1000% this. It is one of the greatest lessons I’ve learned - something that has granted relief, freedom, and true happiness in my life.
From
@derekboltxxx
’s Q&A on IG
So glad this finally happened! I’ve been shipping these two for ages.
I don’t usually watch hubby’s stuff myself, but this is a scene I definitely will devour 🤤
Tried the DND character filter going around on a whim and really liked the result! Love that it even got my fur and made it into fur-lined clothing 😂
Where am I raiding next? Or who 😏
Farmer’s Market time! I’m a sucker for crepes, farm products, and artisans. Also apparently my post to FB became a beard appreciation post? 😅
#OtterInTheWild
#OtterPup
It’s also ok to be any KIND of slut. Maybe your libido comes and goes in waves, or you have seasons. Doesn’t make you any less of a slut or queer person when you’re not having sex for whatever reason. Ace is a spectrum from non- to hyper-sexual and there’s a lot of middle ground.
i think a lot of gay men feel pressured to be outwardly sexual despite having asexual tendencies or low libido. just wanted to voice my support like it’s ok to be or not be a slut
After a 3 year hiatus, finally going back to
#MAL
, and staying in the Hyatt for the first time!
Which pups, sirs, Doms, and subs am I gonna see there? 🙃
It me! Nice to see this style getting more recognition and appreciation.
Warm you up with cuddles & kisses, roaming hands, until you’re begging for it. Then let me use that hole or dick and I’ll tell you how good you make me feel and what a good job you’re doing 😉
Over the past year or so, I've learned more and more about LGBT history. It's given me an appreciation for just how far we've come, what our forebearers had to do to make the world as it is today, and what remains to be done to KEEP it that way and continue to further progress 1/
Really cool to get a spotlight like this.
@derekboltxxx
and I like to show that people in porn are still people, and capable of real relationships. Here's to 6+ years going strong babe 😘
I mean, that’s the whole reason we bought: enough private space to do whatever the fuck we want. Plus we love sharing, in many ways, right
@derekboltxxx
? 😏🙂
Finally visiting Palm Springs! Night 0: basically stripped clothes after arriving, lounging by the pool & hot tub, sipping a bevvie. This was long overdue 😌
This whole thread is great for better understanding libido and sexual desire. I’m much more Responsive than spontaneous, and knowing that has been 🔑
Realized that, yes, I CAN have a high libido, but the setting, context, & interaction need to align. I’m rarely just ready to go.
Shifting topics today: let’s chat libido!
Specifically what to do when you or your partner has low libido and want to boost it.
While also unearthing the 3 kinds of desire that you likely never learned about that will change how you understand libido forever.
Let’s go 👊 1/n
A lot of times people will say I’m “lucky” to be married to
@derekboltxxx
. It honestly doesn’t bother me because it shows they clearly have no idea what our dynamic is. How we’re good for each other in a variety of ways. And both equals in our own right.
I’ve said this before. Nobody in these sexual/ romantic situations are “lucky”. Nobody won a lottery. They were selected (subconsciously or otherwise) for their own qualities. Find better words.
Is it weird how much a sex- and kink-fueled weekend boosted my confidence and sense of capability, so now I’m performing better at work/staying on top of things at home?
¯\_(ツ)_/¯
#MAL2023
Speaking of events, I realized I never clarified: I’m coming to Market Days with
@derekboltxxx
! Who am I gonna see there?
Would love to meet some folks and pups, so give me a shout (or a bark).
Helped hubby with the finishing touches on one of his projects for me. Right in time for the event weekend. Æon is ready to play! 😋🐾
Bonuses:
1) the mini LEDs are app-controlled via WiFi
2) the red paw print and blue name glow in UV
This video… I had already started coming out, but it was a slow process of finding myself and my place in the world.
This told me unequivocally that I had one. It was the first time I had seen myself in media and felt 100% COMPLETELY normal.
