Cassandra Reiman
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I am slowly evolving. Into who? Who the heck knows.🤓🤙✌💋Time is short...learn to love one another. 💗💗
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My newest poetry collection. Written as a continuation of my previous collection A Glimmer of Hope. Thanks for the all the support!
#poetrytwitter
#poet
#writingcommunity
Dawn of a New Day
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I GOT THE JOB!!!!
Omg...I did it! Have to call HR back tomorrow, on next steps.
It is full time with insurance. Not sure on pay but guessing $16-$17 to start.
It is my next step for my new life.
Thanks everyone for the well wishes, I know it helped.
Woohoo!
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My ex always frowned or didn't allow me to wear any makeup. For the first time in over six years, I put on mascara, eye liner, and some lip gloss.
By no means am I gorgeous, but I sure feel pretty today.
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It's been two weeks since I left my husband. I should say since he kicked me out.
My life is busy watching grandsons, helping around my daughter's place, and interviewing for jobs.
Through all the busyness right now, the thing that resonates with me:
Freedom and peace.
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Today is my 52nd birthday.
Early afternoon, I will be picking up the rest of my things from my soon-to-be ex-husband's house.
Later tonight, my daughter is treating me to a nice birthday dinner.
It is all good.
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Eight weeks today, marks the day I left my narcissistic husband.
October 2nd, I begin my new job as an Insurance Specialist at a doctor's clinic. Sometime after the first of the year, I plan to enroll back in college.
Each passing day, I heal more.
Thankful for my life.
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I am bawling tears of joy tonight.
My two roommates surprised me with a bedroom makeover. I was literally sleeping on a twin blow up mattress with borrowed blanket and pillows.
They got me a new queen mattress, a mirror, a lamp, and table. In my favorite colors.
I am blessed.
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Today is my big girl interview. The first time, in many years, I've dressed this nicely. I have to interview in front of three people. Ack. Nerves.
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Just deposited my paycheck into my bank account with mobile app. Thankfully, all paychecks after this, direct deposit.
It might not be a big deal to some, but coming from an environment where I had to beg, because of a controlling spouse, this is huge.
On my way, upwards.
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Thank you all for the beautiful birthday wishes.
It took me exactly 29 minutes to get the rest of my stuff from husband's house. A reminder, he abused me and kicked me out.
Dinner with my daughter was fantastic. Tons of food and flights of coffee.
New day, new beginnings.
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I will admit, I am nervous about what the future holds for me.
I am starting my life over from scratch. I have not held a job since 2016. I am mentally beaten down from not only this abusive marriage but all my past experiences too.
I am meditating, taking deep breaths.🙂❤️
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Has it been eleven weeks since he kicked me out?!
Time is flying. Things are ramping up.
Divorce papers arrived via e-file to the court. Once they approve, the paperwork is mailed to him, and hopefully, he signs.
Monday starts the new job.
My mind is focused on the future.
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Once a narcissist, always a narcissist.
It's been two months since he was served with divorce papers. He refuses to sign. His warped brain believes God put us together, and I will go back. Nope.
I will never go back to a person who lied, was controlling and cheated.
I am free.
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About to go in for orientation for my new job. Yay! Finally be able to earn my own paycheck...to pay bills. Lol
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My former narcissistic spouse sent a long text message Friday night, "apologizing." The problem, it's the same regurgitated crap he always says. Nothing changes. God showed him things, he is working on his crap, blah, blah, blah...
My response...nothing. I owe him zilch.
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Friday will be a month since husband told me to move out. His years of lies, manipulation, and cheating should have broken me.
Nope.
I am seeing things brighter, clearer, instead of constant dread, and darkness.
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I began the process tonight of filing online for my separation/ divorce.
Way cheaper this route than hiring an attorney. There is nothing to split. No kids between us.
One step closer to freedom from the narcissistic husband.
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I lost track how many weeks since husband kicked me out.
Too busy working, getting my life back on track to notice. Lol Once I clock out at 5, I made it two weeks at my new job.
