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@Wizarab10
That your partner doesn’t share your empathy towards others should be a concern, because how can you walk together in harmony if you don’t agree on such a fundamental aspect?
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@Wizarab10
That’s the kind of call they pray you don’t pick😂. They just want to mark the call register.
They not gonna pick even if you call back😁.
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@Wizarab10
A yoruba adage says “Bi onigba ba se pe igba e, ni won ma ba pe”.
Meaning “ the value that you place on yourself, is the measure of the society’s valuation of you”.
The value and love y’all be wanting all starts within you.
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@ThaBoyYom
That he spends on you from the start should be likened to a cow being fattened for the slaughter.
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@talk2veee
Folks be doing too much, giving advice they can’t take themselves, or swallow on behalf of their loved ones.
Suddenly, everyone don turn preacher of unconditional/agape love and forgiveness … 👍🏽.
It is well.
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@jon_d_doe
Deep down, I think we ladies know these things: we know when we’re with the wrong person, & when we’ve messed things up & it’s time to leave.
But because of emotions & greedy needs, we latch on & deceive ourselves with prayers & hopes that it works out, amidst insecurities.
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@_ParadiseParis1
@Wizarab10
Or he just knows his partner lacks wisdom and cannot contribute positively or constructively to improving the situation at hand or finding a way out.
In such cases, men will often judge or scrutinize their partner’s intelligence and overall value.
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@jon_d_doe
Good evening dear High Chief and Sir big bumbum 👋 🥰.
Phew😮💨, i need very cold water😩😂. I just used about 5hrs to catch up on the past 3 days teachings from you.
It wasn’t easy, but I made it😁💪🏽.
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Giving is not even sometimes about feelings, it a deliberate effort. You do it because it’s the right thing to do.
Giving has never been about abundance. Giving is about the heart. You give from WHAT YOU HAVE. Being rich does not make people generous. If you have 500 naira, you should be willing to share with your partner. This talk of being broke, is not the excuse for not giving, you think
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@Neo_officiall
Women know these things, and for the one that wants to be kept, appreciates and respects her man for it.
The ones that rebel are either in their confused phase, or just do not just see him as capable/worthy of leading her.
Giving in to all our whims only makes you a weak man.
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@bod_republlic
Ladies are dropping names, and what most of you are doing is insulting them and pushing the narrative of “olosho”, but a guy drops names and it suddenly becomes the funny banter it should be?
Is it Twitter that made y’all toxic or you came to the app lacking manners already?
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@Wizarab10
I’ve always said this; “love is a choice”.
You wake up every day choosing to love that person, not because you “feel” like it.
Feelings will only get you going, loving(continually choosing to be with that one person) will get you there.
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@jon_d_doe
The audacity! The disrespect!
Before a woman moves mad, she always knows who she can try it with.
I dare say this man has proven to be weak, even from courtship, cos dem no born am well make she try am with some type of men.
He is even asking if he is taking it too serious🤦🏽♀️.
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@Wizarab10
If folks will only take a minute to read about depression, then they’ll understand better that just because lack of money tipped you off into depression, doesn’t mean the abundance of it will bring you out.
Topics like these should make us more knowledgeable, not argue blindly.
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@DrOlufunmilayo
Exactly.
The job description here is not that of a security personnel. It's basically for orderliness, opening of doors and parking cars.
The dancing didn't hurt anybody, or the company's image.
Easy on them boys. Let's rest!
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@Wizarab10
I find it despicable that people would deem it unfit to intervene in a situation of physical assault. This act of turning a blind eye to evil has done us more harm then good.
That it is also a skit is horrendous! Like what is the message? Was this even funny? Is this content?🤦🏾♀️
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@Wizarab10
Oohhh Wiz, stop disturbing yourself.
Always, and at all times, the helper knows what’s been offered, and the one needing help also knows what she’s offering. They know!
It’s just hard owning up to transactional sex as their poverty alleviation scheme.
