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@ExperienceDanny

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Holistic Pleasure Coach & Playmate ♥️ Psychedelic Healer 🍄 Kinky Gender-Fluid Vibe-Seeker 💫

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@ExperienceDanny
Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
11 days
@lillybilly299 Love isn’t always enough. You have to be at similar points in your healing journey and available for reciprocity.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
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@ask_aubry So even if he isn’t breaking n agreement between him and his wife…. He’s sharing nude photos and making fun of a woman?
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
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@SHADOWlZED Yeah this is delusional. Like have good boundaries and be discreet but parents are allowed to have sex. Should someone hire a babysitter to have a wank too? Parents can have sex without imposing it on their kids. What would be more traumatizing is this level of sexual shame.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
@gg_geist @ImBillRay You realize we can buy our own dinners and it’s cheaper than the cost of bad company…
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
I’ve transformed my experience of SW (and the success of my business) and here’s how… Prior to these changes I constantly struggled and felt victimized. These are some tips that worked for *me* Take it or leave it!!! (thread)
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
Because it needs to be said endlessly: DO NOT SPIT ON P*SSIES WITHOUT CONSENT SPIT IS NOT LUBE
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
3 years
Please don’t take a SW death as a chance to puff your chest about knowledge or solutions. We get it, you’re not dead. You must have done it right: screened perfectly, healed your trauma, etc, right? Wrong. No SW is responsible for the violence inflicted on them.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
8 days
@SHADOWlZED You also don’t need to “scream” during sex, that’s just bad boundaries and irresponsible.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
1 - tease. A pussy is not a dick. It does not respond well by being suddenly grabbed or sucked. This is one of the biggest mistakes I see folks make. A pussy needs to blossom. You gotta give it reasons to. Gently breathe (do NOT blow dear god), let your warm breath touch their
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
Free Advice! I've tinkered with OF for a long time & here's what works for me: As a FSSW I used to make the mistake of trying to approach OF like an OF model, which puts a lot of pressure and “to-do” on our plates that may not seem worth our time for the small amount of money.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
4 months
@_VishwajitPatil @NoCapFights Steer clear of men who refer to women as “females”
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
Friendly reminder we have an amazing SW support group going that is full of abundant resources and a safe space to make you feel good. Only rules are no gossip or promo. Positive self-care vibes. DM me for the link! RT for visibility
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
3 years
Twitter flirting with other SW is legit marketing and I don’t take it personally if it’s not genuine, I love the hustle. However, just a periodic reminder I’m ragingly gay and I’m always serious with my horny tweets and flirting. ☺️
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
7 - stop making it about you. People with pussies are often sensitive to energy. Leave your ego out of it. Hold firm and consistent space. Give them a place to be comfortable knowing that they don’t have to perform for you. Don’t just say and do the right things, EMBODY safe,
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 month
You provide your ID for all sorts of things far less valuable than the energy, time, and safety of a FSSW. Just send the ID. It's an adult service and access to someone's physical body. An ID is a minimal request.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
5 months
@MissMaliyah Not that this type of judgement tends to care about facts - it’s actually relatively low risk. All sex is risk even with confirm. In 17 years and possibly thousands of bbbj, I got gonnorhea in my throat once and it wasn’t even a client and it was treated easily. STIs happen
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
2 - observe. Stop doing what you THINK feels good, whether you own a pussy or a dick yourself. Each pussy is unique, and each pussy has unique mood on different days. There is no cheat code, there is no formula. Just *feel* and listen to the pussy. Are they pulling back? Are they
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
8 months
So i just had my credit cards with capital one closed because I'm a SW which tanked my score so anyway SW should be decriminalized and like I am a good customer and that is stupid and dumb.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
3 - ask. Do NOT try anything new without asking. Do not spit, suck, bite, penetrate, etc without asking! “Does this feel good?” “Do you want me to go harder?” “Do you like when I suck?” “Do you like when I use my hands?” “Would my fingers inside of your feel good?” “Would you
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
6 - be consistent. Stop trying to switch it up and do pussy gymnastics. There is no code. This is intuitive work! Play gently until you feel their body respond deeply. Once you find the rhythm that works, stay consistent. Again, it’s not a dick. Don’t take the responsiveness as a
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
Being mean doesn’t equate to dominance. In fact, the opposite is often true. Secure people don’t need to be aimlessly mean. Domination isn’t just a convenient cover for an inability to be vulnerable. True dominance is honest, open, and self-assured.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
Last night I had a SW woman client who not only was insanely hot & subby, she paid me in full *on top* of the deposit she already sent (even tho I offer 50% discount for SW) Men who ask for a discount bc you’re “hot fit white young” please begone forever the bar is set so high.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