I am learning, understanding the job. Yay!
Still, no divorce papers signed by spouse.
I am good.
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It's been two weeks, doesn't appear he will sign the divorce papers. Good news, in my state, I can file for a default divorce.
Tomorrow, finishes three weeks at new job. Time is flying.
Started the process today, to enroll for online college. Woohoo!
I feel like a butterfly.
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Today, is ten weeks since leaving my narcissistic husband.
The divorce papers are at my daughter's house, ready to sign,and send back to company. They will file and once okayed by court, send him a copy to sign.
Spent two hours tossing out accumulated stuff.
Out with the old.
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It is amazing the clarity I am having since leaving my manipulative husband.
My hopes re-emerging once more.
Years ago, I went to college. Earned around 70 credit hours.
I am searching schools to possibly earn a B.S. in Business Management.
My dreams for the future.
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Going to the ER by ambulance, and having to stay for observation, was not on my agenda for a Sunday. Everything is checking out good. I am having tightness in my chest, and too weak to walk. Been tested for covid, blood clots, etc...
Not what I need, since just started my job.🙄
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In the eyes of the person I married, I was nothing more than a maid, a servant. I was expected to satisfy his needs on a whim.
I was not a person, but an object. I was not human to him, only a second/third-class being.
I am not anyone's slave.
I am loved, and worth it.
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So I had mentioned about a month ago I needed to pass an assessment at training to keep my job. They give 5 tries.
Yesterday I attempted my 4th try. I totally believed I failed. Cried on my lunch break. Saw I had results in my work email after break. I opened it:
I PASSED!!!
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Eating by myself in a restaurant. Probably not a big deal to some, but after years of feeling I cannot do anything without a man, I feel liberated.
Good job, school starts March 1st, great support system, I am finally winning at this life thing.
Peace.
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Getting ready this morning for the new job. Wish me luck. 🦋💖🤞😊
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Many of the poems express her lifelong struggles between depression, abuse, and being autistic. It is the hope, that as a reader, they too can read along and find remnants of themselves written on paper.
#poetrycommunity
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#poet
#POEMS
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OMG!!!
The moment I have waited for over year. I received an email that my ex signed the papers. The legal team needs to go over the paperwork first before sending off to court.
All the years of turmoil, lies, abuse... are done.
At long last, I am free!!!!
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Whew.
It's Friday. I made it through my first week of my new job. Well almost, have to finish working today. I survived. Yay!
I got the notification yesterday the spouse received the divorce papers. Will he sign? Hoping.
My journey continues in a positive direction.
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I just cried for about 10 minutes, thinking it will help me feel better.
It didn't.
😢
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Life crumbled a couple weeks ago. Had to quit job due to mental health. Crush I thought liked me was secretly dating a much younger person.
Today, went to an interview and nailed it! I job shadow next week. Whew. This girl has fallen down so many times but I keep getting up.
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Today I turn 53. It has been quite the journey. My life has been filled with sadness, disappointments, heart break, hopelessness. Even with all that darkness, life has given me peace, joy, love, light, and strength.
I am truly a blessed person and thankful for every moment.
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Life is humming along nicely for me. Enjoying my peace in my new home. Completed my two interviews this week. Heard back from another company for a possible job.
Step by step, I am rebuilding my life. It is possible to start again in my fifties.
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Today I start my new job at State Farm. Of course a winter storm is hitting here beginning tonight until Wednesday morning. My drive is an hour away.
I will suck it up. Have to take my time getting to and from work. Cannot afford to stay at a hotel either.
Wish me luck.
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Moving day.
We all moved out of my daughter's apartment, into her house she shares with her hubby. It is them, the two grandkids, and me living here.
Closer drive for work.
And...I have my own bedroom.
My heart is thankful.
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If anyone out here could pass on the word for my Shopify coffee shop, I would so appreciate it. I need to earn an income while helping out sickly family members. Even a retweet would mean the world to me. Thanks peeps, love you!