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@UgwunnaEjikem
But why would someone go on a date with an empty stomach?!
The same thing with parties; home training says "eat at home before going, so that even if they skip your table, your manners will remain intact"
Unless you're close friends, & he specifically asks to treat you, eat oo!
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@Wizarab10
Mouth touch am, she fold say na imaginary boyfriend.
Me I sha know say na from the abundance of her heart she take write am.
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@EbiFORexploit
@jon_d_doe
Naaah. She may not be a great cook, but noodles for two days doesn’t cut it.
It already shows she can’t be bothered, cos tell me why she couldn’t at least check recipes on YouTube if she was actually teachable and knew cooking good food was important.
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@jon_d_doe
High Chief Agba just followed me ooooo💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽💃🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽.
I had to check and check again if my eyes was seeing double😂😂.
I’m one who doesn’t comment much or stay active on here(I’m addicted though), so you will understand my disbelief🫢 .
Thank you so much Sir🙏🏽❤️. I’m humbled🫡.
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@Wizarab10
Like who used food to swear for some ladies nitori olorun?🤦🏾♀️
So what if he asks for a date? What guts do you have ordering food you cannot pay without his go ahead?
For those saying the guy overreacted, please don't act stupid and expect the other to be a "bigger person"!
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@ebukarrh
@Wizarab10
Saying how I don't have respect for a man, how I can never marry with my mannerless behavior, how they are big men and can buy my whole generation, that it's rude women that drags space with a man...
Oga leave talk na, you for don carry your car leave public transport for us🤷🏽
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@jon_d_doe
Agba, I think the basis of his argument lies in this part: “If she says “none”, just eat your dinner…”.
Notwithstanding the gravity of the child’s offense, the mother should still be able to instill a level of discipline at the moment( strike while the iron is hot) before the
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One thing is true: Family is the smallest unit of society, and the values it instills or not ultimately affects us all.
Good manners or those unbecoming, we know we can only give what we have.
But thankfully we can learn to accrue great qualities and attributes to ourselves💯
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@AlozieJohn1
@emmanuel_emike
@jon_d_doe
Oh, I’ll rather ignore you.
You’re a lot confused, and your lack of manners makes one to question your upbringing.
If ordinary cooking and cleaning triggers you this much, then you are a disaster waiting to happen to someone’s unsuspecting son.
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@ThaBoyYom
That your girlfriend does not see every & any spending on her as a gift, a kind gesture, but constantly overorders and makes outrageous & unnecessary demands on you shows that you are but a cow, and she’s all for milking you.
When there’s no more milk, she’ll go to the next cow.
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@fvckgotti
@Kenny_Cruel
@Wizarab10
It's really just saddening that we're now in a society where it's of more importance to capture horrendous scenes like this and mind your own business, instead of helping to prevent casualties. You see the same during accidents.
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@Wizarab10
Cohabiting or not, you can have tons of sex. You can share passwords and go through each others phones at will. You can be faithful and loyal; some naturally are... Your life all-rounder can be the better for it, both parties.
Still, when forever is the question, you will choose.
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@Wizarab10
I believe it’s women who lack proper upbringing or have witnessed their mothers physically abuse their fathers that are more likely to engage in abusive behavior towards their own partners.
The thought of raising your hand to a man should not easily cross your mind as a lady.
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@Wizarab10
Some still don’t understand the “I” changing to “us” in a relationship.
How can you be a visitor in each other’s place if it’s “our” place?
So yeah, infidelity hiding under privacy.
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Y’all ladies should listen and stop embarrassing yourselves.
Woman gives her son OT as regards taking Women out on a first date.
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@ebukarrh
@Wizarab10
Of course I declined. They kept insisting and swearing loudly for me. It was the driver and the park guys that settled it, telling them to either wait for another ride or sit in the available ones, since I came earlier and paid.
Nothing wey dem no talk for most of the journey:
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@Wizarab10
The day I wake up and see my face online unsolicited ehn, they will bring down that post before I proceed to sue them.
