Enhle Mbali saying that she missed out on her 20s & is catching up proves what a lot of feminist have been saying about women who marry young & have children young. That your life becomes stagnant & by the time you’re older, you’ll have no benefits to show except your children.
This is the part I love about married women’s spite. Because the same women who cheat with married men say they don’t owe married women anything & that it’s their husbands who owe them loyalty. Now they see the man for the demon he truly is & want to involve the wife. 😭😂
I’m sorry but you knowingly deal with a married man, and get pregnant by him and when he starts being a deadbeat you want the wife to be the one helping you? I’d have a hard time even caring. You didn’t include me in the affair, don’t include me when you need help, exclude me.
Men’s sisters are never beating the allegations. Your brother made her quit her part time job because he wanted her to rely on him financially (so he could probably control her) & couldn’t afford that setup now you’re calling her a financial burden. You’re such a bird.
Do you lot remember when Mihlali was being shady & posted her YouTube video including a snippet with Mary Jane (that she could’ve edited out) when they were at the same hair salon? Ugezile lasisi. This is what she deserves.
@JaysRealityBlog
Wendy gave an opinion about the college Grace is attending & it turned into “she’s talking bad about my daughter”
Wendy called Mia slow & it turned into “she’s calling my son stupid”.
These light bright women are just racist & will always have a problem with Wendy & Candiace.
You lot literally expect Chrishell to be nice and sweet to Christine after all she’s done to her and that’s hypocritical. You lot would never have time to be kind to a mean girl like Christine either and that is all right. Chrishell’s behaviour is human.
#SellingSunset
Chrishell is a disgusting mean girl and one day you lot will realise this. Sis really got in a relationship with a man she does not like in order to get Christine fired.
Marrying young & pouring into a man & children instead of yourself is not worth wasting your youth on. That relationship will never be worth the sacrifices required of you as a young woman. You won’t get anything in return nor will you ever get your youth back.
I am not reaching when I say that what happed to Shamiso is what happens when white/Indian women are threatened by a beautiful Black Woman & they’re in a position to humiliate them out of spite to act on their jealousy. No one hates beautiful Black Women more that non-black women
This Space just confirms that women only pretend to have high standards on and for the TL. Offline, ALL men, even the broke men, are the prize and the women are twirling for them. We’ve been knew, though.
#jeffwadifebe
@Dl_isalegend
She lied bout he family’s financial status because she knew she’d be judged if she was honest. Lo & behold she was. Made to quit her part time job & called a financial burden. That woman understood her situation & WORKED to get out of it. It’s not her fault her she was poor.
Let’s wake up the fact that men’s mothers are hoes who couldn’t even keep a man. They have multiple deadbeat baby daddies & none of them wanted to commit to or marry them. Their mothers are hoes who couldn’t even choose the right losers to have children with.
Commending a man who murdered his girlfriend for having a platform to speak nonchalantly about how he killed her and rehab in prison as “bravery”. I just know you’re a black negro male and you lot will support your gender mates who are proper scum from the gutter.
#GBVBySizwe
There’s nothing admirable or cute about burdening your old parents with raising your children after they’ve raised you & your siblings. Your “husband’s” duties are a laugh compared to the labour of raising your children that you’ve placed on your mum. Because your dad won’t help.
I had an aunt who was coerced into quitting her career. Everyone told her she was lucky she had a husband who could provide and didnt want her to work and she was ruining her marriage cos they were fighting bitterly over it at the time (he wanted her home with the kids)
@_BigMadam_
And that’s what’s going over that gender’s head. They expect women to be with men, even if no quality, just for the sake of having one. Just like how they marry anyone just for the sake of marrying because they don’t want to be alone with their miserable selves.
black men are jealous of a Black woman cooking for her DOG just like how they’re always jealous of their spouses taking care of their kids they’re not willing to take care of.
@folatianacici
Exceptionalism. Women love the idea of being special to men & not being treated like other women by them. They love the idea of being the woman a man changed his nasty ways for because that would make them better than other women. They date these men to audition to be this woman.
There is no amount of rehabilitation that can reform a murderer to a point where said murderer is allowed back in society. This man will kill again, serve a pathetic sentence and apply for parole. Also him being some advocate for GBV is the highest insult.
#GBVBySizwe
Chrishell retaliating to Christine’s meanness is somewhat labelled as her “true colours showing” and that’s bold of you lot to say. Why is her character determined and questioned by how she’s acting towards a woman that’s only been mean to her? You lot are weird.
