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If you are silent about your pain, they will kill you and say you enjoyed it. - Zora Neale Hurston
Ontario, Canada
Joined January 2011
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Update: he is now my boyfriend and his cute habit of bringing me treats hasn’t changed 🥹❤️.
I have a friend that never comes empty handed to my house. Every single visit comes with wine or food or whiskey or snacks or gifts. It is the most thoughtful thing ever and I really appreciate it.
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I really envy people that have figured out their career path because me I don’t know what I am doing o.
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83k on food? If it was me that a man takes out to eat 83k food, I will tell him "my crown, no don't waste money". Let me take 3k to the market, buy vegetables and make soup with correct meat and swallow. The remaining 80k we use it to buy house or car. This is how u build a man.
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“You are from a royal family you should not post such pictures” okay why is it when it reach bikini pics you suddenly remember I am from a royal family? When I dey do 9-5 in -20 degrees in Canada, anybody remember I am from royal family? Abi royal family dey do 9-5?.
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Vee also comes across as someone that is so hard on women but so gentle with the guys. No one has disrespected her in that house like Neo has yet she gives giving him another chance but she cancels all the girls- Lilo, Erica and Tolanibaj. Nah i can't with this babe.
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My mum once dated someone that told her to choose between him and me. Lmaoo. my mum insulted his life then dumped him immediately. She was like "how dare you? Are u mad? My own child?" I could still feel her anger when she was telling me d story. She couldn't believe the audacity.
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I learnt a new word yesterday- Demisexual. It means someone that is not sexually attracted to another person unless there is an emotional connection.
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Lmaoo Kiddwaya said his friend's dad is the owner of multichoice and his friend is a director. Kiddwaya and his cho cho cho is opening all their ynash 😭😭😭.
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TW: Rape. A man raped his daughter. The man’s mother, father and brother believed the victim and testified against the rapist. This is how you protect and fight for the vulnerable people in your family. Under no circumstances should rape and abuse be settled amicably.
An Ikeja Sexual Offences and Domestic Violence Court on Tuesday sentenced a 34-year-old businessman, Oluwafemi Asekeji, to life imprisonment for defiling his 12-year-old biological daughter. Justice Abiola Soladoye, in her judgment, also held that the prosecution had proven the.
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If Nigerian men pull their weight when it comes to child care and domestic labor, a lot of women won’t have to miss out on great opportunities in their careers.
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No i'm not and that's why affliction shall not rise a 2nd time.
He’s not my type, he’s broke. Yen yen yen. Are you your own type financially? 💀💀.
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Vee to Neo: You know that Stupid bitch nominated me and it pisses me off anytime you talk to her or say her name, but do you. Neo: i understand, i am sorry. I don't understand. Vee, if Erica wasn't HOH you would have nominated her too. And u also nominated other people so wtf??.
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Instead of buying PS5 for a man, why not buy ludo? Buy the Naira to grow Nigeria, invest in your country and don't allow a materialistic man to mislead you from your purpose.
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A reminder to avoid men that say things like "i'd rather buy a woman shares than buy her a chanel bag or i'd rather pay her school fees than buy her makeup". Apart from the fact that they don't have money to execute any of the options, it is also benevolent sexism.
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I just want to say that as many of us are at the age where we are starting to become the in-laws, pls endeavour to treat the women marrying into your families like human beings that deserve respect.
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I really hate this "women work for your own money" advice because everywhere you look, Nigerian women are actually working for their money. Women are working at the market, salons, schools, banks, restaurants, NGO's. Women are domestic staffs, sex workers, Drs, lawyers, artists,.
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I have a friend that never comes empty handed to my house. Every single visit comes with wine or food or whiskey or snacks or gifts. It is the most thoughtful thing ever and I really appreciate it.
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The gym instructor just asked me if I bought my S9+ with my own money. I told him. 1. his question is very stupid .2. it's not his business if I used or did not use my money.3. He lacks respect . Dealing with Nigerian men on a daily basis is an extreme sport.
