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I write about how to free your mind so you can write with influence and become self-reliant. 180k readers. Free book: '12 Habits of Mentally Strong People' ⮕
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Men who have their shit together do these 9 things:
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7 small steps that will reduce your anxiety by over 90% in 24 hours:
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As an introvert, these 6 ideas help me the most:
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15 unconventional ways to be unstoppable in your twenties
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10 tiny behaviour shifts that will raise your mood by 93% (i’m not even kidding)
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Men, read these 12 commandments to avoid a life of pain
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9 fun habits that will make you more money
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Being ok with being disliked is the number one life skill.
Here's why:
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The 8 traits of the most fearless people
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Life will bite you hard if you ignore these 6 strange truths...
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9 simple ways to rekindle your spark, if you’ve been feeling flat
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11 subtle behaviours that make you instantly more likeable
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2. Women will never love you unconditionally.
A lot of personal heartache would have been avoided had I seen this.
As soon as we signal that we no longer have our shit together, we could lose her, and ‘love’ will have nothing to do with it.
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8 innocent behaviours that age you twice as fast
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10 subtle behaviours that make men instantly more masculine
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1. Meditate for a minute before starting any work.
Focus on your breath.
Enjoy the sensations of being there, free of any pressure to perform.
Allow your mind to still like particles floating to the bottom of a jar of water.
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The 12 habits of mentally strong people.
(What 25 years of mental struggle taught me about using the mind well)
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These 9 unique habits will keep you motivated as F
(Number 6 will surprise you)
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11 quick tips to help you become so consistent you make people jealous
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1. You must take responsibility for everything.
Society expects men to have a handle on everything.
You can’t expect anyone to help you up when you’re down.
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9 subtle things that make people admire you
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2. Stop being a little bitch.
Most of us are unproductive because we’re complaining to ourselves in the dim theatre of our minds about how ‘hard everything is.’
Stop whining, and stop moaning.
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Men, when she says, ‘he’s handsome,’ this is who she sees…
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16 subtle ways you lose her attraction, bro:
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I often struggled to be productive.
It wasn't until I removed several things that my work began to explode.
Here are 9 subtle things that damage your productivity:
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3. Happiness is a choice.
Happiness is never conditional on your life being a certain way.
You don’t suddenly become ‘happy’ when you reach a particular milestone.
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4. Marriage is the most significant risk a man can take today.
Think extremely carefully before opening yourself up to potentially huge losses surrounding divorce in the context of a court system that is rigged against men.
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‘Love’ relies on many variables being in place, from self-confidence to your access to resources and demonstrating your ability to provide, to holding your emotional frame.
You are not entitled to her because you both have heartbeats.
She is earned (and so are you).
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13 simple habits that will make you feel like King Leonidas on crack
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7. Showing your emotions is not a strength.
Crying in front of your partner might be all the rage right now, but it will lose you respect.
There may be a place for it as catharsis in a men’s group or in therapy, but not elsewhere. Society doesn’t want overly emotional men.
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8 tiny things that make you instantly more socially confident
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RECAP:
8 innocent habits that make you miserable:
1. Seeking validation
2. Having expectations from others
3. High standards of output
4. Avoiding mistakes
5. Worrying
6. Taking your feelings seriously
7. Harsh judgement
8. Talking before listening.
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6 subtle behaviours that make introverts 15X happier
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9 weird little tricks that give you an insanely unfair advantage in life
(Less than 2% of people do these)...
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Learn from Will Smith. Here’s how to control your anger
(How to master emotional control that will save you pain in future)
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The 9 daily habits of high level elite modern men
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1. You prioritise others over your freedom.
So many people sacrifice their own joy to please others - often a partner or family member.
Yes, I get it - there are people in our lives who need support.
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6 low-key behaviours of people with the least drama in their lives
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This is a good thing because it teaches us early on that it’s all on you.
The minute you blame others for your misfortune is the moment you embody the frail figure of a victim, and you will make life impossible for you.
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6. Never take anything personally.
A common trend among struggling men is their making everything about them.
They think it’s ‘alpha’ to get offended over someone seemingly giving them disrespect.
I see my past self in them, and I see a weak man.
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Humans were designed to create.
This is why you get depressed when all you do is consume.
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25 HARD things you can do to gain ‘unfair’ leverage in life:
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They believe something is wrong with them (thanks, society), and they compensate with niceness.
Don’t go there. Serve. Be real. Be valuable.
Be willing to upset other people if it ultimately serves them.
This is to live with honesty and integrity as a man.
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Final thought:
Whatever you do, do not allow society to make you feel small or inadequate because of your gender, just because it’s trendy.
Never apologise for who you are and go for what you want.
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• They are obsessed...
Not with negative influences like the news and gossip, but with uplifting things like creating cool things, nature, hobbies, developing a solid physique, and having fun with other people.
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You are losing every day that you continue to open up your soul to the demonic energy of modern pornography.
Stop; go through your withdrawals, and return to being human again.
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11. Aesthetics matter.
The mainstream media will tell us otherwise, but they are lost.
How you look and the degree to which you take care of yourself physically significantly affect how others perceive you.
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It is craving stoic men who we can rely on for their stability.
Sure be human - laugh, smile, be playful - express yourself, but don’t release your emotions unnecessarily just because Oprah said so to an applauding crowd.
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Instead, approach life with a light-heartedness that acknowledges the ultimate meaningless of your ego.
This is true strength.
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8. Being nice is a losing strategy.
Many men take on the ‘nice guy’ strategy to get their way in life, owing to a sense of insecurity they have about themselves.
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to RECAP, subtle things that will make people respect you:
1. Clean up your appearance
2. Be less available
3. Talk less
4. Move slower
5. Talk a bit slower
6. Exert your boundaries
7. Dress sharper
8. Stop trying to impress
9. Eye contact
10. Take up more space
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Thinking this means you are continually chasing and continually unhappy.
No - happiness is a decision.
One you make every day as you start the day fresh.
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6. Don't take things personally
7. Showing emotion is not strength
8. Don't be nice
9. Stress is not external
10. Learn to make money quickly
11. How you look matters
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Men, here are 10 small things you can do today that make you more masculine:
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Men face a major challenge in navigating a complicated modern world.
Few of us have had any meaningful male leadership, and most of us struggle in the face of a brazenly anti-male society.
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RECAP, 11 tips for energised men:
1. Take responsibility for everything
2. Women won't love you unconditionally
3. Happiness is a choice
4. Marriage is a risk
5. No porn
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Find your inner badass who’s been standing there for close to a year sharpening his blade waiting for you to locate your nuts.
Bring that dude out and unleash the demons of hell.
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5. Porn use puts you at a major disadvantage.
Porn is not like it was in the 1970s. I feel sorry for guys who get hooked at a young age.
It is akin to getting addicted to the most potent drug.
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Energy is rewarded to those who can resist temptation.
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10. Learn how to make good money quickly.
Yes, happiness and money are not directly correlated, but you want your foundational income in place as soon as possible.
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