Dr. Shefali
@DrShefali
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🙏 Clinical Psychologist 📚3 x NYT Bestselling Author 🎖CEO Conscious Coaching Institute Follow me ⬇️ to be a more conscious parent
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What is the message about life you are unconsciously telling your child? Is it full of fear & self-limiting beliefs?
#lifeclass
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The Awakened Family, can begin with just one conscious parent. One conscious parent impacts a child and humanity...
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Loneliness arises out of the false belief that another’s company is more valuable than your own.
#ConsciousQuote
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Love can never turn to hate. If it does, it wasn't true love in the first place.
#LoveQuotes
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Parent the child in front of you and not the child you fantasized about having.
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Join me in 30 mins for a FB LIVE on SUPER SOUL SUNDAY'S FB PAGE
SuperSoul - Can't wait to talk about THE...
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Your resistance to who your child truly is reflects your resistance to who you truly are.
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Your child is the one who can teach you to be a better parent. All you have to do is truly listen.
#lifeclass
#parenting
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Listen to my conversation with Kate Hudson & Oliver Hudson on their Podcast, "Sibling Revelry"
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Give your child a message that is full of joy, hope, & belief in their future, but in a way that embraces the struggle to come.
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The ego is SO seductive. It traps us into believing there is only one way to affirm the self. But it is a fear based way.
#lifeclass
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ENROLL NOW in The Conscious Parenting Quest where you will work with me and learn how to create the ideal environment for your child to thrive!
Go to:
Comment YES if you've enrolled!
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"Don't look for someone to grow old with. Look for someone to grow with." -Dr. Shefali
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Love without consciousness becomes need, dependency, it becomes control in the name of love. Watch more of my talk with Oprah (
@Oprah
) about conscious parenting.
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Believing that there's only one 'right' way to raise children is where parents go wrong.
#ConsciousParenting
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All our children want is for us to see who they truly are in the moment. Not for us to fix, to do, or to have an agenda.
#lifeclass
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Have you signed up for my FREE MASTERCLASS? Join me & Vishen Lakhiani from
@mindvalley
to deep dive into your fear and stop projecting your own unmet needs on your child!
To sign up go to:
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Love, as I define it, is the ability to fully see, accept, and honor the other person for who they truly are. To love someone consciously is to harness the ability to step outside of our own self and consistently connect with the other.
#ConsciousLove
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@oprah
#lifeclass
we need to yank parenting out of the dark ages. no more control and more connection. more spirit. less fear
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To find our authentic self we have to peel back the layers & re-question all that we should have never been given answers to, What is success? What is beauty? What is truth? We should have been lead to discover these answers; they should not have been given to us packaged.
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As a clinical psychologist, I can attest that most of our adult addictions and issues stem from this one problem: our inability to truly deal with our feelings. Do you agree? Listen in and share with someone who needs to hear this!
Check out my new book:
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All eyes need to be on your growth process and your child's growth process.
#lifeclass
Don't let anyone take you away from your essence.
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Our children are not our easels on which we get to paint the life we never had.
#consciousparenting
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No amount of riches in the world will fill you up if you are impoverished from within.
#QuoteOfTheDay
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We live in a time of disconnection. It's hard to confront our mess-ups, and our insecurities, but it's necessary. Change in mindset is what we need more than anything in this world right now. I believe conscious parenting is the best place to start.
#ConsciousParenting
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Doors of the Coaching Institute are Open Now - FOR COHORT 5. Will you be part of the next cohort of conscious coaches to graduate from my conscious coaching institute?
READ MORE:
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Life will always be difficult if you expect it to be easy. Life isn’t meant to be linear, exact, predetermined, or predictable. It’s supposed to be a snow-balling, curve-throwing, crap-shooting, wild mess of an adventure. Embrace the ride.
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If you are looking for a deeper meaning and purpose, this maybe your path. -
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My child is here to fumble, stumble, try, and cry. Learn and mess up. Fail and try again. My task is to step aside. Stay in infinite possibility. Heal my own wounds. Fill my own bucket and let my child fly.
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Positivity says "you can go to harvard!" Abundance says: "harvard will come to you!"
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Your children are here to discover who they truly are and not who you wish them to be.
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"All children are looking for the same thing. They want to be loved for who they are." Connect to the child you have.
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When you act out of passion, you will find your way. When you act out of obligation, you will lose it.
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Children only shut down because they're so aware of our energy. So, instead of dealing with the symptom, get to the root.
#lifeclass
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What do our
#children
show us? They show us our wounds, our immaturity on the inside, how shaky we are in ourselves.
#lifeclass
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Watch "Saying NO Is Not A Weakness" & join me at my annual event EVOLVE where we work together to find your AUTHENTIC self. EVOLVE is coming up in October. Purchase tickets here:
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@oprah
#supersoulsunday
ALL intimate relationships bring up how it is we have been unmothered and unfathered.