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This is the same thing the police and fatoyinbo tried to do to Busola. The police came to their house with guns to intimidaate Busola and her family. I rem timi called it institutionalized intimidation and this is exactly what is happening to Seyitan too. Fuck the Nigerian police.
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I have never heard any argument against abortion that made sense.
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Wizkid's concert was so much fun (minus him coming out late 🙄). I danced a lot 💃🏿💃🏿 and i didn't realise how many wizkid's song i knew until yesterday.
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Men lie unprovoked. Any opportunity to insert themselves into any and everything. Shior
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One thing i can say i learnt from daddy g.o's thread is that the servitude never ends. Even in your old age, you will still be expected to wait on and be subservient to your husband. This is why you have to start invoking your spirit of disobedience and stubbornness at the start.
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The difference between a ‘progressive’ and traditional man is that the former knows most of the feminism buzz words and has probably carried a ‘protect our women’ placard at a protest. Nothing more or less. When it comes to the core of it, they’re both the same.
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Please stop saying things like "this is why men don't take us seriously in this fight for equality" and other stories. We are definitely not seeking for mens approval in our liberation. The patriarchy will be dismantled whether men take it seriously or not.
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I strongly believe that men continue to parrot this 'women are rude' statement because they want to use it to justify their violent acts. This is why we should reject every 'be nice and polite' to men rhetoric. It is very harmful.
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For the ladies in Abuja, I took my HPV vaccine at Marie Stopes in Utako last year. It was 15k per dose and 3 doses required in total. You will be informed of the recommended interval for the doses. Very seamless process so please do it as soon as you can.
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Someone was asking me at work -"I know you're a feminist, what are your thoughts on xyz". I told him i don't have any thoughts. Pls i am tired, ma stress me. Dakun.
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On my trad wedding, they'll ask me to pick something important from the table and I'll pick hair bundles. Double drawn Brazilian or Peruvian for the win. Just to remind my husband and his family that they're marrying a slay queen. A slay queen first before anything else pls.
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I was on the queue to buy amala and minding my business when a random guy walks up behind me and was asking me why didn't I cook? I said why didn't YOU cook? He said but he's a man now and I was like so?. I honestly wish i was making this up.
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I have only attempted to pound yam once in my life. I think i was 16 then and one of my aunties was pounding yam so i told her to let me try. i lifted that pestle to hit the yam and it felt like my arms were gon cut off. It was at that moment i knew i was meant to be a slay queen.
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If my husband likes let him keep his surname, the kids are taking mine. He can be the foreigner in the family unit.
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Seyitan said she was detained and you are saying it is her perception and not what transpired. Omo if this isn't gaslighting or an attempt to gaslight then i don't know what it is. "As evidenced by the document" as if contents of a document can't be falsified. Haba rate us now.
You interprete wrong Distinguished. She wasn’t abducted but invited by the IRT as corroborated. The contention for me is the detention and coercion which I believe was more of her perception than what transpired based on the representation present as evidenced by the Document.
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I have shouted and shouted and shouted at work today. o ti su mi. people are so daft my god. this one said maybe if biodun wasn't married, he would have married busola and they would have dealt with it privately. I hate Nigerians with all my heart and soul.
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@Ademi_De I don't even know where to start from tbh but I'll try. Priscillia, let the marriages fail if they have to. Some of our 'cultural values' are trash and it is for the good of everyone that they are dismantled. I promise you the men u continue to fight for do not care about you.
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@ajibade__ Lmaoo which bants? I build men dear that's the job God sent me to do. Builder of nations.
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I could tweet i've never been cheated on and men will come to tell me "its a lie, you just didn't catch him, you think you're special? even beyonce got cheated on so who are you?" but the moment i tweet men are cheats and trash they run to my mentions to scream "not all men".
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I want girls to stop thinking other girls are messy and want to compete with them. I want them to stop thinking friendship with men is this amazing thing because it is not. Men can be messy and manipulative af.
