Consent doesn’t only apply to sex. It also applies when your friends say they don’t drink anymore, when they say they uncomfortable with affection, when they say they don’t smoke weed. Respecting people’s boundaries doesn’t only mean sex. No really means no, everywhere.
Trying to articulate my feelings without crying is something that can never be real for me.
As soon as I say "I just feel like..." TEARS TEARS TEARS. I'm so bored with myself.
Nothing will cost you in life than your incapability to say no to people. This thing of wanting to show up great in everyone's book will paralyze you. Turn individuals down if you need to, disappoint people if you have to. Soft nature will leave you emotionally paralyzed.
My therapist keeps reminding me that if you do anything out of fear, obligation or guilt, more often than not, you’re being manipulated.
So I’m here to remind you.
I’m mentally at a place where I can’t afford to FREELY give anymore. Meaning if I love you, I need for you to love me BACK. If I care about you, I need for you to care about me too. If I sacrifice for you, I need sacrifices in return. If I protect you, I need to be protected.
How do people who “hate small talk” plan on being in sustained meaningful relationships, what are you gonna do? ‘Hi honey, I’m home today, do you think freewill truly exists?’
My late 20s have taught me to walk away. No announcement. No outburst. No drama. Just a quiet untangling of connections. Exit stage right. No need for applause.
Give me soft language. Tender language. I see you language. I want you language. I crave you language. I’d like to take my time with you language. I adore you language. I meet God whenever I meet you language. All things intentional language.
"Can I take your order?" Uhmm,yeah!
Let me get a long lasting relationship,with a side of loyalty,respect,honesty and real love.
Oh,ease up on the bullshit ,drama,insecurities
Thank you 🙏
Walk away from lovers who are always on the receiving end of affection and attention, never giving. If you are the only one who calls, who texts, who gives compliments who goes over then you need to rise above the attraction and leave.
I’m mentally at a place where I can’t afford to FREELY give anymore. Meaning if I love you, I need for you to love me BACK. If I care about you, I need for you to care about me too. If I sacrifice for you, I need sacrifices in return. If I protect you, I need to be protected.
I hope you get THAT call today. I hope THAT email comes through. I hope THAT bank notification reflects. I hope your blessings transpire. I really hope you win.