At 29 yrs old, I resigned from work & relocated to PE to be a full time student. At 29 yrs old, I took a chance on myself & at 33 I celebrate. This is for all the Black women in me who deserved a second chance 🎓 The journey continues...
Yesterday while driving home from work I observed a father driving slowly behind his daughter on the freeway. She had her L on the car and as I passed I noticed she kept checking for him on her rear view. I literally cried. To have that kind of assurance, support & affirmation❣
A lady was being rather harsh with her child at the mall today and someone commented "anistrongo ebantwaneni kodwa very patient with amadoda". I clutched my chest
The rapid increase in both the intake and graduation of SA's doctoral candidates has raised some concerns over the quality of doctoral degrees. SA's Council on Higher Education is set to look into the matter.
I was so overwhelmed with emotion I had to calm myself down. I couldn't possibly imagine what that felt like. But just trying...trying to imagine it, I knew right there & then that I want that for my kids. When they navigate new milestones I want to be right there behind them!
I was 10 years old when my father died and although I know that our story would have been different, I cried again today driving down that road as I remembered my happiness for that young lady and my competing sadness for myself & many others
I would just like to thank Dr Awomi Fatyela for attending to us swiftly and lovingly when I brought my granddaughter, Kemi to the hospital with a fever. Thanks Doc ❤️🥰😍
My nephew refuses to eat. So my sister has to video call my son (who has to be eating at the same time) so that the little one will eat cos his big brother is also eating 😂😍
The end of the best month of a plot twist filled 2023.
🤰🏾 Surprise pregnancy on the loop
🛖 Worked remotely from home (EC) all year
👶🏽Went to hospital with a migrain & came out with a baby
👩🏽💻 Virtual job interview from the hospital in my hospital gown
💫 I got the job!!! ⭐️
This relaxation of regulations means different things for all South Africans. White South Africans can go back to enjoying golf, tennis and meals at restaurants. Black South Africans get to go back to working for them or serving them.
Seeing Black women walking to take taxis home from the clinic or hospital with small babies wrapped up tight on cold, windy and overcast days like this is the reason I will go to my grave angry about colonization and apartheid. I won't even go into the last 26 years
Sometimes the universe looks at you lovingly while you sleep and whispers "Here baby, let me show you how it's supposed to be" and just like that, you experience the greatest joy, love, kindness, care, support, protection and courage that your heart as ever known....
The exam was brutal...
The weather is brutal...
But this EFF tracksuit is just😍
Wine awaits at home. Have a great weekend Fighters and future Fighters...
Struggled through Honours b/c I was pregnant & wanted nothing more than to eat & sleep. After all that struggle & Covid robbing us of our 2020 graduation ceremony, I finally got to walk across that stage again and the cake I was baking is almost 3 yrs old 😄2 down, 2 more to go
Teacher Carol says small-small is refusing to speak English in class (again) 😄 I don't know what brings this on (it usually lasts a week or two). She has now resolved to learn isiXhosa so she can understand her. I must say...the revolutionary dlozi is strong in this one 😄😄😄
White people are not, nor will they ever be African. The same way descendents of enslaved Africans who have been in America for centuries are not Americans but African Americans. They must own their European ancestry with the same energy they did during apartheid
All this talk about the financial cost of raising kids reminds me of my circle of friends in Centurion, all single moms with whom I shared parenting responsibilities with. Here's a thread of some of the ways we supported each other
In 1991 my parents told me I could go to the bakery section at Shoprite & order siblings. They would then put the baby dough in my mom to grow, take the babies out & take them to the hospital for the doctors to add hearts, lungs, blood & oxygen. My order arrived 25 May 1992 🌸💞
What are you doing on the 28th March 2018? Cancel/postpone, we have a date with leadership! CIC
@Julius_S_Malema
will be in Nelson Mandela Bay for the NMB People's Rally
#Asijiki
My mom and my man think hospital visits are for picnics. My son on the other hand is so in love with his little sister he can't even eat. He just holds her, talks to her and tells her how much he loves her 😍❤️😍❤️😍
What is this obsession with women submitting to men? Every single week I see some new "pearl of wisdom" about what makes a woman submit to a man. Why does an adult need another adult to submit to them? So that what can happen?!
On Monday I shared a stage with these amazing Black women. Prof Sibongile Muthwa (VC of Mandela Uni), Dr. Geraldine Fraser-Moleketi (Chancellor of Mandela Uni) and Ambassador Nozipho January-Bardill (Chair of Council at Mandela Uni). This is my signal. I receive mama!
So...today would have been my second graduation but I have been so preoccupied with
#LifeOnLockdown
that I didn't even know cos I haven't been checking emails. Happy to have done it again 🎓 👩🏾🎓🎓👩🏾🎓🎓👩🏾🎓🎓👩🏾🎓🎓👩🏾🎓🎓
At 29 yrs old, I resigned from work & relocated to PE to be a full time student. At 29 yrs old, I took a chance on myself & at 33 I celebrate. This is for all the Black women in me who deserved a second chance 🎓 The journey continues...
I am so exhausted I literally just cried. I’ve been studying full time, working full time, parenting & other shit for 4 years straight & I’m just tired. A part of me wants to deregister & see this shit next yr & another part of me says “you’re halfway through the yr, keep going”
Before my grandfather passed he had dementia, he would sometimes wander off at night & was often confused & incoherent. My mother said she was grateful it was a male parent because had he been a woman, he would have been accused of witchcraft & probably harmed.
Sometimes the words just don't come. They get stuck behind that lump in your throat and it feels like if that silence breaks, you'll break. Eventually you break either way. Ngxesi sthandwa
#RIPKhensani
Just came back from the most amazing four/five days in Durban with my little family. My heart is so content 😍❤️🥰 Absolutely nothing in this world gives me greater joy
One month with you in our lives has filled our hearts with a lifetime's worth of love and joy already. Mommy's little Namnams 🤗
Happy 1 month Awomi Iyana Amile Fatyela 🥰❤😍🤩
What a fulfilling, love filled journey. Only to realise that today is not the end of it but a continuation of what is and the start of what could be. Welcome to our lives baby Awomi Iyana Fatyela. Mommy, daddy, big bro, grannies & the whole family is super excited to have you❤
While I was in the shower this morning, my loving, sweet, caring, compassionate, intelligent, extremely handsome and well mannered 10 yo son made me a surprise birthday "breakfast in bed" (had to get back in bed to eat it) and this piece of art on the blackboard at work.
Celebrating a strong, Black woman tonight. A woman I look up to, my best friend, my sister, a fellow fighter, my skaboompiripa 💞 I love you so much ❤️😍
#YoliTurns35
Yako: It was the EFF who advocated for the National Assembly to adopt the motion of land expropriation. It is the EFF who will deliver the land
#UmhloboWeneneDebate
Kuyafiwa phandl'apha yi Covid and there are people who have the audacity to rock up at people's houses, unannounced, with bags, for a visit 😡 A distant relative did this izolo, told her and her plus one to come back next year and she is telling the whole world ndimgxothile 🤬
Something crossed my mind last night. That I found a sense of comfort in this lockdown because young women weren't disappearing at an alarming rate anymore. I thought about that a lot