When we had our first “fight” and we still had to sleep next to each other😭 Like I couldn’t say “this relationship is over” and just go home🤣 And I had to still make us breakfast the next morning 🤣🤣 I made it and went and cried🤣
My sister finished uni with a 3rd class & got awarded by the French government, worked for NCDC, got invited by WHO because they needed her expertise... The list is endless. Your cgpa doesn’t determine your value and worth. Don’t let tweets like this deter you. Keep pushing!
My husband is the only person on this earth that I can wake in the middle of his sleep at night, to tell him I want noodles, with the description of exactly how I want it, and he’ll wake up and cook it for me. Kawai sai dai Alhamdullillah. I have nothing to complain about.
VIRGINITY IS NOT A GIFT!
WE DO NOT STAY VIRGINS SO MEN AND THEIR FRAGILE EGOS CAN FEEL GOOD ABOUT THEMSELVES!
WE DO NOT DO IT BECAUSE OF ANY RUBBISH CULTURE!
WE DO IT TO PLEASE ALLAH AND SUBMIT TO HIM BECAUSE IT IS A COMMAND FROM HIM AND WE WORSHIP HIM.
Fix yourself
Omg what were the goats wearing?! Why would the goats put themselves in a situation where they would be raped? They should stop taunting men and seducing them. They were clearly asking for it.
Man 'rapes' two goats to death in Kenya
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Tashin hankali: An kama wani mutumi da ya yiwa akuyoyi guda biyu fyade har sai da suka mutu saboda tsabar wahala da suka sha a hannun shi.
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Wane irin hukunci ya kamata a yankewa wannan mutumin?
This is how I learned my lesson the hard way. Wallahi every single sin I judged someone else for God has tested me with it. Now I just say May Allah guide me and said person too. We are so vulnerable as humans. You’re one wiswaas away from committing sins. May Allah forgive us
I follow
@davidmeltzer
on Instagram and I’m just starting to understand what it means to provide value more than anything. What skill sets do you have? Have you been improving on them? How can you exchange your value for something else in return. It’s not just about your grades.
Idk who needs to hear this but please. I’m begging you. If someone is not loving you the way you need, and you’ve brought it up but nothing has changed, just leave. You’ll end up building resentment and when you explode, you won’t even recognize yourself. Resentment is poisonous.
Today, my husband drove me all around town and helped me run my errands, now I’m coming home after a very long and exhausting day and he’s making me dinner. I’m beyond blessed to have him as a partner🥰❤️ Just wanted to tell y’all to choose wisely!
So when you see me so eager to please him & cautious of anything that will upset this man, don’t come an say misogyny yen yen yen🤣 Wallahi duk abun da zai ɓata mashi rai, ni ma na tsana. Kuma duk abinda zai faranta mashi rai, even if I don’t feel certain about it, zan yi a guje.
When I got sick, I was projectile vomiting everywhere. He held me till I was done. Cleaned me, cleaned the entire place, then came back to bed & held me, rubbed my back till I fell asleep. Some days I’ll wake up in pain, he will not sleep till I’m feeling better.
This is why I don’t do this anymore. My religion permits me to look at the suitors and choose the one that’s right for me. Therefore, I am single until I sign a Nikkah contract periodt.
It warms my heart so much when I come to the hospital and I see pregnant ladies with their spouses 🤧 This one is here holding handbag and every few seconds he’ll hold her hand and give her a mini hand rub. So cute omds 😩 I stan supportive kings! May Allah bless y’all ameen!
In a span of a week, I’ve written my first HTML and CSS. Designed my very ugly website🤣 that I’m super proud of because it took a lot of mental energy! I’m working on this woman. This woman is amazing and would be more amazing Insha’Allah💪🏽 I’m so proud of myself🤧
@Binn_Ahmerd
@lolajaey
Tbvh. I know people that cannot construct simple sentences in English but are earning really well. People that need others to translate English for them sef
Innalillahi wa inna ilaihi raji’un. Death after death after death. That has been the condition of my timeline recently it’s so scary. May Allah forgive those who passed and grant them His Rahma ameen. May Allah give us a beautiful ending ameen.
It’s called positive reinforcement in psychology. So many people outchea acting out when all they’ve always needed is basic human connection. To be seen for what they CAN do and to be heard. It does work. It’s logic. Nothing “snowflakey” about it tbh. Also, they’re just kids
Abuja schools will create all sort of award for their pupils so no one is left out. 20 students in a class and all of them will have an award at the end of the school term. School authority don't want to anger snowflake parents who feel their kids are special even if they're not.
Following how everyone has been arguing about this whole hakuri advice issue, it’s evident that not all of us know the difference between being patient when people make day to day small mistakes and erasing our needs/self for other people. The latter leading to emotional abuse.
“Marry her for her deen” is what Allah’s messenger said to us.