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I don't think Nengi was trying to get anyone's attention o. To me, it seems baby girl was just happy to be in the water. Let her have fun na.
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Church controls women's outfits, controls women's bodies and their voices. now, they want to restrict their employment opportunities. Yet when we say the church and the society hates women, you say it's a lie. Will women ever catch a break? Like can we fucking breathe?.
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Based on the reactions to this tweet, it seems many of us don’t actually know what we are doing. Sending kind thoughts to everyone who can relate to this. I hope we eventually figure things out and if we don’t, nothing spoil. Na confuse we confuse, we no kill anybody. ❤️❤️❤️.
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"Your talent will take you far but your attitude will take you further" is one of the biggest lies ever. And most times, people only say this to women. You see men with the shittiest attitudes in positions of power, is it their attitudes that got them there? Quit being dishonest.
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I'm reading tweets from the #MarketMarchYaba that happened today and it's just so sad. People are telling you to keep your fucking hands to yourself and stop touching women and you respond by throwing stones and water at them. The entitlement, the audacity!! Woow woow.
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If men want to claim that God put them on earth to provide and protect women then I suggest go back and tell God to give you another mission because you have failed this one. Tell your God to abort mission or rebrand your mission to reflect the exact thing you people are doing.
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You guys, Doyin said that all of them will leave the house one by one for Ilebaye after ike threw her clothes out and that’s what is happening.
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I saw a post saying "dont stop when you're tired, stop when you are done". I know it's meant to be motivational but cmon this isn't it. Please stop when you're tired, listen to your body, rest then continue when you feel up to it. It's very normal to feel tired, you're human.
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I see you guys are having so much fun with this tweet. Knock yourselves out jare, this life na one. when you're done, don't forget that i'm not your mate.
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The best part about this performance is tricky shouting tranquility, tranquility. This is their own version of honorable off your mic 😭😭😭.
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My friend's boss told her to stop wearing dresses to the office because her body will confuse the men(coworkers and clients). She's only allowed to wear trousers, long blazers and not show skin. This idea that we have to police women's bodies to prevent tempting men is trash.
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I am probably the worst person to sub because I won’t see it and even if I do, it won’t click that the sub is for me. I might even retweet it bcs I think it makes sense 😂.
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I am punishing Dorathy with Votes for losing the car. If you are upset like I am, please text VOTE Dorathy to 32052.
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Nigerian men that wear 1 boxers for 6 days are also talking? Today is Friday and u haven't changed your boxers all week and you're ki ki ing to that zlatan's song? Shame on you.
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It's my birthday .It's my birthday .I'mma spend your moneyyyyyyy 💃🏿💃🏿💃🏿
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I also believe this is why most nigerian companies hire women in HR and Admin departments. For the purpose of performing domestic labor masked as organizational duties because how else do you explain an admin manager going to the market to buy Milo, milk and tissue?.
Women are so accustomed to domestic labor within their homes & cleaning up messes that don't belong to them, a trap we often fall into in the work environment is adopting that 'caretaker' 'organizer' role. Have you ever dealt with those sorts of expectations where you work?.
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And another thing about marriage to a Nigerian man is that everyone is mostly always on his side, including your family and his family. You have no one on your side fighting for you and before you know you are alone with nothing but resentments.
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Same person that when you share your thoughts he will twist and bend everything and you will start wondering why you entertained him in the first place. You won't use me to practice your debate skills and also annoy me in the process. So yh, nope.
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Nah forget it, Asake is talented. Put some respect on my fav’s name.
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Nigerian men are loved as misogynists, abusers, rapists, thieves, frauds, liars etc. The list goes on and on so they should go and take several seats.
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Last night at AG's album listening .AG: Hi what's your name?.Me: Adeola.AG: oh so you are an Orente.Me: *blushing* Omg yes that's true (then I started singing Adeola lo rente in my head). @adekunleGOLD thanks for giving us #About30, you are amazing at what you do.❤❤
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You actually have to combine BBN with Twitter for premium content. You guys are hilarious 😭😭😭😭.