💖💖💖💖💖
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Tonight turned into one of the most shit nights since leaving my husband. I won't go in detail about it. I am no longer living at my daughter's house. Staying on a friends couch until I can figure out stuff.
I am the fucking mess. Don't really have the energy to care anymore.
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Ordered my divorce cake, tiara, and sash for my party next Saturday.
I will be dancing and celebrating!
Twelve hellish years of marriage finally going bye-bye.
Free spirit soaring...
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Happy Thanksgiving!
I have much to be thankful for this year. I have a roof over my head, a family to be with, a job, and a new outlook on life. Six months ago, I contemplated ending my life. No hope.
Today, I am free from my abusive spouse.
Love, light, and peace to all.
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Christmas Eve night. No family contact.
Thankful for my roommates. I haven't eaten much since Wednesday, so they are getting groceries and cooking for tonight. One roommate's been rejected by their family. Told them they don't have to cook.They want to cook.
Small blessings.
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This Princess is getting ready for her divorce party. Freedom!!!
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I am the big 5-0 today 🎉😳
*Lived in Canada 11 years
*Survived childhood abuse
*Married 3 times
*Two kids
*Two grandkids (another one 2022)
*Patented an idea in 1995
*Got implant in my heart
*Self-published poet/author
Here's to the next 50!🤞✌😘
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This really sucks.
I am getting the cold shoulder from most of my department. The one manager turns her back to me and walks past. Anyone who comes in the office I work, glimpses at me and won't say a word.
Sorry I got sick, ended up in the hospital. Had a doctors note.
Sigh.
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@stwevegordo2995
I confronted him on his cheating and catching an STD. He got very angry, told me to move out. I did. Been married to him for over eleven years. He was a religious zealot who used scripture to manipulate and control me. I had no money. Last job I had was 2016.
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I have a job interview tomorrow after work.
Before saying, "what about the job you just started?" I am thankful for my current job. Really. But, long term, I need to find something with better pay with benefits so I can eventually live on my own.
Goals.I have to push myself.
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Hey
#WritingCommunity
Who needs a retweet of their pinned post? I'll be happy to do it for you. 😁
No need to retweet my pinned post...it's Valentine's weekend, so I want to give some love.
💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖💖
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A new haircut for Christmas thanks to my roommate. Forgive my puffy eyes due to crying earlier because of not seeing my grandsons. Merry Christmas everyone!
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My wild new year's eve. Putting my work desk together by myself. And I was told I couldn't do things like this myself. I can and will do many things in 2024. Happy New Year everyone!!
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Messaged my daughter this morning apologizing for being a mental mess causing her stress she doesn't need. She hasn't responded. I am talking to the person who offered to let me use their spare bedroom as office space for my new job.
He is going to let me stay there.
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Anyone need a retweet of their pinned post?
Just hit me up, and I will gladly oblige.
💖☺✌👁
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My birthday celebration. Yes, that is a tiara and birthday girl sash. My friend bought it for me. My other friend's got me a knitting bag with yarn. I really had a great day.
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Good news/bad news.
I have some sort of intestinal bug and I am at work. Achy all over. After being off five days from being in hospital, zero chance of leaving.
Good news, the job I interviewed with last week, hired me. Better pay with benefits. Start on Dec. 4th.
Woohoo!
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Anyone looking for retweet of pinned tweet?
Happy to help you out.
💖💖😁😁
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Good morning.
Learning my new job. Tired at the end of the day.
Will be moving on Sunday with my daughter and grandsons to their house. Much closer drive to work. Yay!
Spouse has not signed divorce papers, yet. Not shocking.
Time to go clock in for work. Smile.
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My grandson decided to be born at just under 33 weeks today, January 16th at 3:45 a.m. He weighs 5 lb 1 ounce/2.29 kg. He is breathing well but is being monitored in the NICU to make sure he is okay. Mom is doing really well too.
World meet Milo Jensen Weber.
😘😘😘💖💖💖
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Heads up.
If any person comments under any of my posts, using religious jargon, to make me feel bad about leaving my husband, that is an automatic block.
