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Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M

@DominaM

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Paris FemDom and global-perveratti member. New York 🇺🇸 minded Domina with a private Paris 🇫🇷 Dungeon. #Mistress #Ma îtresse #Dominatrix #Donjon

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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
What’s the scariest thing a dominatrix can say in session ? My vote is for « Oops! »
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
6 years
There is a mentality that the scene will be hotter if the mistress is angry for real, but I WILL NOT play into that. I like happy slaves who want a happy mistress who just happens to enjoy doing "mean" things to them. Fair?
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
We grew up listening to Depeche Mode, watching the cast if Monty Python always cross-dressed, and being told vanilla sex was dangerous/a death sentence with the AIDS epidemic. Honestly I am surprised when a Gen Xer *isn't* kinky.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
Happy Dommiversery to me! *25 YEARS AGO TODAY* I had my first professional session. Right then and there I decided I was going to pee on *EVERYBODY* #ThereYouHaveIt
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
4 years
We can start now. Try this: I like ____________ because it makes me feel ____________. Example: "I like *being on a leash and collar* because it makes me feel *connected and owned*." How many of these can you say?
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
Confession: It is super cute when you squirm a little admitting your fantasies.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
Subs with experience/self-awareness: What are your post session rituals/needs to ease "sub drop"? I think it's important to have a gentle transition from play to the outside world.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
6 years
Why do dommes sound so bi-polar on social media? Because 90+% of our clients are amazing beings, where we get to go on these journeys of amazing psycho-sexual sorcery. The catch is one has to get down and sift through the worst garbage people of humaity to find them.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
The sub drop thread validated my aftercare--I do "force" 🤭 my sub to take a post session shower even if they are not "dirty," have them drink water (bottled water provided), and have some gentle small talk. I don't have snacks, but am unsure what would be universal. Thanks all!
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
3 years
I think this is why I prefer "submissive" men. Not because they are weak--they are not at all--but because they are strong enough to let themselves be free from rigid perceptions of what makes a man.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
10 months
An exhaustive but not (yet) definitive list of mainstream BDSM movies AND where you can see them online (in France). Help me if you have links for your region if these don't work for you. Thanks! Click on Wanda (Venus in Furs 1994) to see my blog post.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
In conflict with a potential sub who wants me to flirt and seduce him but for it to be "natural," and then complains I am teasing him and laughing too much. This is *my natural*. We are not a match, mainly because he cannot put into words what his "natural" is and I am not magic.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
5 years
Public humiliation must be on the DL or in a fetish club. One of my hard limits is not to force viewing of our play on non consenting adults or, worse, children. #ReasonableHardLimits Best at a play party where it is not only welcome, but celebrated.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
Domina M Ruins Kink Episode #2 "No, I am not looking for a live-in slave nor do I know anyone who is. Most dommes, as myself, love people but are introverts and need to re-energize alone. Nothing will come between me and my quiet time."
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
3 years
Don't confuse being nice with being submissive, nor being an asshole with being dominant. These are separate behaviors. Most of us know this, but sometimes it needs to be reiterated.
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
1 year
Well, I'll be damned. I was told by a client that he resents how much fun I am having in session. No idea what to say to that other than, sounds like a you problem and I now have another hard limit. I certainly will not be miserable/angry in session to accommodate *anybody.*
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@DominaM
Dominatrix of Paris—Domina M
2 years
I have reverse imposter's syndrome. I've seen behind so many veils that I know *nobody* knows what they are doing. Believe you me, the civilized world is held together with found sticks and chewed bubble gum. You're doing just fine. We're all getting through.
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