People not showing up for you on your birthday, special events or moments in your life, achievements, or just times when you need them them the most show how they truly feel about you, idc. That’s what I pay attention to the most.
God will literally force you to let go of something because He has something way better coming. Learn to just let go because what He has for you is FAR better than what you think you’re losing.
I know as black women we’re used to having to go through hell & high water to prove to our partner that we love them & are down for them but I’m here for love that doesn’t involve suffering first. I really want for us to experience that at some point.
I wish more women prioritized creating the lifestyle they desired THEMSELVES instead of expecting/waiting on a man to do so. Boss your own self tf up and be able to maintain it with or without a man.
I really take pride in being a good person with a heart of gold, no matter what life throws my way. My intentions are always pure and genuine. That’ll always be my best & greatest attribute.
This year is so mentally & emotionally draining... and every time when we think we’ve caught a break, something else happens smh. Nothing even surprises me anymore.
Truly good hearted people don’t need to advertise that they are EVERYday, same with people with money, motion, businesses, or whatever else. Most times the ppl that try to portray something ALL the time are often the opposite.
In a generation where almost everybody caps online, I’m just glad my REAL everyday life is better than my social media life, in every aspect. That’s the real flex.
Like it’s men helping start businesses, teaching how to make more money, spoiling & investing into their woman, and treating their woman right & y’all crying over somebody that does none of the above?! Tighten up fr.
Started being honest with myself instead of justifying my toxic traits & started consciously making an effort to fix them & I’ve never felt more liberated.
I’ve been trying to get my bf to go to therapy since I met him 2 years ago to deal with past trauma & addiction and today we had our first therapy session & it went so well 🥺 I’m so proud of him & excited for us on this journey of internal healing💗
Always had my own motion & been able to sustain my lifestyle, with or without a nigga. Any nigga I’m with is & always will be a WANT not a NEED & they’ll tell u that themselves!
Nothing will ever top freshman year at Sam Houston. Literally the craziest, most adventurous & memorable year of my entire life. Wouldn’t trade it for anything😭
I think the only niggas still infatuated with having hoes at this age are the ones that didn’t have any growing up or couldn’t pull pretty females growing up🥴. Real niggas know the value of ONE solid woman.
It’s so crazy because you’ll know what to do & not do it & then God will literally put you in a situation where you have no choice BUT to do it. Sometimes that’s what we need.
People really be grown asf not knowing how to communicate, right their wrongs, appreciate/value people or take accountability but swear up & down they’re a good person...
If you got somebody you can count on & that makes things happen for you, you better cherish them. Especially if you’re a person that’s only ever had themselves to depend on.