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What does it mean to be a conscious parent? You realize that, in your parenting, you are bringing your unhealed wounds from your childhood. So the raising of the child becomes the external question - which child are we raising? The real child? Or the child within each one of us?
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The answer lies within us. The answer never lies in the child's behavior.
#lifeclass
#consciousparenting
#consciousparent
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One of the most priceless gifts you can give your children is your ability to truly see who they are in their essence and space for this to thrive.
#consciousparenting
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Every child wants to be seen for who it is they are. The greatest gift a parent can give their child is to see their children for who they are. Listen in and drop a ❤️ if you agree. In my latest book, The Parenting Map I share valuable tools for parents to connect with their kids
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@oprah
#lifeclass
we have to END the idea of "discipline". We give ourselves permission to control. Instead, we need to connect.
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Every moment matters. Every chance to hug. Every opportunity to say 'I love you.' Every choice to be more present.
#consciousparenting
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Your tears are the soul longing to know itself. Let their waters fill you with the wisdom of your worth.
#ConsciousLiving
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Yes, we can never care more than our kids about their future. THEY need to be the leaders in their own life.
#lifeclass
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Letting go of control over our children is probably the hardest spiritual task we face as parents.
#consciousparenting
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@oprah
#lifeclass
cycles keep repeating in families - cycles of pain and shame. let's end this starting from today.
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"I know who I am." Listen to your child--don't try to mold them into someone else.
#lifeclass
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If the only way your child can connect with you is by acting out, well then of course your child is going to act out.
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We come from a place of wanting our children to be empowered and complete as possible. But then we project fears onto them.
#lifeclass
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@oprah
the quest for wholeness is always an internal one. Our children are not here to make us whole.
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#parenting
is a dance. A push and pull between connecting and creating limits and boundaries.
#lifeclass
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#supersoulsunday
do we dare to step away from culture's definitions of success? today, ask yourself: "do I dare?"
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New video, "If Your Child Is Suffering Watch This" Share your thoughts with me!
#ConsciousParenting
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Are you acting like a hypocrite? Telling your child not to do something and then doing the exact same thing a minute later?
#lifeclass
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What does your child have that is unique to them? Protect that inner light and help them shine.
#lifeclass
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Swap thoughts of perfection for the thrill of being an ordinary human.
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Raising yourself is a prerequisite of
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You cannot raise another into empowerment unless you have tasted it yourself.
#parenting
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We're choosing to dictate our children's preferences, feelings, and activities. Who gave us all this power?
#lifeclass
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Conscious parenting is about NOT handing over the prescriptive checklist that outlines what it means to succeed, to fail and to be beautiful. We have to deconstruct our own emotional legacies and find our truth so that we can then unleash it in our child.
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@oprah
#lifeclass
our children yearn to tell us how they feel. they just do not have the language
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@oprah
#lifeclass
we are so scared to drop control. who will we be without the illusion, the mask of supremacy? we will see our fragility.
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How can we tell our children that their best wasn't good enough? How would you feel if someone you loved told you that?
#lifeclass
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You know you have found your passion when you lose yourself in it. When the boundary between yourself and the task fades, you have stumbled on your life’s work. I am grateful that I can share my passion and purpose with you all.
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“You are not the boss of Me!” And that’s a totally true statement. This is the hardest thing for parents to grasp - that they are not the boss of their kids, or anyone for that matter! The goal of a conscious parent and human is to empower the other to be the boss of themselves.
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I AM GIVING AWAY 7 DAYS OF TEACHINGS AND PRACTICES FOR FREE!
Join here and become a conscious parent!
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Next Sunday on
@OprahsLifeclass
, we'll hear from the children. They are wise beyond their years! 9pm EST
#lifeclass
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If we don't become aware of our own baggage, our children will carry the burden.
#consciousparenting
#innerwork
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Once we release our fears, we can walk with our children as their students and fellow travelers. This is the ultimate purpose of parenting.
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Are you ready for a revolution?
We are shattering all parental delusions today .
@Oprah
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@SuperSoulSunday
@DrShefali
#SuperSoulSunday
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We cannot expect our children to become something that we are not willing to embody ourselves.
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What does the way you
#parent
reveal about your
#childhood
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#unmothered
part of you that is being shown the light?
#lifeclass
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2017 has been the year when many women felt empowered to speak up. I believe that 2018 will be the year we will...
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its hard for parents to hear that every conflict with our children is a reflection of how we need to yet develop
#lifeclass
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Our children are not "ours." If anything, we are theirs. At their service....to help usher them to their highest...
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We do great damage to our children when we try to reduce them to one thing. It comes from our fixation with the external.
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What happens when you step outside yourself & honestly view your behavior towards your kids? The potential for change is there.
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These children are so full of an expansive spirit and we try to reduce them to one thing--a grade, a sport, etc.
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