#SellingSunset
This is why it is said & proven that marriage doesn’t benefit women. Society shames women who have children out of wedlock who raise their children alone, yet here’s a woman who did everything according to patriarchal rules & she’s in the same situation as women who never married
I don’t understand Indiyah’s weird attitude towards Ekin-Su. I think she’s just being weird towards her just to fit in and not be the one who’s friendly with the girl everyone hates and is mean to. Because, what is the reason for her attitude?
#TALKSWITHASH
@jiggyjayy2
The only reason you lot say Samatha was a girl’s girl is because she played the sexually liberated woman. There’s nothing girl’s girl about her. AT ALL!
The excuse of Black women being discriminated against because of the hair that grows front their scalp is tired. As true as that is, Black women are the first to make fun of other Black women’s wigs if it’s not straight enough or look like it’s growing from their scalp.
I’m no longer speaking up for quiet meek women. In their quiet demeanour they’re seen as “feminine” by men while I’m viewed as “masculine” for speaking out on their behalf to men. They benefit from my voice & side with the men who mock me for speaking up for them. Never again!
@MphoMoalamedi
Now why are you bringing realistic real life scenarios that happen in this real life economy on this app? You’ll be accused of not dreaming big enough. Things taking a turn for the worse financially in marriage doesn’t happen to people on here. Their dreams cover the economy.
She is only 22, married to an old man, has 2 kids & one on the way & she spends her youth baking & cooking for a man. She’s going to tell us things we didn’t consent to when that marriage ends.
Ella is not the babe you lot have been making her out to be. She knows how rude Ty is & she’s recruiting him to hate Whit over a lie. Anyone who’s with a man like Ty who talks to women mad is not a girl’s girl. She just doesn’t care because it’s happening to her…yet.
#LoveIsland
@JaysRealityBlog
@BravoTV
Deborah is always lying. She lied about Chris being inappropriate with her at Karen’s party & now she’s lying about not starting that fight. Ashley knew Sesame Street came there to attack Candiace & made sure it happened. She mustn’t act shocked.
Kane is so messy. He was born in the year of the snake and that on its own makes perfect sense. He’s literally NOBODY’S friend in that group. And I understand why Dorothy doesn’t like him and he deserves the wrath of her pettiness.
#BlingEmpire
@BossMatriach
One thing about women, you lot will defend marriage because you want to sell this idea that being picked by a man can better a woman’s life. Your good experience of marriage doesn’t erase or negate the fact that marriage doesn’t benefit women at whatever age & never will.
I really don’t care about the chat of her being manipulated & abused by that man because she literally had women threatened & assaulted or that man. She’s a pick me who’s a danger to women & she gets no sympathy from me.
He cheats.
She threatens to leave him.
She starts focusing on her career and teasing a new era and then she drops one or two singles.
They get back together.
She gets pregnant and it further delays her from working.
A never ending cycle.
Bianca and Esther’s subtle condescending attitude towards Lani shows that they’re the same person. They’re all 3 women who went through the same experience, but they have time to look down on Lani because they deem her to be a woman of a lower calibre than them.
#FullDisclosure
I love Indiyah as much as you lot and if you haven’t noticed that she’s being weird and wishy washy towards Ekin-Su, then leave it. Because her facial expressions say a lot even when she’s not saying anything. And you lot know how loud facial expressions are.
#TALKSWITHASH
The useless husband is the 65 year old who “can’t live alone” yet the question is “what’s a 55 year old woman going to be doing on her own?”
You see how men scare women of being alone yet they’re the ones who are useless & afraid of being alone.
@OlwethuVilakazi
This is why you lot have children & go leave them with your old mother or grandmother in the village to raise while you live it up in the city like a spring chicken. You don’t want to be responsible & you abuse the “it takes a village” saying by burdening your parents with labour
@ThePeachReport
During the fight, her attention is on Candiace while Deborah is fighting with K. Especially when Candiace picked up the bottle. Meaning it was planned but it went wrong. They planned to jump Candiace. The girl in yellow who pulled K to the ground by her hair? That was all planned
Men love struggle bums. They love women who are going struggle with them ‘cause one day they’ll be rich. What are the odds of you being rich one day? Women don’t want to be struggle bums anymore ‘cause men leave them when they’re rich.