Helped hubby with the finishing touches on one of his projects for me. Right in time for the event weekend. Æon is ready to play! 😋🐾
Bonuses:
1) the mini LEDs are app-controlled via WiFi
2) the red paw print and blue name glow in UV
Somehow incidentally pulled together an MAL “finisher” party that’s mostly tops/vers and majority pups - what a way to do it! 3 hours later and we’re still going somehow. Great to meet or hang out with
@husbandcuties
,
@pup_portal
,
@blade_pupper
,
@derekboltxxx
and local friends!
@growingbottom
I get it. While I may not have the dysphoria personally, I know the effect you’re talking about. Jock off: I have to play with my dick. But jock on? I can honestly forget that it’s there and tune in to sensation elsewhere.
It’s a good look for you, def highlights your assets 😉
Lololol at the kids reading my tweet over my shoulders as I’m writing, thinking I can’t hear with my AirPods in.
Like to think I used it as a teaching moment: A) I can hear you, and B) queer people are all around you and it’s normal.
@growingbottom
I get it. While I may not have the dysphoria personally, I know the effect you’re talking about. Jock off: I have to play with my dick. But jock on? I can honestly forget that it’s there and tune in to sensation elsewhere.
It’s a good look for you, def highlights your assets 😉
Going on our first Virgin cruise next week. Apparently they have a red themed last night on the ship. Guess what I’ll be flagging 🙃 Wonder who will notice 🤭
I feel this thread so hard. It’s the wisdom that any 20s gay needs, but it’s almost impossible to fully comprehend.
I was so desperate to find love, never thought I’d be “normal”, and couldn’t see how my life would be enough.
Being gay in your 20s is so hard. I wanted a bf so bad, had giant crushes on guys that didn’t reciprocate, worked my ass off, never had any money, compared myself to everyone else, wanted to settle down, live the heteronormative dream, and it was always elusive. It hurt so bad.
My thoughts exactly. Domination isn't about abuse. It's about a level of trust enough for someone to hand over their agency to you, and to do right by them with it.
Now, they may need structure, and discipline with it. But that's another story.
Love this guy, so glad to see he's still in it. Been following his journey for a while, and you'd be hard-pressed to find someone who's as passionate about their service as he is. Go
@BrianSimsPA
!
THANK YOU! I just got off the phone with my Mom & Dad and I’m humbled to announce that I’ve been re-elected to the House of Representatives! Fighting for the people and ideas most important to this City & this country are the work of my life and I’m grateful to return.
#BlueWave
You would think it’s common sense, and yet happens often enough.
I don’t even have to end it, the guy does it to himself because it’s an instant turn-off for
@derekboltxxx
. Joke’s on you, fool 💁🏻♂️
Haha, I can’t tell you how many guys will hit on hubs while I’m standing there and COMPLETELY IGNORE ME or even worse be rude and treat me like the competition. My dude, I can end this for you before you get to 1st base… haha..
Post a picture of yourself as the leader of an underground organization without downloading anything new.
I couldn’t resist: the first two are the playful ones, but the one of me is in the spirit of it. 😅
*Talking about graph databases, and how you can interact with a pretty visual*
@derekboltxxx
: “you’re so tactile, you try to massage your data … literally, with your hands”
#KinkyNerd
😅
@growingbottom
Honestly, big beefy/muscle bottoms getting pounded by a guy that folks might assume would be the bottom otherwise - that’s my kink. I’m a contrarian, so that role reversal is so freaking hot to me 🥵
Hot take: Everything, Everywhere, All at Once should be THE Christmas movie this season. It’s a movie about a family, right? 🙃
It was certainly one of my favorites from this year.
So I’m a voyeur, but I don’t usually watch
@derekboltxxx
’s scenes. I hear too much BTS details so the fantasy is lost.
But this? This is just pure hot, and I’ll probably watch (multiple times) 🫣😋
PSA:
#Monkeypox
isn’t just a name in the news - it is very real and here in the DC gay community (and other local communities).
Familiarize yourself with what it looks like,
#PlaySafe
, and practice smart risk mgmt. Even with all that, it’s possible to get and making rounds.
🟠 (Orange) - Because telekinesis could replicate many other abilities if your control was good enough, like make fireballs, control water or the ground, or maybe even flight.
So basically I wanna be a bender 😂