to another person. Keep this going! No explanation needed!
#PayItForward
💗❤️🧡💛💚💙💜🖤 please RT
Reminder: Narcissists are often considered charming & engaging due to their inflated sense of self-importance & their ability to charm others into doing what they want.
This makes them very successful in social settings, where many people are likely to be influenced by them.
@mikeywitchermsc
@PORNOGRAFIAA4
Just a friendly reminder that Twiggy fans are disgusting af! This is rape culture. The entire MM fandom is a bunch of dangerous idiots. Block them but never forget that they think this way. 🤮🤢 Are you proud of what you helped create
@twiggy_wars
?
@RVAwonk
This is an example of a “friend” who decided than owning their own feelings, they’’d speak on my rape. He regularly put me in a position where l had to choose between him & helping others. My rapist isn’t a drummer, he’s a bassist/guitarist. This is DARVO?
“I know of no woman who doesn’t house inside her the nagging feeling that maybe she won’t be believed, or will cause too much trouble, or will lose her friendships, or the truth will put her in danger. I’m haunted by the losses to humanity those infinite silences represent.”
I’ve watched good people become monsters on this app, because their beliefs are challenged by strangers. I refuse to let you call me transphobic,
@twiggy_wars
. I don’t know you & you have no clue about my abuse experience I don’t want more pain for 2023. No more, time to heal.💜
For the last time. 2 + years ago I made a difficult choice & an honest life changing public statement. Anyone who still doubts me isn’t worth convincing. If you choose to support criminals or can’t stomach the truth, unfollow me. I’m unapologetically enthusiastic about my life.
I invite you into an era of kindness & light! Social media is poison! I’m going to leave twitter…I’d delete but I don’t want anybody using my name to speak for me. (YES, it’s happened) Be better. Be kind. Be human. Have empathy. Trust the process.
#RandomHearts
♥️💔💜💛💚❤️
#Monday
People who give out abuse, criticism, insults, punishments, etc all day everyday should never be shocked when somebody a little wiser with facts calls them out. Treat people with respect & you’ll be pleasantly surprised by the outcome of your next interaction.💜
“Frankly, I’d feel more comfortable having a new President. But I would feel like it would be a
#bonus
if we got rid of our Vice President too!”
My response to the idea of having teachers carrying guns.
#OperationReboot
#BanAssaultWeapons
#ImpeachTrump
Before you convince yourself that survivors are lying, ask yourself If you know anything about them other than what’s reported or publicly available? Then.. Ask yourself why are you weighing in on somebody else’s trauma? What makes you an authority on somebody else’s suffering?🖤
Marilyn Manson’s former bass player, Twiggy Ramirez (Jeordie White) was accused of rape by the lead singer of Jack off Jill.
His one supporter online
@twiggy_wars
has posted constant messages of harassment and abuse.
He’s now upped that to trying to extort money from her.
This Is my
#family
who has taken care of me since I moved to LA! I❤️them so much! “In family life, love is the oil that eases friction, the cement that binds closer together, & the music that brings
#harmony
." - Nietzsche
#KeanuReeves
#karina
@bethidont
& my second mom Patric! ❤️
How hyper fixated do you have to be to twist my tweet lamenting about my mom losing her cancer battle? She’s a
#survivor
. What a deep lack of empathy you must have to twist my words, making them about a recently deceased woman in order to reinvigorate your sycophantic lies.
For all
#survivors
Goddess sees good and bad. What does humanity require of you but to seek justice, to love kindness, and to walk humbly with all people and not abuse your power. We pray for those who have been abused within our communities. May they have peace in eternity. ♾
From the bottom of my heart, I thank you
@rosemcgowan
. I appreciate all you have done. Your generosity and bravery has given so many new hope. Endlessly in support of you! ❤️
Some of the women I knew: as soon as there’s news of a powerful man abusing women, they wait to hear the inevitable story about a woman’s imperfect history in order to publicly gaslight them. It’s now normalized to
#victimblame
& discredit
#survivors
.
