Josh
@JD_Quotes2017
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Father▪️Fiance▪️Supporter of Mental Health▪️~ Don't just follow me, walk with me. We'll get through this together. ~ J.D
England, United Kingdom
Joined June 2017
Sorry but someone who destroys your mental health, CANNOT be the love of your life.
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Who betrays you once, will betray you a thousand times. There is no need to drink the whole sea to realize that it's salty.
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A lot of problems come from not putting people in their place the first time they try you.
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Hurting someone, and expecting them to move on like nothing happened, is emotional abuse.
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Everybody loves you when you let everything slide. But as soon as you start checking things and creating boundaries, you become the most hated.
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People with the biggest hearts attract the most draining, disloyal, disrespectful and difficult people!.
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A narcissist wants to convince you that your reactions to their actions are the problem, when in fact, without their actions, there would be no reactions.
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Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody is not worth it. Love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Effort is what you need. Time is what you need. Honesty is what you need. Loyalty is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A friend is what you need.
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Love does not leave you traumatized. Whatever happened to you was not love.
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Narcissist be like. yes I hurt you, but now you hate me and gone cold on me, so I am the true victim.
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I hate when people say "if you love me you'll accept me as I am.". Loving you doesn't mean tolerating your refusal to develop emotional intelligence and heal your dysfunction. If you loved you, you would do the work so people who love you don't feel forced to walk away.
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Narcissists KNOW why you left, why you're upset, why you won't speak to them. They know that they hurt you. Explaining things to them only gives them an opportunity to twist your words, confuse & bring you back under control. Stop explaining yourself to someone who doesn't care.
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Someone who's truly meant for you, would never intentionally leave you confused, insecure, alone, struggling or unloved.
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The era of giving people the benefit of the doubt is over. Pay attention to what people show you.
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Divorce is ok. Breaking up is ok,.Starting over is ok. Moving on is ok. Saying no is ok. Being alone is ok. What is not ok is.staying somewhere.that you aren't happy,.valued or appreciated. That is not ok.
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Half of your beauty comes from the way you speak and treat people.
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Never try to defend yourself against a narcissist. They already know you're right, they just want you to go crazy trying to prove it.
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Toxic people get way too comfortable with disrespecting/mistreating others & just expecting them to “get over it” without holding themselves accountable. They mess up genuine people around them because thier pride is too big to give a decent apology followed by corrective action.
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Narcissists always see themselves as victims, no matter how horribly they've treated someone else. To them the problem is not their lying, cheating, manipulation and abuse. The problem is that you started to notice those things.
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I don't mind struggling with you, but I will not struggle because of you.
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Nothing annoys me more than when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if it was done to them.
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Not one scar on my heart came from the enemy, they all came from people who said they cared and loved me.
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I used to tolerate a lot because I didn't want to lose people. Now I establish boundaries because I don't want to lose myself.
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A narcissist wants to convince you that your reactions to their actions are the problem, when in fact, without their actions, there would be no reactions.
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"How dare you ruin my reputation by telling people the actual things I did and said!". - Every narcissist.
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You are a living proof that one can go through hell and back & still choose to be kind.
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Narcissists rewrite history to escape accountability. You are not crazy.
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People who play roles, will eventually forget their lines. Pay attention.
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Someone who's truly meant for you, would never intentionally leave you confused, insecure, alone, struggling or unloved.
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Don't let anybody make you feel crazy because you figured them out.
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The faker you are, the bigger your circle will be. The realer you are, the smaller your circle will be. These are well-known facts.
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Move on like you never knew them, because in reality. you didn't.
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There is a difference between a person who hurts you by making a mistake, and a person who hurts you by continuing a pattern. Mistakes can be forgiven. Patterns should be broken.
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Another problem with having a big heart is people think you're stupid.
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Manipulation is when they focus on how you reacted instead of how they treated you.
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Toxic people don't seek counseling. Instead, they find a new person who doesn't know they're lying.
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Narcissists always see themselves as victims, no matter how horribly they've treated someone else. To them the problem isn't their lying, cheating, manipulation, stealing and abuse. The problem is that you started to notice those things.
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You can look out for someone 100% and they will still put you after people who have never done a thing for them.
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Narcissists always see themselves as victims no matter how horribly they've treated someone else. To them the problem is not their lying, cheating, stealing and abuse. The problem is that you started to notice those things.
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If you're struggling and your life partner is just sitting there watching you struggle. They're not your life partner.
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Don't let anybody make you feel bad because you figured them out.
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Everybody loves you when you let everything slide, but as soon as you start checking things and creating boundaries, you become most hated.
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Don't let nobody make you feel like you are always the problem. Manipulation is real.
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I am a very forgiving person. So if i stop talking to you, you really did too much.
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Some people will never ask for your side of the story, because the side they heard fits how they want to feel about you.
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So often we hurt our own feelings by thinking we mean more to people than we really do, just because they mean that much to us. People treat you exactly how they feel about you. Pay attention to actions, not just words.
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Narcissists always see themselves as victims, no matter how horribly they've treated someone else. To them the problem is not their lying, cheating, manipulation & abuse. The problem is that you started to notice those things.
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Just because a person doesn't put hands on you, that doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect, and also hurtful words. Don't settle for emotional abuse thinking it's ok because it's not physical.