I PROMISE YOU, A HYMEN WILL NOT FIX YOUR MARRIAGE. NEITHER WILL IT SOLVE ANY RELATIONSHIP TROUBLES YOU MAY ENTER.
A HYMEN WILL NOT GIVE YOU COMPANIONSHIP AND LOVE AND FRIENDSHIP!
So please stop.
Let me just say that the pain that comes with a triggered trauma is not for the faint hearted. To sit with your emotions and regulate, to understand yourself in that instance and not transfer the pain unto someone else is truly excruciatingly painful. But it is worth every second
Here are some beneficial du’as you can implement this Ramadan and throughout your lifetime too. The arabic, transliterations and translations are included. May Allah accept our du’as ameen. Retweet to spread the blessings
Have you guys really deeped how powerless we are as humans? Viruses are the smallest of microbes & look how much chaos they can cause. Yet we walk on earth with pride & arrogance & we refuse to believe that there’s a God.
Just be deeping how Nigerian parents raised us and how they were basically grooming us for accepting & being okay with abuse in our future relationships. And the sad things is, the same was done to them. It’s a big fat cycle and we better be aware of it and break it for our kids.
So you looked long enough to see the shape of her body and the size of her parts? Long enough to tweet about it and describe it in details to us? So you weren’t practicing Surah An-Nur verse 30 but you’ve skipped all the way to verse 31?
You covered your hair🙌🙌🙌, but anybody can tell the shape of your body and size of your parts at just a glance but you think you are properly covered?
May God help us sha 🚶🏽🚶🏽
Y’all listen. For real. I know I come on here with the men are trash bants but on a serious note though; if you genuinely believe that all men are inherently trash & evil, get ready and prepared. Because you’re about to actually attract and welcome the trashy ones into your life
I swear y’all have misplaced priorities. Stop this stupid obsession with a woman’s virginity please. That hymen will not add or remove to your marriage. God knows that. That is why he did not make it a requirement for marriage.
I wear the hijab & I’d be the first to admit that I don’t wear it properly. I’d also be the first to admit that I’m always advocating for it to family & friends. Acknowledging & advocating the truth doesn’t make you automatically a saint. Chill,
@angry_ustaaz
ba annabin ku bane.
My husband making us breakfast, Friends on the tv in the background, and me just hovering around and bothering him. Definitely a core memory☺️ Y’all should get married sha it’s nice☺️
I’m very wary of a lot of men that come out here and act so virtuous in fighting for women’s rights. I have personally seen and heard way too many of them treat the women in their lives like crap in private. Some just love how it makes them look publicly. Ladies be very careful
How dare she! A woman who has breasts & actually wears a bra?! Wooow so unethical. Women need to stop wearing bras. I am so shocked that a woman would actually wear a bra! This is breaking news! Everyone stop what you’re doing right now & panic. Tanko doesn’t like bras so stop it
As a Muslim, you need to see your marriage as an act of Ibadah before anything else. Yes you love ur spouse & you’re in love but, you have to center Allah in everything concerning you both. Every action u decide to take or not take, it should be with the intention of worshipping
To all the married people here, what beneficial advise would you like to give someone who is about it get married?
(from what you've learnt by experience)
@ebryhheem2nde
Well now we know for a fact you don’t even consider or practice Surah An-Nur verse 30 yet, you want to be the enforcer of verse 31. So publicly too. What a shame. May Allah help you.
As-Salamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuhu. Alhamdullillah, it is with great pleasure that my fiancé
@lucidnas
and I, inform you of our wedding fatiha. Your attendance, prayers and well wishes are welcomed and greatly appreciated. Thank you.
Literally the most beautiful bride ever😭 I don’t even know you sis but I’m so happy for you legit😩
@beehatu
May yours be amongst the best bi’ithnillah ameen.
Let me be a testimony for you guys. I had covid a couple of months ago and every since then, I have not regained my lung capacity. Smelling something as little as scented candles would have my lungs suffering and breathing shallow. It’s not fun.
If you haven’t had covid before please protect yourself. The side effects are real, extreme fatigue, shortness of breath, shaky hands. Covid is real and it is serious.
That’s why we Muslim women don’t cover for men. And God didn’t command us to cover for men. In this life, anything you make the intention of doing solely for men, goodluck to your overall health.
When we feel triggered by people’s actions or words, most of the time it’s an invite to look within ourselves for the parts that need to be tended to. It’s a window into our wounds and what we have not been aware of. That’s a ton of hard work right there but it’s needed.
I find using this as an accessory when taking pictures quite razz honestly. It’s just a damn Bluetooth device.
Some even put the casing on their belt so we can see🤦🏾♀️
I’m so tired of this area twitter. You people never have anything positive to input. With all the things going on in this country. Look at how the arewa we’re proud of is crumbling to pieces. But you’d rather use your free time and be acting like you don’t have sense.