I don’t want to be around most ppl anymore. Not irl or virtually. IMHO, Humans are extremely disappointing. This isn’t a cry for help. It’s a sad observation from 1 who used to be social. I want to
#makeart
, garden,😘
#cats
&
#write
. How do we collectively do better? 🌈
#IAmNotOk
because I was raped & abused by a person who’s famous. When I told anybody they insisted it would be my word against his. Nobody would believe me. “You’re fat & ugly, why would he chose you?” This played in my head until I found out he did this to several other women.
@janetjennkinns
You’ve never met me. You have no idea what I’m like or the type of person I am. You don’t get access to me because you liked the music I made. I kindly asked you to stop tweeting things I never said. You inserted yourself in this gross drama. I’m not mad.
Take care of yourself!💜
2 + years ago I made a difficult choice & an honest life changing public statement. Anyone who still doubts me is not worth convincing. If you like living in the past & not embracing the present, feel free to unfollow or cancel me. I’m unapologetically excited about my future.
To
@neilstrauss
I was never a
#groupie
. I was in a band & getting signed. You were JW’s lapdog. I actually have recorded evidence of some of it. You have made your $$$ off of
#misogyny
,
#rapeculture
demeaning women, & aggrandizing “rock star” abusers & rapists.Own it! RT
These are my quotes from a story that got killed because my rapist intimidated other women he abused. They want to remain anonymous. 🩵 This is me with my band
@JACK_OFF_JILL_
when I was a teenager, I met my rapist/abuser a few years before this photo was taken. Miami📷
#JillKahn
The same thing happened in my situation. My rapist found people that didn’t like me or didn’t know me in order to lie to them & make them believe that it was his band mate who groomed & raped me. This made people doubt me, spread the lie while he played the wounded victim. 🧵
DARVO is the
#1
tactic used by psychological abusers, and it often involves “grooming allies” to believe falsehoods about the victim. The perpetrator often tries to denigrate the victim by bringing up unrelated negative accusations — anything to deflect.
💯I was so nervous that night (extreme stage fright) Go figure? I don’t remember saying this. Obviously, I did. I did eat a lot of donuts that day! Thanks for the footage Ari.
#bodypositivity
♾️ 💜every shape & size!
Seeing endless examples of powerful
#abusers
being vile bigoted misogynists - weaponizing their fans w/ misinformation. Seeing many
#surviors
be publicly charitable while trying to help inform. Yet again, WE are called POS daily! More dehumanizing lack of accountability
#twitter
!
I’ve never felt safe in the
#musicindustry
. Insolent
#misogyny
bleeds into all art. Abuse in those industries is pervasive. More than 1/2 of all female artists say they’ve experienced
#sexualharassment
SA rape &
#Targetedharrassment
, citing that the culture looks away & allows it
Very appreciated. I didn’t like what was happening in the
#musicindustry
(especially nu metal), so I left. I’ll always be proud of my small loud angry/sad contribution. 🌈🐈⬛🏳️🌈💪🏽♾♥️“Don’t be discouraged. It’s often the last key in the bunch that opens the new lock for others!”🙏🏼
I really really really felt the birthday love from so many this year. I am so grateful. Thank you, this was a really good
#Birthday
! To everybody who has stuck by me in these very difficult times…. you are my strength. 💜
#randomhearts
#YAGTBO
🌈🐈⬛ ♾
@xtianAddams
🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤🖤
Truth is out, fans are too ashamed to admit that they participated in mocking abuse
#survivors
. They’ll say they were manipulated by the media. BS! The sex, drugs & historic abusive treatment of women & girls in that space is VILE. This is why I DON’T create in that space anymore
I’ve never defended my shocking interviews/ shows. I exist in 💯accountability. Shows are performances that people pay to see. I’ve never had a younger intimate partner nor have I ever been sued by my abuser because he never denied it. 👇🏼 won’t age well!
#IBelievesurvivors
.
I’m ♾ learning everyday. Being a better woman doesn’t mean you are better than any other woman. It means that you are a better woman today than the woman you were yesterday. It means that you are a better version of yourself. Nobody needs to ‘pick me’ because I’ve chosen myself.