For eleven years he used scriptures/God to control me. He treated me like garbage. And, he cheated, getting an STD.
Thanks.
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If you want your work to get noticed, you need to take notice of other people.
Maybe say something encouraging or perhaps what caught your eye about that person's creativity. Writing congrats, happy bday, small things to show you care.
Engagement stretches beyond oneself. 😉
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What a difference from last weekend. Last Sunday in the hospital. Today, feeling pretty much back to normal. These sicknesses floating around, are nothing to play with. Thanks again, for all the well wishes. Take good care of yourselves.
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Discharged. About to head down to my daughter waiting. Doctor put me on prescription prednisone and albuterol. He gave me a work note to take the rest of the week off.
Time to take it easy and rest.
Thank you for good thoughts, prayers, and concern.
This fighter is going.
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I changed my last name in my profile to my maiden name ( Peak to Reiman).
I am not yet officially divorced, but want to gear towards another step in my freedom. I will be granted my divorce this year, come hell or high water...or however that saying goes.
New me this year.😊
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Wanted to say thanks for all the well wishes. Sorry my voice still sounds like crap. Resting, trying to relax, and pushing forward.
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I bargain-shopped. Was able to get an entire outside and dress shoes for cheap. I needed a grown-up outfit for my job interview on Tuesday.
It was surreal. I am used to only wearing T-shirts, jeans, and worn-out shoes. My typical dress attire.
I tried it on.
I am worth it.
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Wow.
Thank you everyone for the lovely words of encouragement. It means the world to me. I appreciate it.
To the ass who commented I traded in my narcissistic husband for the narcissistic healthcare industry, uhm, okay?!?
Anyways, love to all who support my decision.
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I completely forgot I applied at a chance to be featured by the art museum at University of Illinois.
We had to share links to our work and explain how the pandemic effected us.
I got the email today, my book is chosen to be featured at the Krannert museum all summer.
😳😳😳
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Anyone in the
#WritingCommunity
#artist
#bloggers
,
#creatives
or whatnot...
If you need a like or retweet, comment your work below and I'll be happy to oblige.
😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊
I want you and your work to get noticed.
Share away and don't be shy. Love you peeps. 💖💖💖
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Good Monday.
Got divorce papers signed, notarized, mailed back.Once they receive paperwork and everything looks good, they will file with the court.
Once court approves my paperwork, then company will send soon ex,to sign.
My new job emailed about orientation next Monday.
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Today is my 51st birthday!
I survived another year. I treasure my kids, grandkids, and the many wonderful friends here on Twitter. Love you all. 😘💖🌈🎂😉
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Tomorrow marks seven weeks away from my abusive, narcissistic husband.
I have my up-and-down days. Days I question if I can eventually survive on my own financially.
All in all, my new journey is life-changing. Thankful I am out of that situation.
Dream a bit more each day.
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Woohoo! My first paycheck from State Farm is officially deposited into my bank account. I can now start paying my bills on my own.
I deleted my Go Fund Me tweet.
Thank you to all who supported me on this long, exhausting journey. You have been a light and blessing to me.
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Brrrrr. Chilly morning here in east central Illinois.
Sitting by myself at the restaurant. Enjoying my me time.
Will meet up with friends later at B & N.
So nice to be able to afford to treat myself with my own money.
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If a man can't appreciate an almost 53 year old woman, well, his loss not mine. 💋😉
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I have plenty of poems written. Got a few tidbits of stories/articles too. I've written over a 100 pieces, so plenty of reading material. 🙂
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What a difference a season can change things.
At the beginning of June, I felt zero hope of escaping my narcissistic husband. He lied, cheated, and manipulated me the entire marriage.
I believed my only escape was suicide.
Thankfully, I did break free.
Now, life is hopeful.
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Getting ready to go meet up with some friends. Nice to have a balanced life once again.
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Feeling 90% better from yesterday.
Got the job proposal from new job this morning. Everything looks a-okay. All set to start December 4th at 8:30 a.m.