#girlfriendallowance
I feel like Lisa is lying about her pregnancy. Chances are she faked it so that Brian would propose which is stupid to want a man (who didn’t want to marry you) to marry you because you’re pregnant. I wouldn’t be surprised if she had a “miscarriage” soon.
#Ultimatum
You lot are doing Ekin-Su dirty with these dizzy chats. You’re proof that you’d forgive a man for doing worse and crucify a woman for doing far less. I wish women granted other women the same grace and forgiveness they do men.
#TALKSWITHASH
It’s always interesting how black men on these misogynistic segments never touch the white women their athlete mates are married to. It’s always a buffet of ridiculing Black Women every chance they get. I wonder why…of course it’s because they hate Black Women.
Ella is one of those women who only apologise easily to their boyfriend “just to keep the peace” but will never apologise to their friend to heal a friendship.
#LoveIsland
Gay men get away with so much misogyny with how they talk about women and their bodies, especially when they’re in the company of straight women with internalised misogyny. And it’s often overlooked because they’re gay. Well, they’re still men.
#ThePopeOfPopCulture
Black women perpetuating ✨misogyny✨ yet again. Because the only reason it’s “🤌🏾” that you’re not turning 30 anytime soon is because of what misogynistic men say about women who are in their 30s. Even after the fact that women in their 30s say life gets better in your 30s.
@itsNadiaJae
UK girlies are very weird about age & it’s definitely internalised misogyny. They expect women who 30+ to not exist freely in society & go be elsewhere just like men do. This woman is acknowledging that she’s 37 & Ty is a child to him & its STILL a problem because of her age. ???
You can’t rate Luca and Dami for being supposedly “straight with it” when they didn’t even call out Jay and Davide, but laughed instead. Men are the last people on this here Earth to call out or hold women accountable when they’re allergic to accountability.
#TALKSWITHASH
@theBKbelle
Women are conditioned to infantilise men & never hold them accountable while taking the blame for their actions even when it’s harm towards them. Pick me women don’t understand women who want men to face the consequences for their actions as it’s not in the patriarchy module.
There’s nothing wrong with how Danica talks or how she is. She’s just dealing with men who don’t like her and is overcompensating. She shouldn’t have to change who she is for those small boys.
#TALKSWITHASH
Selling Sunset: Mary is such a hypocrite. She’s talking about how Christine is “showing her true colours” when Christine has ALWAYS been a narcissistic mean bitch to others, Mary only cares now about it because Christine is being a mean bitch to her.
When I started at my work the mean old Black aunties tried to bully me & my boss noticed & addressed it. Now I don’t talk to them about anything that’s not work related, I don’t greet or laugh with them & it bothers them. Going on 2 years now. They really tried the wrong one.
@LordVizo__
Boring! Because culture is rooted in giving men the easy way while placing labour on women. In those 3 months, the father goes on a whoring sabbatical & loses on bonding with his child. When his wife & child are back he becomes the worst father ever, like most black men are.
You lot don’t talk about how rude, crass & ghetto Mihlali is & that’s because she’s a light bright. You lot would’ve clocked & called out that nasty behaviour on a dark skin woman a long time ago.
I love this so much because when black women talk about how they fear black men & how they always resort to violence just because they can, black men gaslight us because they think we deserve it. Which is bold seeing that they know they’re also afraid of other men.
Boy mums beat “bad behaviour” out of their daughters by the time they’re 6 or 7 years but struggle to do the same with their sons until they’re older & they themselves are a victim of the monster they created. Now, the daughter who was beaten for breathing must step in & help. 💀
I also HATE how the girls are accomplice to the slut shaming and misogyny, especially by Davide towards Ekin-Su. They’re behaving like patriarchy princesses with misogyny maid outfits on.
#TALKSWITHASH
As a Black woman you can’t even be quiet, unbothered & mind your business without being called rude. People literally want us to react to things the way they want us to so that they can find reasons to label us as bitter & angry.
i always forget that people perceive introverted black girls as weird/rude/standoffish until i’m told that i come off that way when i haven’t done anything. not even said a word 😭
I still want an answer for why the girls gave Antigoni a warm welcome more than they did Danica? Because, Danica has literally always been sweet since she came into the Villa. Antingoni was only sweet for a few days and then went back to factory settings.