I know it’s not
#October
! & it’s still too hot to wear my 99 cent
#skeleton
#Halloween
dress from 2015! I know people don’t mask inside anymore.🤦🏻♀️ 2nd photo LA 2015
@JOJ_official
📷 by healthy vs. not healthy. A good example of how you can get
#healthier
.
Today we got to celebrate baby WU -MEDWIN… 📷with the good friend ♾
I’m wearing blue! 🔷👕🥣💙🦋🧢🔵 It takes a village to raise a child. A lot of us today are showing up to be a part of his life journey. I can’t wait to meet him!!!!!!!
3 things! Ahhhhhh ! 🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥107! To anybody who told me to shut up in the last 24 hours on twitter! My answer is: NO! :)
Missing you
#redmaninvan
I think you’d be so proud!
#Jenny8675309
♥️♾
Enablers help sexual predators remain free.
#RKelly
had an entourage & fans.
#Weinstein
&
#JeffreyEpstein
had $ & powerful people”s protection.
#BillCosby
had endless suppprt & resources. If you defend anyone because you blindly worship them, you are a huge part of the problem.
“The overwhelming majority of men who engage in sexual abuse spend most of their time not behaving as monsters” but as people victims care for or love. Read more of our ED’s comments:
There is an undeniable problem. But without a clear path to justice, many
#survivors
have used social media to speak out; posting photos or video evidence & detailing horrific events, often prompting others to come forward but also allowing fans/bots to stalk, lie & harrass us.
@deadnparanoid
@vaGina934
Some teens want to be in control and at the top of their social ladder in a certain toxic stan groups. Diminishing the status of another person & spreading lies about them is never okay, even if you think they will never see what you tweeted. It has to stop.
I’ve finally provided this information publicly because I have no legal recourse.
Coming forward, I was met with more questions & false accusations than support. As a result of trying to work with the justice system, the daily online victim blaming stopped me from sharing this.
This is a text conversation that Jessicka Adams shared on Instagram.
Marilyn Manson allegedly told people that his former bass player, Jeordie White sexually assaulted her.
To every stalker super fan lunatic who thinks I’m withholding information.. Please F()ck 0ff! lEnjoy this song! ! I’m going to enjoy my life.. and not gloat in the 💛truth!!!! As We Go Up, We Go Down
This is just quick experimental piece.
#YAGTBO
!
“You are going to be Okay!!! “
“take everything, take everything .. I want you to!” CL It only makes me more pissed off!
#HappyPride2023
🌈
There’s no such thing as a perfect
#survivor
. Dig & you’ll find something you don’t like about every person on earth, it’s called being human. Rape & assault aren’t mistakes, they are violent crimes. Now more than ever we need to have
#empathy
&
#compassion
for survivors.
#metoo
Narcissistic rapists harbor delusions that they are more successful, important, intelligent, & handsome than the average person. Because of their perceived superiority, they possess strong feelings of entitlement. Demanding admiration & loyalty to show they are decent & harmless.
On a serious note to all the brave inspiring people who shared
#YouKnowMe
stories. I applaud you wholeheartedly! On a lighter note, these
#AdeleMildred
sunglasses are giving me super powers!
Basically if you are reading this, I think you are great! 💜
#randomhearts
#HappySunday
I’ve noticed an increase of negative comments about my 2nd family & the people we love. My best friend’s brother & his family are amazing, kind, generous, private people. I have no issue reporting harassment & blocking trolls. Please keep it positive & civil, at least on my feed.
Healing isn’t a part time job.
It’s a full time career. You are accountable for your own success. It is your responsibility to discover & follow your path to healing. Everyday should be a personal commitment to managing & investing in your healing. You are going to be okay.
The history of
#SexualAssaultAwarenessMonth
. Every 1st Tue. of April is SAAM Day of Action. Giving an opportunity for highly visible & coordinated actions &⏱️to plan events. In 2009, President
@BarackObama
was the 1st to officially proclaim April
#SAAM
#youknowme
I don’t have a lot of photos of myself at 18 not in a band . So I won’t post one. At 18 I got pregnant by the man who would later abuse me and rape me. I chose to have an abortion because I could barely…