This pandemic of Nigerians lacking boundaries, privacy and consent (especially those excuse of a content creator) is highly disturbing.
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@Wizarab10
Exactly.
Like what stopped her from taking off her heels and getting down to help push the car?
She’s not even fit for friendship, talk more of dating💯.
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@ebukarrh
@Wizarab10
Same way I was traveling interstate recently, took a sit by the window, remaining one space at the back and another beside me in the middle.
Two Igbo men came and 'ordered' that I go sit at the back since I was a woman, while they both take the middle seat and my space...
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“Men are cheap” 😂.
A man’s commitment ain’t cheap at all🫠
I doubt anyone suffers to get a Man jor
“Men are cheap” remember ?
🫠
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@Wizarab10
It’s always men thinking women don’t know what they are doing.
A woman that wants you and wants the relationship to work will fix up and come straight.
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@Wizarab10
She just worded it cunningly, all she’s after is sex for money. That “loving you correctly” part is just a cover up.
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@osemagnum
@Wizarab10
Dear men,
Ensure to fill up your cup first.
You can’t always give from an empty or half filled cup, but from its overflow.
Emotionally, mentally, spiritually.
Didn’t mention financially, because a well grounded man in the above areas will handle financial matters wisely.
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@jon_d_doe
No.
I feel it’s not incest since she’s not my sister, but still, I don’t like trouble.
Jealousy & bitterness will kill that friend & the story of how you’ve been eyeing her guy while they were dating will definitely fly.
One can only enjoy that marriage if the friend is cut off
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@Wizarab10
Asking these questions simply implies you know next to nothing about this line of business. That’s a risky move.
Availability of funds does not equal business startups.
If you really want this, first devout your time to learn about it in-depth. That’s what will help you.
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@Wizarab10
I'll also add by saying that marriage is not what gives you the right to be pregnant.
That you are married does not necessarily mean you can cater for a child.
Please rest, and take your time to plan well.
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@jon_d_doe
It’s first stupidity, then learning, then anger, then sadness, then acceptance, then conscious implementation, then patience, then practice, then making mistakes and returning to the classroom, and finally, joy & fulfillment that comes from seeing the results of your hard work😍.
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@_ParadiseParis1
@Wizarab10
I do not disagree with your point also, just gave another perspective to things.
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@jon_d_doe
Dear poster, I usually do not comment, but I’m so angry and disgusted on your behalf.
If you do not want to see shege, listen to Agba and dump her fast, like today sef.
Be patient and keep vetting thoroughly, you’ll meet the one good for you.
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@jon_d_doe
@romzyunsual
I don’t think so.
Giving a cheating man condoms most likely tells him you accept and don’t mind him cheating.
You can’t even later find out and be annoyed, cos in his defense, you indulged him.
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@BabaYehgha
Thank you! Kindness is always kindness, whether it was asked for or not. Something different had to be the case, or she's just a plain ungrateful soul.
Yorubas will say "ka dupe lowo eni to rini to moju, opolopo eniyan ni o wo ibi ti awa".
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@Wizarab10
He should discard the lady also. She’s not to be trusted, & does not respect him.
That she didn’t ask you to warn your friend from the word go, but kept mute the whole time to the point of sending her account details is a red flag.
She will sleep with that guy, sooner or later.
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A little progress each day adds up to big results!
In the meantime, please stay positive🤗😍.
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@jon_d_doe
Working class parents are not gonna be home early, so they’ll prefer their kids in the school attending lessons rather than have them home or loitering around.
Also, some parents don’t really care nowadays, & are okay with whatever excuse the children give for coming home late.
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@jon_d_doe
Father comes back home.
Even if she needs guidance on how to handle the child, it is not that she folds her hand & does nothing while waiting.
As the head of the home, the father can then take it from there when he gets back.
Both parents should be responsible for discipline
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@jon_d_doe
Lol.