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They'll do you dirty, play the victim, then try to convince people it's you.
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Suicide isn't cowardly. I'll tell you what is cowardly; treating people so badly that they want to end their lives.
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How someone makes me "feel' emotionally and mentally is way more important than what they can "do" for me materialistically and physically. I'll always choose love, affection, and emotional support over being showered with gifts. All I want is my energy reciprocated.
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The moment you put a stop to people taking advantage of you and disrespecting you, is when they define you as being awkward, difficult, selfish, or crazy. Manipulators hate boundaries.
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Confront a manipulator about what they did wrong, and watch them make it about you.
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The way people treat you, is a statement about who they are as human being. It is not a statement about you.
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Never regret being a good person to the wrong people. Your kindness says everything about you, and their behavior says everything about them.
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Nothing annoys me more than when someone expects you to be okay with something that they wouldn't be okay with if it was done to them.
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A lot of women and men have lost good years staying loyal to toxic people.
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I hate when people say "if you love me you'll accept me as I am.". Loving you doesn't mean tolerating your refusal to develop emotional intelligence and heal your dysfunction. If you loved you, you would do the work so people who love you don't feel forced to walk away.
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Who else was happily looking for a soulmate, but feels like they ended up with a degree in psychology, specializing in Narcissistic Personality Disorder?.
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You didn't become selfish, you became harder to manipulate. Don't confuse the two.
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Some people are truly great manipulators. They can lie, cheat, treat you badly and somehow manage to make it all seem like it's your fault. Don't fall for it, that is just what toxic people do best.
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Narcissists and toxic people are great at giving you just enough hope to keep you holding on to nothing.
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Most of the scars on people's hearts weren't left by their enemies. They were left by the people who claimed to care and love them the most.
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It's okay if you thought you were over it, but it hits you all over again. It's okay to fall apart even if you thought you had it under control. You're not weak. Healing is messy. And there's no timeline for healing.
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Anyone who easily believes lies about you without hearing your side of the story, was probably looking for a reason to be against you, anyways.
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When you cut off someone from your life, they will never tell people the full story, they will only tell them the part that makes you look bad and them innocent or the victim.
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Toxic people be like. yes I hurt you but now you hate me, so I am the true victim.
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Ignoring the red flags, because you wanna see the good in people, will cost you later.
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The strongest people are the ones who are still kind after the world tore them apart.
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Everybody loves you when you let everything slide. But as soon as you start checking things and creating boundaries, you become the most hated.
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A break from someone, will either make you realize how much you truly miss/ love them, or how much peace you have without them.
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Never try to defend yourself against a narcissist. They already know you're right, they just want you to go crazy trying to prove it.
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That boring life you think you're maybe living, can save you from a lot of fake people.
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Manipulation is when they focus on how you reacted instead of how they treated you.
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Do you ever feel like you aren't even family with some of your family?.
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If you are reading this right now, I hope something unexpectedly good happens to you this weekend!.
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Be careful who you feel sorry for. Some people are good at lying and playing the victim.
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Most of the scars on people's hearts weren't left by their enemies. They were left by the people who claimed to love them the most.
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If your absence doesn't bother them, then your presence never mattered to them in the first place.
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Narcissist, and Toxic people be like. yes I hurt you, but now you hate me and gone cold on me, so I am the real victim.
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I don't think people realize how much strength it takes to pull your own self out of a dark place mentally. So, if you've done that today or any day, I'm proud of you.
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Just because a person doesn't put their hands on you, doesn't mean they aren't abusive. Abuse is control, blatant disrespect, emotional black mail, manipulation, and hurtful words. Don't settle for emotional abuse thinking it's OK because it's not physical.
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If they wanna talk to you, they will. if they want to be with you, they will. if they wanna make things work, they will. don't let things be one sided. it's not healthy, and it's not fair to you.
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Love does not intentionally leave you traumatized. Whatever happened to you was not love.
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Don't let nobody make you feel like you are always the problem. manipulation is real.
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No matter how lonely your Journey gets. Never Reinvite toxic people back into your life again.
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Don't make the mistake of being so understanding and forgiving that you overlook the fact that you're being disrespected.
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Sometimes, you don't realize how much you have neglected yourself until you make yourself a priority again.
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Nobody gets more upset than a narcissist being accused of something they (definitely) did.
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Unconditional love does not mean unconditional acceptance of bad behavior.
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Please be kind. Don't be the reason someone skips a meal, hates waking up, or feels left out. Your words and actions can stick with people forever.
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When toxic people can't control you, they try to control how others view you.
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The world is full of monsters with friendly faces and angels full of scars.
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The real flex is healing yourself without becoming like those who traumatized you.
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Another problem with having a big heart is the people who take advantage, think you're dumb.
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Staying in a relationship just because you love somebody, is not worth it. Love is not all you need. Respect is what you need. Effort is what you need. Time is what you need. Honesty is what you need. Happiness is what you need. A best friend is what you need.
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The moment you put a stop to people taking advantage of you and disrespecting you, is when they define you as difficult, selfish or crazy. Manipulators hate boundaries.
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Don't be afraid of losing someone who is not grateful to have you.
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The only people who deserve to be in your life are the ones who treat you with love, kindness and respect.
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