Postponed the start of college until February or March. No problem.
Looking forward to enjoying Thanksgiving with my family.
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A year has passed since my spouse kicked me out because I confronted him about cheating. He refused to sign divorce papers in October.
I've hit a few rough patches, but I am living on my own, great friends, and good health.
My lawyer is having a Sheriff serve my ex this week😉
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Who here remembers stringing popcorn around the Christmas tree?
My daughter looks at me like I am crazy. I told her it was a thing, waaaay back when dinosaurs roamed the earth. 😂
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I secretly have a crush on someone. Well, with the exception of a couple of friends knowing.
There will be zero pursuing it. I am broken and crushed from previous relationships. In fact, my rule is to never date again. Better that way.
In the meantime, I will quietly crush.
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This autistic girl made it through her first full week of work without any meltdowns. Woohoo! On to the next week, and beyond. I can do this. 💖🦋😊✌️
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Today i officially signed a lease for my new apartment. I found good deals on furniture which is arriving on Saturday.
A new chapter where my journey continues.
Love my new place.
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Woohoo!
It is Friday. Plus, I got my second paycheck from State Farm. Next week on the 15th, I finish orientation for school, so I can begin March 1st.
Things are progressing and moving along.
Life is a journey filled with hills and valleys. Glad I am climbing up a hill.
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Ex finally got served. He's got 30 days to either sign or try to contest divorce.
We separated over a year ago, he doesn't have a leg to stand on.
This nightmare is almost done.
Finally.
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I cannot believe it's been over 9 months since the ex made me leave.
So much pain, tears and monumental growth.
Have a great job, going to school, and great friends. I have a roof over my head, pay my bills, and striving for more for myself. Still talking to my crush.
Love.
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My birthday was on the 1st but didn't get to celebrate with my friend's last weekend. Today we are celebrating. 🎂😊😎
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It's Friday. Yay!
It's been a long, exhausting work week. End of my 4th week at the new job.
Talked to admission counselor at WGU to get rolling. Set up FAFSA, sent to have my transcripts sent to them.
Looks like spouse won't sign off on divorce papers.
Still going strong.
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My daughter is having a baby boy! I will now have 3 grandsons. I am truly a blessed grandma!💖💖💖💖💖
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Had a rough couple of mental health days. I've been doubting myself. Asking if I am good enough for my job, relationships, life in general.
I dreamt I was looking out from a castle out at a clear sky. A bunch of rainbows appeared.
I awoke feeling at peace, knowing I am okay.💖
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I wasn't totally honest about my day yesterday. I did enjoy my time.
At one point after two of the ladies left, I started to share some of my recent stresses. As I talked, my two friends, mom and daughter, talked over me, ignoring me. I stopped sharing.
I need therapy.
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My new place is coming along. Spent my first night sleeping here. Strange to finally be on my own but know it is a blessing. Love it.😁💖
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Met up with my friends at Barnes and Noble, and who else do I run into?
My two grandsons with their other grandma and grandpa.
I had a good time.
Happy day.
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Crash and burn.
Trying hard to hold it together today. Not happening. Wish I wasn't a complete mental case, but seems to be all I know. I've tried overcoming past trauma. It comes back to bite me. Wish my brain could process crap so I could properly function.
Tears, again.
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I can't lie or pretend.
I cried this morning.
I feel alone and dead inside.
I am in a loveless marriage with no hope of it getting better.
I can't hold a job or do anything. My brain fucking sucks.
I hope this will be my last Christmas, cause I can't do this shit anymore.
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He quote tweeted me because he feels I am criticizing marriage. My husband kicked me out. He lied, manipulated, cheated, guess I should have stayed. 🙄
When is it ok to start criticizing the institution of marriage? Having a real debate?
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Not everyday is going to be a happy one.
Today, is one of those days. My job is going good. My one complaint is the lack of proper training in my department. My co-workers,who have been here year's, say the same thing.
Deep breathes. It is Friday. Counting down.
Smile.
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