My question is, did people really not know that love is a rizq from Allah? Did they really not know that it’s not everyone that’s gonna get married in this dunya? Some even die before they get married. Do y’all really feel entitled to everything you desire in this dunya?
So now that we’ve finished fighting on the TL, at what point do we start recognizing the harsh realities in Northern Nigeria and creating sustainable solutions for them? Because whether we like to admit it or not, we have a problem.
This conversation began as a response to some clowns’ attempt to portray polygamy as a disaster and abominable. Having been raised in one, and witnessed several functional ones, I found that thinking mischievous and silly. Polygamy has its flaws, but monogamy is just as flawed.
Ladies, y’all know I always have your back. So here it goes again;
One of the most frustrating thing about our monthly due is ruining the mattress! Cleaning it can be such a hassle! Here are some few tips I’ve picked up over time to make it much simpler and easier;
I love how Suratul Nisā starts with “Fear Allah”. The contents of the Surah are so rich and easily misinterpreted without the fear of Allah within you. It’s like a caution for all & those who want to use it for their selfish gains. Whatever you do, in all state, fear Allah.
I have come to terms with the fact that God tests us through different blessings and challenges and one of my greatest test is my mental health. Lord knows how hard it is walking around everyday while crumbling piece by piece on the inside. But las las e go beta Insha’Allah.
They work harder than all of the
@PoliceNG
combined. Under hot sun too! Some of them going so far to entertain us with their dance moves and make traffic less annoying
It’s such a breath of fresh air to see yourself through other people’s eyes for a second. People that love you sincerely & authentically. People that see you and choose you. I feel so beautiful. Even more beautiful than I’ve felt. Didn’t know it could get better than that.
You read the Qur’an one day and get a message. You read the same passage the next day you get a different gem. It’s the gift that never stops giving subhanallah. Here’s this week’s reflection of Kahf from me.
If you’re in a relationship and you start to feel the need or urge to voice record your conversations and/or take screenshots as evidence later on, that is a huge sign from God for you to leave that relationship.
Wallahi ku bude kunne ku ji. Ku daina kawai. Idan ma kin taba yi toh bi’ithnillahu ki take kafa ki daina. Ba ya cikin dabi’ar ki ta musulma. Idan yana so ya gan ki ya zo gidanku. Allah ya ci gaba da rufa mana asiri Ameen.
Starting this morning with an opinion . Abuse aside for a minute.
Unpopular opinion: ladies shouldn’t be visiting men at their homes. That’s so indecent.
If he loves you he’ll meet you at the SAFETY and comfort of your own home.
Healing is so painful. Accepting and embracing the ugliest parts of yourself has got to be one of the most challenging things ever. And you cannot heal without doing just that.
This week I have realized how we have grossly underestimated the power of istikhara. It’s an open invitation for Allah into your choices and decisions. It’s calling Him to take control and intervene in your situation because you are full of conviction that He knows best.
Someone I know personally just had a close call with “armed bandits/kidnappers” on Kaduna-Zaria road. One thing they observed is that these people are not Fulani herdsmen. They had expensive military grade rifles and were setting up camp. Most likely part of some terrorist group
The people you see living happy every single day and you think their lives are perfect, prim and proper are nothing but grateful people. Terrible things go down everyday for them too just like you. But they have decided to have gratitude which makes it easier to handle life.
When I tell you women are the most toxic y’all don’t hear it! The manipulative ability of a woman is friggin scary! I know because I’m one and I know I can easily choose to go down that road. God help us all ameen.
This is actually sad. It says a lot about the emotional intelligence gap between men and women in our society. I think we focus on teaching so many other things to boys & neglect to teach emotional intelligence. This is something that the prophet did so well (S.A.W).
I have never met a man who can meet a woman’s emotional needs successfully, to be honest, and that’s because most of the things women consider problems are either insignificant in relation to what the man is going through or ill-timed. You could be grieving because your
Imagine if you live in America and you let your underaged kids roam the streets without supervision? Child services would be knocking on your door and they will take your children from you! What SLS said is the harsh truth. But Arewa people are arrogantly self righteous!
On the flip side sai ku ga maza basa tsoro ko na minti daya a irin wannan zamanin su yi ta kwashe-kwashe. Yau shi ne bin Fatima, gobe Ruqayya. Ya bar matar shi a gida. Making both him & her vulnerable to these kinds of nonsense from other people. Allah ya kare mu dai kawai ameen
Subhanallah if they serve this at my wedding I’m removing my gele, tying my scarf around my waist, then I’ll find somewhere on the floor to sit and I’ll get down to business. No time to waste time. Za a ga amarya na yagar loma kawai aradu 😂
“This day those who disbelieve have despaired of [defeating] your religion; so fear them not, but fear Me. This day I have perfected for you your religion and completed My favor upon you and have approved for you Islam as religion.” [Q5:V3]