#TALKSWITHASH
You lot are always never rushing to be in a relationship with anyone you don’t know (because you’d actually have to be accountable & responsible for how you make them feel) but are always rushing to have sex with people you don’t know.
Women like this are so annoying. One man is nice to you & all of a sudden women are lying about their terrible experiences with most men. Like, what’s your point?
Years ago one of my FWBs came over and I told him I was depressed. So he made me food, cleaned my kitchen, and went home. We weren’t in a relationship and it wasn’t deeper than that. He just wasn’t a dickhead
If we’re not going to fight fat shaming with fat shaming, then how else are we going to fight it? Because fat shaming back is the only way that’s effective. You lot are the same lot that claim to go lower when they go low & now you’re pretending to have a moral compass.
This is your fat wife & mother of your children. This is what you sleep next to every night & wake up next to & greets you every morning. A fat woman. Look at her fat stomach poking through those linen pants.
The “snap back body” after having a baby expectation for new Mums has got to be the most annoying thing on the internet to me and I don’t even have kids. It makes me want to vomit.
#TALKSWITHASH
Black women perpetuate racist stereotypes about their hair & in the same breath want to cry about history & how Black women’s hair was policed etc. Manipulating history only because you lot have succumbed to the self hate & now you want hair that looks like your oppressors.
The women who are speakers are so disappointing because if you lot don’t want to tap into abuse and GBV and call Jeff out, you should’ve never read the anonymous DM about it and let him post screenshots as retaliation to the DM. You lot are just in it for clout rn.
#Jeffwadifebe
People in the comments saying this “clarifies” what happened are proof that people STILL don’t believe victims the first time they speak out. They’re always waiting & willing to hear the perpetrator’s side of the story so they can decide if they want to believe the victim or not.
Only 1/10 women have this experience. You should’ve just sat there shut up & ate your food because my tweet is for women who are going through & have experienced what Enhle has. Not about you lot who want to jump at every opportunity to defend marriage. Shut up sometimes.
@Baby_Wooolfe
Guys life is not group work.I married young and intentionally had kids in my 20s and never neglected my career or myself.I still enjoyed my youth. We speak as if life ends in the 20s. It’s only the beginning. Today in my 30s I’m at my happiest, doing well career wise, kids older!
Shape wear is literally rooted in the patriarchal “perfect body shape” for women which is fatphobic too since every fat body part needs to be tucked away & made to look slim so that you look beautiful for the male gaze. Leave other women’s bodies alone & focus on your own.
If you don’t wear shapewear, I can promise you, you aren’t dressing to the best of your ability. Them outfits can hit harder with the right undergarments, sis.
I’m so sad Danica is possibly getting voted out before Casa Amor. She truly deserved better. It’s just unfortunate that the script and producers were literally pointing all those men to white women.
#TALKSWITHASH
I have said that masculine presenting queer women are as scary as straight men because their internalised misogyny mimics toxic masculinity. There’s a part of them that wants to assert dominance (like men) over women & they do so by harming women just like straight men.
PLEASE RETWEET. Hi my friend was attacked by this monster. Police did not assist her as her abuser is a woman and they expected her to fight back. Atli had filed for a restraining order against her that was supposed to be served on 7th Jan.
Roxanne is just so horny because there’s nothing smart that comes out of Alex’s mouth. I hate how every time Alex says something she acts like he’s just discovered fire.
#Ultimatum
Tasha is a princess of patriarchy who thought she was safe from men’s shitty behaviour even after witnessing it happening to another woman. Women need to stop thinking they’re the special exception to men’s violence. Even when they choose to align with men.
#TALKSWITHASH
There’s something very condescending about Esther’s demeanour towards Lani during that entire interview. And even I can concede that she’s not the women’s woman she thinks or claims she is. She may be one to women like her, but she isn’t to women like Lani.
#FullDisclosure
The worst kind of internalised misogyny and pick me syndrome has got to be when women project patriarchal beauty standards that men like on other women with the aim of being seen as more beautiful than other women so that they can get picked by men as the better option.
This is why as much as we woman to separate women from the misogynistic incel men they’re partnered up with, their relationship was built from common & shared ideologies. It’s just a shock to their pick me system when they’re the collateral damage to their man’s misogyny.
Sorry but you can’t convince me that Keke doesn’t know this man’s ideologies & even agrees with some. Someone who even defended r Kelly at some point before rebranding? This is how it always goes: women who have pick me tendencies always end up with incel weirdo men