I'm well aware there is a market for fat SWers, for nonbinary/trans SWers, for PoC SWers, queer ones, everyone. But there is a much, much, MUCH bigger market and place in society for skinny c1shet yt people. It's fact and no amount of "oh but you're beautiful!!!" can change that.
Hey subs who are upset about tribute because you wanna "get to know us first", your desires absolutely do NOT outweigh the fact that a) this is a job and b) tribute means even if you waste our time we're still compensated for having to deal with you!
Tired of yt str8 dommes acting like you're only a valid domme if you're super feminine and buy designer label clothing. I just don't... give a shit? I'll spend my money on what I enjoy thanks.
Some dommes don't seem to be aware that you can be a successful domme and make money without putting other dommes down in your public posts. It's not cute and if men are into it that's them being misogynistic asf (and so are you).
Can any subs explain the point of offering to pay for something or to buy us something (in my case it was boots) while having 0 intention of actually doing it? I've been so curious as to what yall could gain from it?
If your posts aren't going viral like mine sometimes do, here's what to do:
I have no fvcking idea I'm literally just talking outta my ass I'm so sorry lmao
Telling other dommes to quit if they haven't made x amount or if they have to work for it isn't dominant or sexy. Focus on your damn self if you're making so much money, who gives a fuck about others? If we're not competition to you why do you care if we quit or not?
I'm gonna be real I absolutely have made subs during drains Silent send to my mutuals sometimes. I'll never tell yall when bc idc about the credit I just want everyone to win 🥹
I'm better than your domme because I'm all natural, no filler/botox/cosmetic surgery... see how stupid that sounds? That has nothing to do with anyone's actual abilities as a domme. Y'all sound ridiculous.
The fact that a sub was released from ownership by a moot yesterday and he's already owned by someone else is so wild to me. Yall will slap your name on just any random guy huh?
If you tell me you have "no limits" it just shows me that you don't KNOW your limits. It's okay to not know everything about what you are and aren't into but I promise you everyone has limits.
"Some random domme got (send amount) this week it's so unfair"
That random domme, most of the time, is someone who has put weeks, months, even years into their craft, marketing themselves, networking and generally learning about the community. It's not unfair, they deserve it
Dommes when you've got another smaller/new domme offering to switch for you, just... be aware that there are those out there who do it for the hopes that you'll post about them so they gain more followers and are exposed to your audience. That's all.
Unfollowed someone a couple months ago maybe that was ALWAYS in drama and after unfollowing the shit on my timeline mellowed out so damn much. Don't let dommes in drama ruin this space for you.
I feel really bad for people who haven't made genuine connections in the industry 😭 genuinely I wouldn't be here without my friends and I'm so sorry yall have been so brutally fvcked over by the community. I promise it's not all like that.
People: Lose weight.
Me: Difficult bc I'm disabled.
Them: You're disabled bc you're fat.
Me: No I'm disabled bc genetic chronic illness that has nothing to do with being fat. In fact, many of the meds I'm on have a side effect of g a i n i n g w e i g h t.
Them:... You're fat
Subs that use insults like "you look like you eat too much McDonalds" using literally the same lines as kids used when I was in middle school? Like okay kiddo it's naptime, the adults are talking here.
Can I just point out that telling an AFAB nonbinary person that they look masculine in some way is absolutely not the insult you think it is? Like yassss validate my gender harder Daddy 😫
Twitter: This app is for people to communicate
People on Twitter: *comment, follow and generally interact w people*
Twitter: Oh WHAT THE F*CK ARE YOU DOING
I wanna be open about my physical disabilities/illnesses here, it's obviously a pretty big part of my life and I like to spread awareness. But y'all will fetishize serious health conditions and that just... doesn't fuckin sit right with me.
I always found it so frustrating as an Autistic person when I'd simply state a fact like "I'm really good with animals" or "I'm in the top classes for my year" or whatever and someone would claim I'm bragging when to me I was literally just... telling the truth?
A sub messages me, asks me for a 5 min video call for free to get to know each other. Not happening, but I digress.
Now say I do, let's say I'll do this 5 min video call, you decide I'm not for you, you leave. 5 mins of my day wasted, right? Wrong. Because that sub will not be
Look y'all I am putting out a boundary right now. And I'm gonna be reposting it frequently.