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you know how in churches pastors only pray for women not to be baren yh, but they don't pray for men's sperm count/fertility prospects? could this be the reason that 3 out of 10 Nigerian men are not the biological father of the kids?.
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I am really looking forward to @adekunleGOLD new album this 2020. I already know it'll be great.
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The list goes on and on. Even with all the work, women are not getting paid enough. Still, many Nigerian women are the breadwinners of their household, many are financially responsible for their siblings and parents. So really, what's that "advice" going to do for them?.
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Asake is exactly who he thinks he is. Iya won at baba won truly!!!!!.
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If my husband wears airpods at our wedding, i'll wear beats headphones.
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Gentle reminder to not let things slide and to reject every spirit of being the bigger person in situations and matters that make you uncomfortable. No matter how small it is, please don't ignore that feeling. All of your emotions are valid.
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I want Women to choose themselves first everytime because that man you choose first will turn around and tell you he didn't send you work.
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Nigerian parents are too obsessed with what other people will think of them and this makes them afraid to live on their own terms. Fear of judgement from people whose opinion does not even matter in your life. Tragic.
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I will never be ok with women being collateral damage for anything. That just sounds cruel and it goes against everything i believe in. So yh, no.
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@Favelexzy @kikimordi Thanks for telling us about your violent behavior so we know idiots to block and aviod.
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The guy was with 2 other men and they were all laughing when he said "all this women no dey cook anymore. if i'm the owner of the restaurant, i will attend to only men because women cannot come and be dragging takeaway with us now". Oshey trevor Noah, o ti crack joke hahahaha🙄.
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Men buy sneakers,watches, clothes etc for their male friends all the time. However, i have never heard any man tell his male friends "i'd rather buy you shares than shoes". They mostly say it to women because women's accessories and interests are seen as superficial and frivolous.
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I've gotten so many new followers in the past few hrs and I just want you guys to know that I am one of those people you guys have labeled 'daughters of chimamanda' (respect to my president ✊🏿)and Twitter feminists. I wear this with a badge of honor so be informed.
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the thing about Meghan Markle's dads' side of the family is that they keep embarrassing themselves and not her.
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I will always give props to my former boss in Nigeria because he made room for the mums to bring their babies to work with their nannies. Even when we moved to a different building, my boss transformed one of the extra rooms into a nursery like room.
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Sometimes even after working for their money, their husbands steal everything. Nigerian women live in a country where healthcare, housing, quality education and good quality of life is very expensive. Many are just one major illness away from going into debt.
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Big ups to Tolani baj for looking after her girls, Vee and Erica.
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But which lower class women do you know that does not work or have their own money? Who? Is it your tailor, your tomato and yam customer in the market, the woman that sells akara down d street, the hair makers, the mama selling roasted corn, boli? The nanny's and house maids?.
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I feel like the small packs and super packs don't taste the same. Small packs are nicer.
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I had this diary when I was 15 and I wrote a prayer request that God should give me a good husband. At fucking 15 years old. I wasn't even done with secondary school and I was praying for husband. The strongholds of patriarchal society.
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lessons learned.1. Men are very very gullible and want u to suffer.2. A lot of people know what a pick me is so this means we're all paying attention. 3. Happy some of u see how ridiculous the entire thing sounds bcs a lot of pple talk this way daily. Bonus point: -Men are scum.
83k on food? If it was me that a man takes out to eat 83k food, I will tell him "my crown, no don't waste money". Let me take 3k to the market, buy vegetables and make soup with correct meat and swallow. The remaining 80k we use it to buy house or car. This is how u build a man.
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I rem a while back when I bought a male friend a t-shirt bcs i actually thought he would like it and this boy tried to kiss me. I was super confused like wtf? then he goes but i bought him a shirt and this must mean I like him. This was when I started to realize una no get sense.
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