Marriage is hard. Divorce is hard. choose your hard. Being obese is hard. Being fit is hard. Choose your hard. Being broke is hard. Being financially disciplined is hard. Life will never be easy. It will always be hard but we choose our hard.
Men get yourself women who are in their 40’s. They are done raising their children. They want intimacy 24/7 They will feed you and they are drama free 😂😜
Until HE puts a ring on your finger, your financial burden remains entirely your responsibility. Any help rendered it’s from the good of their heart. It is never and it isn’t a right. Some women think because they look good, men owe them money.
Sometimes you have to go broke, lose the person you thought loved you, watch friends turn into foes, just to get where you are going. Trust the process. Elevation needs separation.
A lot of men want to be in their height of career before marriage, in fear that having a wife will distract them from their goals. The irony is that lots of men who achieved greatness through history, did so with a woman by their side. The right one won’t be a burden.
No but seriously. Normalize finding love in your 40’s. Normalize discovering and chasing new dreams in your 30’s. Normalize finding yourself and purpose in your 50’s. Life doesn’t end at 25. Let’s stop acting like it does.
Some of us are forced to create our own wealth because we have no where to inherit from. We are also fighting battles our parents never won. So bear with us if we celebrate the little things we achieve.
The amount of women I know that just are not interested in pursuing anything with men is astonishing. They don’t even want 🍆. Men have turned straight women off.
If you are dating someone try & find out how they were raised. A lot of people weren’t raised in love. They were raised on survival. That’s why u see people not being able to love properly. If u think a person’s past doesn’t affect how they see life, then u r sadly mistaken.
Educate yourself. When a question about a certain topic pops up, google it. Watch movies and documentaries. When something sparks your interest read about. Study, learn, stimulate your brain. Educate your beautiful mind.
You had sex with her, keep it to yourself. She sent you nudes to satisfy you, keep it to yourself. You got intimate the first time u both met, keep it to yourself. Don’t go talking shit, acting like a child who has sucked tits for the first time. Real men don’t talk too much.
You love sex but you judge women who love it. You watch porn but you judge the actresses who do it. You practice adultery but you want a faithful woman. You think you are a better person than others but you are just a hypocrite!
Every man needs a woman, but sex doesn’t hold a man, what holds a man is how you treat him & be by his side during difficult times. Like in a chess game, the Queen protects the King.
People think that intimacy is about sex. But intimacy is about truth. When you realize you can tell someone your truth, when you can show yourself to them and their response is ‘you are safe with me’ - that’s INTIMACY
Date in private. Love, in private. Be happy, in private. Live, in private. That way, you can take your losses in private. Maintain, in private. Rebuild, in private.
#relationships
Absent fathers stop assuming mothers teach children to hate you. Children notice fathers who don’t want to be involved in their upbringing. Stop this nonsense of thinking mothers poison your child against you. Your absence is the biggest poison.
They want fitness with no exercise. They want clarity with no self reflection. They want talent with no efforts. They want love with no commitment. They want trust with no transparency. They want wealth with no long term thinking. You want something, pay the price.
@ThisIsBett
@SolomonKarori2
You are comparing a honest man’s living standards and the crooks we have in our country, actually that a very decent homestead!
Dating is outdated in this generation, people just talk, catch feelings, become intimate, they have a good thing going for a little bit, then end up ignoring each other.
Nabii is busy recalling retirees to serve in his Government, meanwhile the youths were used to heckle and are being asked to borrow the hustler’s fund.
I am proud of myself. I went through every type of pain, family issues, being abandoned, trust issues, heart break, insecurities, depression etc. I went through it all alone but I NEVER GAVE UP.
3 things you will not accept. Your weight is a reflection of your daily habits. Your wealth is a reflection of your daily habits. Your mood is a reflection of your daily habits. 90% of the problems in your life are your fault. Excuses won’t solve anything.
Until men and women start having honest conversations of who they truly are,what demons they battle with, where they lack and what they truly want. Love will continue being a temporary emotion. Honesty and communication is Key!
Women get shamed for sex. For liking sex. For having too much or little sex. For having kids. For not having kids. For having kids too early. For having kids too late. STFU 🙄
I want to say a prayer for protection over anyone who may be struggling to fight a private battle. I pray for your peace, for your spirit, and for your heart.
@ItsMutai
Mutai why are you attacking everyone in Azimio, if you want to join Kenya Kwanza please go without disruption, we have a bigger battle ahead of us.
Sex is a plus. But mature women want to feel beautiful, wanted, loved & appreciated. They want to be in love. We want to have a mutual understanding that we are in a mission to keep love alive. We want conversations, communication, fun and unconditional love.