I don’t hate you Sir, but I don’t love you either😁. I respect you greatly, and I am on here everyday to learn🙏🏽.
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@EbiFORexploit
@jon_d_doe
Two days, she cooked noodles.
The following two days, “she was really bothered” but didn’t cook, they ate out.
Again, Christmas rice flopped.
An adult woman needs encouragement and grooming to cook? Where is the shame fgs🤦🏽♀️😭.
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@Nelsen58989946
@softgirljae
@SelemaEnang
You’re right, it stresses some of us out. I find it slower and difficult to read, that’s just the way I’m wired.
My friends knows this, and so they either type in full, send voice notes or just call.
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@AskMichaelTaiwo
How slow and dynamic the process of human growth is, from cradle to adulthood, and how in an instant, it can end with no second chance.
That “no second chance” part always gets me, because no matter the reason for the demise, even if it was a mistake, one cannot undo it.
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@aproko_doctor
Yes!
That I am expecting things to go exactly the way I planned is the exact reason why I plan, but that then does not mean it will, at all times, but I expect it to.
If there was no expectation, then no need to plan. I could always fold my arms and say "que sera sera" ...
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@Neo_officiall
@Wizarab10
If there is no perfect human, it will be foolish to think there will be a perfect marriage.
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@Wizarab10
It took time though, but she married the love of her life.
Maybe just be patient, enjoy life(it's more than marriage), and pray to be blessed with a good man who would truly love you as much as you'll love him.
You will find a way around it eventually.
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@jayythedope
Wow! I'm going through replies and I'm honestly shocked. I bet they all deserved it.
Please continue to turn them down rudely!
Those "manners" that you have refused to learn, you must get it by force or by fire; whether from the home or from outsiders.
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See what this fuuuleesh sis of mine is doing inside this heavy Abeokuta rain😂😂😭😭💃🏽💃🏽 🌧 .
Anyways, I wanted to also but couldn’t cos of I was already cold🙈🤭.
Sometimes our inner child is brought to life❤️.
Playing in the rain is a favorite pastime for us. What’s yours? 🫵🏽
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@Wizarab10
It gives them the opportunity they’ve always been looking for.
The heart of men is desperately wicked( men here is both gender, abegi😁)
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@NetflixNaija
Kept postponing watching this movie, and then I did. Soooo good!
Great teachings about love, loyalty, sacrifice, duty, devotion, friendship, and a host of other things👍🏽🥰 👏.
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@AlozieJohn1
@emmanuel_emike
@jon_d_doe
So it’s okay with you if a woman cannot cook and clean the space she shares with her man?
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@Wizarab10
Patience girl, patience.
And don’t go running into another man’s arm in the interim.
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@lewiskid90
@EbiFORexploit
@jon_d_doe
For any small laziness in the house, our mothers used to shout “is this what you will be doing in your husbands house?”
So I feel we all know what we are doing, & in which areas we are lacking, but instead of improving, some are looking for the man that will “take me as I am”😏.
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@Wizarab10
Reminds me of this talk I had with my younger brother about what he would do if a lady was to raise her hand at him first for whatever reason; Baba said him go beat her well.
I said good, “o n se omo ale”😁👍🏽.
In this video, I just wish the girl chop small beating too😎.
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Puzzles are one of my favorite things.
Don’t judge me 🙈😁😁
(I’ll show y’all when I get around to finishing this😂)
Always loved Sudoku too.
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@ogunmusi
@Wizarab10
I get you.
It’s understandable that counting ones loss and and starting all over again can be daunting, it’s still a demon one has to fight.
This Yoruba adage that says “a known devil is better than an unknown angel” is one I totally detest, and the mentality only causes harm.
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@Wizarab10
Just go see a gynecologist.
Don’t be scared to go cos of finances. Treatment might be very cheap, or even just advice. They are professionals who have wealth of experiences to help give great recommendations.
Please, don’t shove anything down there. Can be very dangerous.
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