Starting a SW peer support group on signal focused on affirmations, sharing resources, and advice. Hit me up for the link. RT for visibility 🙏🏼
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
7. I stopped being mad at clients and using any negative language to describe them. I find that my general compassion for clients brings me better ones. I reshaped my perspective and focus on clients who want to do better versus ones that cause harm.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
7 months
@forestofcake All consent is based on terms. Sometimes those terms are money. It doesn’t make it “not” consent. This is not that hard to figure out.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
6 months
I, too, fantasize about being “available now”…. What a luxurious life it would be to be sitting doing nothing but batting my false lashes wearing lingerie and eating fruit. I would need to raise my rate to 5,000/hr to accommodate this, so yall gotta pick one.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
3 months
@thefelicityhunt I did this in my early 20s and never ever again. Hard limit. If someone doesn’t love me being a SW they don’t love me, they love the prospect of controlling me.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
@belle_untamed Don’t do it. There’s no reason to rush into an interview with no training to represent us all. Seems very sus. Be responsible. Say no.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
7 months
I am blessed… My client helped pay for a large portion of my recent home renovations. I offered an overnight as a thank you, he insisted on paying me anyway. We have a very personal dynamic and yet he still pays my rate + tip every play date. The bar is set so high! 🥰
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
Ask before kissing. Ask before touching. Be sexy and ask. Get enthusiastic consent and then go for it with no hesitation.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
4 years
Someone somehow figured out what hotel I’m staying at and emailed them my ad and now I’m being kicked out. Whoever would do such a thing is such a gross sad human being, and the energy you sow, you will reap! I will stay blessed.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
5 - less is more - unless they ask for more. To elaborate on number 1, keep in mind that often hammering on a pussy is not effective. It will cause most people to clam up and close off. If they have opened and softened and are pushing into you or verbally asking for more - then
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
5. I mind my own business. Similarly as above: if it doesn’t make me money, I keep my mouth shut. That goes for gossip, criticism, debates, personal opinions, and other peoples business.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
3 months
@MTN_Climber01 @BOGO4Corduroy Who cares what he was trying to do. His generation and many even since then have casually molested young girls who ar barely sexually mature while simultaneously blaming the girls for being “a problem” because they’re beautiful.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
1. I stopped comparing. It was impossible to develop my own passion and my own niche when I was trying to measure up to some sort of “standard”.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
SW Affirmation: I am not for everyone. I choose to highlight my unique gifts and qualities as this is where the most money will be made. I am a master of my niche. There is no wrong way to brand.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
6. I only like and comment on things that help boost my brand or my experience of work in a positive manner. I use my timeline as a vision board as much as possible. If I wanna see it in my life, I engage with it.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
4 - bring in the body. People with pussies - particularly feminine people with pussies - need a full body experience to orgasm. People with high testosterone often enjoy focus on their genitals. More often than not when you are pleasuring a pussy, you are pleasuring the whole
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
10. I trust. I learned that giving myself, clients, providers, & slow periods plenty of trust & patience has changed me. I created a negative reality at many times, and because of this, bad vibes loved me. I find patience and trust now, and I am surrounded by much of the same. ❤️
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
4. I stopped making my personal issues or mental health my brand. I still have struggles, but I use my personal resources privately. I found that when I was public about mental health, it made me attractive to predators and mentally unwell people - which perpetuated my trauma.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
4 years
Any other hookers literally triggered by seeing “???”
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
2. I quit doing drugs and alcohol. It was an easy solution for nerves, but it became a crutch, and I often attracted clients who abused substances as well which further zapped my energy. Being conscious and clear is safest for me. I love feeling present and in control.
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
1 year
Let me go off for a moment about integrity in SW… We never know what the details of someone’s circumstances are. We all have unique delicate issues to balance in this life. Not being forthcoming to a partner about who I have sex with is not for me… but I also have been
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
I have almost a dozen Honey Birdette sets that no longer fit me that I’d like to donate to SW in need! If you’re a 34B top and XS/S bottom & a SW (queer/trans folks prioritized) please DM me! RT for visibility 🙏🏼
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Danny Gold | Holistic Playmate | New York & FMTY
2 years
3. I stopped including my politics in my brand. Sure I’ll comment on something here or there if I feel strongly about it *and* its appropriate. I have nothing to prove. My direct action takes place in my personal life - not my marketing or in a twitter pissing contest!
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