I’m realising not everyone has tribe. Not everyone has friends who are like family that they’ve grown with from young. Not everyone has pure-hearted friends that challenge them & help them to win. If you’ve found your people, please understand that you’re incredibly blessed.
In terms of listening to secular music, I’ve really bounced between both sides of the fence through the years & learned firsthand that my life ALWAYS gets drastically worse when I regularly soak up ungodly music 🫠
I love when ppl brag on their spouse, partner or anyone they love. There are so many people in happy relationships & honestly it’s beautiful to hear about it ❤️
My man is such an elite communicator. It’s the openness & high level honesty for me 😊 From the start he regularly sets us up with couples mentorship, gets us to read articles by healthy relationship experts + has taught me how to understand him more as a man. I love it here ❤️
Even if we run with the narrative that Black people in Africa knew Jesus before colonialism, it’s anti-black to suggest the religions and practices of our ancestors were inherently evil. Now THAT is white supremacy.
Had my first real Valentines last night, most amazing night. Although I love the gifts & everything he planned, more than that I’m so in love with what we’ve built & the incredible man that he is 🥰
I love waking up in the morning to the sound of my husband snoring. For someone who works so hard, it makes me happy when he’s also getting good rest 🤍
Seriously, my first editorial cover & its New Music Friday Christian?! 😩
Twitter you are getting this too bc I am still over the moon!
Thank you
@Spotify
&
@hfpmusiclabel
Stop basing your identity on current or past negative experiences. Who God says you are holds more weight than anything else but you need to believe it 🏆
90 thousand people listened to my music on Spotify this past month, I get emotional when I think of every single person behind the numbers ❤️🔥 v grateful for the milestone
The Spirit of God, who created everything and knows everything, is inside of you! Even if you don’t yet see a solution or a clear path ahead, be encouraged! Seek His wisdom and everything will be made clear in the right time 🤍
Pls get a man that never lets you forget your beauty. It’s been about two years of being told everyday unprovoked that I’m the pengest, confidence is now in outer space bruh 🤌🏾
I love the type of person who is quick to forget what they’ve done to help someone out, never holds it over anyone’s head & doesn’t go around telling people about their good deeds towards you. That person is priceless.
@AStepFWD
Female Artist of the Year. Honoured to receive this award for a second year 🥺🤯
Got so much love for everyone who’s been supporting, thank you ❤️
Honestly, tribe is unlikely to just fall into your lap so if you want to build lifelong quality friendships then these are the 3 most important things:👇🏾🧵
Female Artist of the Year!
@AStepFWD
Huge thank you to everyone who has ever shown love. I see you & I appreciate you more than you know ❤️
#wethedreamteam
+ s/o to my amazing producer!
@AndreFisher__
Genuine relationships over networking every time. Much rather get to know you as a human being - below the surface & way beyond only what we can offer to each other’s careers ❤️
Tbh I really enjoy songwriting about God’s love & worshipping but He’s telling me to write other types of songs too. I don’t really want to bc it’s challenging, just doesn’t come naturally to me yet ngl but good things happen when we leave our comfort zone ✨
Some ppl on tiktok said I’m feeding a ‘narrative’ when I simply described ✨my✨ story.
God forbid but if we all disregard healing, ignore God, entertain foolish boys then maybe the results will help them understand that ‘reaping what we sow’ is a real biblical universal law
So many ppl are yet to be blessed by the amazing things you’ll achieve when you stop being held back by fear and insecurity!
More confidence this year 🔥
I’ve really been nominated for a UK ENTERTAINMENT AWARD!
Voting takes 10secs ❤️
Fr, a few years ago God told me to write & release a song, I had zero vocal or songwriting experience. This is crazy to me!! 😭
🚨🚨 NEW MUSIC 🚨🚨
My first single of the year “RIGHT HERE” featuring
@AshaElia
🇬🇧 drops Friday 14th April 2023!!!
Let’s get 1,000 pre-saves guys! Pre-save the song here: 🔥🔥🔥 let’s go 🚀
God loves us exactly as we are. He loves us so much that He yearns for us to experience the joy of His freedom + holiness.
Obedience isn’t a “have to”, it’s a “get to” ..But obedience without revelation of our Fathers heart isn’t worth much at all.
3) Grow together. Learn how to have hard convos, assertively set boundaries & navigate conflict whilst being empathetic and *solution focused*
V important bc conflict is inevitable & if you’ve never had issues with your tribe and worked through it, are they even your tribe?
1) Look for pure-hearted people. Sharpening your discernment from the jump will save you from having to cut people off down the line.
E.g. Do they gossip? How do they talk about people they have issues with? Do you feel safe being vulnerable around them?
Just bought kinky straight clip ins from Amazon for £50 & they are giving. Trust me when I say lacefronts or closures are not seeing me for a very long time 🙃
Going from being scared to start an activity & having no experience to growing in confidence & seeing even a small improvement is one of the best feelings ever icl
Always remember that everyone starts from somewhere.
I was previously part of a popular church with 90% young ppl, I was struggling bad. In my current church I’ve often been the only young person surrounded by ppl 60+ yrs. I love it here tho, thriving under this leadership!
Go where the power of God is 🔥
All independent artists or entrepreneurs know that we only survive because lovely listeners share our content 🥺❤️
But that will never take away the fact that it’s our responsibility to create content that actually inspires ppl to share it!
2) BE a friend to have a friend. Care enough to learn and meet their needs.
Most healthy relationships let this process start shallow then in time become deeper.
E.g. taking them out to lunch is different to closely supporting them through mental health issues. Don’t rush depth.
Growing up without a dad will really have you thinking healthy masculinity is toxic. We gotta start teaching women to recognise when they have trauma-tinted glasses on.
A lot of amazing singers are out of touch with what it feels like to be a listener. It’s hard to explain, sometimes you can be vocally skilled yet the way you sing lacks✨vibes✨