If I, as a switch, want to serve you, /I/ will approach YOU. I do not consent to being pursued as a sub, I do not consent to s*xual voice notes/messages intending to pull me in as a sub.
To dom(me)(x)s - if you've ever interacted with my posts, liked, commented, RTed, whatever. Thank you. Thank you so much. I don't think a year ago I quite knew what I was getting myself into and it's so much better than I imagined bc of YOU.
10/10 recommend not setting a specific unblock fee and basing it off of how badly they piss you off. Also very recommend giving one with 0 intention of unblocking them.
"Why would you promote other dommes' content, you might send subs their way instead of yours"
Me: *RTs another 5 dommes* Sorry I can't hear you over how gay I am and how much I don't care.
In all seriousness if a sub sees someone's media and decides they like the dom(me) more
Please please be careful what you say in group chats everyone. And I'm not talking about problematic stuff, I'm talking about anything that could be used against you by a bitch ass lurker with no courage 🥰
You're not a bad Findomme because you need to be online for many hours a day in order to make money. You're not a bad Findomme if you don't constantly get paid literally to exist.
You're not a bad Findomme for working for this.
Can I just say I see all of y'all who interact with me and I love you endlessly. I'm not very active on the timeline and I feel awful for that I'm just so tired so much and sometimes just reading is hard. But I love my mutuals, I love you all. You mean so much to me and I'm sorry
If you're not from SW Twitter and you come onto my statuses to complain about SW related posts I immediately discredit everything you're about to say and truly do not care and will not read it all. Kthanks.
Majority of dommes are aware that we're s*x workers btw. There are definitely some in denial, usually newer ones who came in from TT, but yes... we are aware, this is not news.
Subs I promise you no one cares if you find their partner a turn off. Sure lemme leave my partner of almost a decade bc they don't fit the standards of loser men online that have to beg for our attention.
Not my ex femsub coming back with a new account, pretending to be someone else, like her typing style isn't incredibly familiar to me. Again, shows she doesn't care about my consent or how I feel.
Some dommes act like they're legally obligated to tweet every thought they have.... it's me, I'm some dommes.
So do y'all get fully naked when you change clothes before you start putting your new outfit on, or do you do it piece by piece?
666 followers, my favourite number!!! Thank all of you so much I can't believe how far I've come since July. Send me 6/66/666/6666 to celebrate obviously 🥰
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Had a long term plan with a sub (before he disappointed me) to have him chained up in my basement and live on a diet of my... waste shall we say?
I find it funny that I woke up to (primarily submissives?) quoting my tweet and being like "you sound r*tarded I bet no one says that" uh I'd say the 50-ish comments so far agreeing with me would indicate that yes, dommes absolutely do say that :) Hope this helps!
A sub: You're perfect Goddess
Me: Yeah I know
A fellow domme: You're perfect
Me: OMG OMG NOT HALF AS PERFECT AS YOU PLEASE YOU'RE ETHEREAL STEP ON ME BARKBARKBARK
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Look, subs, we as dommes are not responsible for your bad choices in picking a domme in the past. You got scammed? Sucks. Your fault. I've been scammed too, and it sucks, but it was MY fault. Do your research, just like we're expected to do. We might be better than you but we're
I think it's probably quite hard for most able bodied people to come to terms with the fact that everything we do takes more effort and yet we're still out here managing the same if not more than y'all. We're not lazy, we're fighting harder than you ever have had to just to be
I can't fucking stand when subs bombard me with DMs and get pissy that I don't reply right away WHEN I'M LITERALLY ASLEEP? Timezones exist you brainless fucks.
I'm uhhhh finally gonna try get over my phobia of driving and actually learn to drive. Idgaf if anyone thinks 28 is "old" to learn bc if I can get over a 13 year phobia I'm gonna be so proud of myself.
The vet felt it was best for them to go at the same time, so they did. I was okay until Junimo started fighting the vet to try get back to me, now I'm falling apart. I'll miss you my beautiful beans.
The fact that some newbie dommes haven't done enough research to know it's not okay to message a domme to ask who sends to them so you can ask for money too? Like I know there's some complicated rules to learn but surely that's not one of them? Common sense?