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I strongly believe every woman should be unapologetically picky! Our lives are designed to be tough - you birth the kids and the new age
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"Even in our anger, be careful over the words we speak over our children."
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Came across this lovely testimony that was shared in Apostle Joshua Selman's church ❤️ Godly & loving husband that was proactive in covering his wife. Prayed with her & even in her absence, stood in the gap ❤️
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Being a Nigerian is hard sha. Can't question parents, pastors, politicians, filmmakers etc 😓
Debates & questions = disrespect, hate, subs flying.
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Single and clubbing: "No man will marry you, you're not wife material"
Married and clubbing/owambe: "What partying are you doing that you didn't finish when you were single? Bad wife/mother"
Married & sitting at home: "You're letting marriage make you dull. He'll look outside"
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I have a cough. Thing is my toddler has only recently started to say bless you but he doesn't know it's ok to say it once and move on. So we've been stuck in a "bless you, thank you" loop 😂
Plus he waits to hear the thank you response, so when I ignore, he repeats himself 😂
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Same as they said "not now" to women complaining of harassment at the protests.
Feminist Co didn't tweet that out of the blues. Queer people who went out to protest were attacked days ago. Are you people okay at all??? You think they don't deserve basic human rights too???
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This is why observing patterns will forever be wiser than "he has changed."
The way he went on about Amber, while unfortunate for her, was a gift for ladies. But the way some of us like to do 'I'm special and he's different with me' till we land inside trouble ehn 😓
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And people think he couldn't have gotten access to ordinary hotel room.
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Were we not here when a lady had to deactivate her account because she 'dared' to say that grown women shouldn't need to take permission to go out of their homes???
And Twitter is for the younger generation ba?
I think a lot of you don't know what real Nigerian Marriages entail. Not the ones you see on instagram. Ask around, flogging , regular slaps and full control finances is the standard.
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Love that post because it exposes how much women lose when things aren't spelt out.
Yea, being a mum is a blessing but ain't it funny how this blessing only truly sets 1 party back? And it's just meant to be cool because who doesn't like free labour🙄 See him crying now mtcheew
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Twitter especially taught me that nothing is too crazy for women to go through in marriage. Case in point, that breastfeeding story.
It's why no matter what my reality is, when multiple women are talking about something, I listen.
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Googled this clown. Apparently his ex-wife danced on IG to celebrate her "freedom," now he's shooting film about toxic feminism.
⚡️EXCLU: “The Modern Woman”written and directed by Yomi Black has begun principal photography in Lagos,Nigeria
>> Based on true events, Sharon ooja plays a young woman who after a miscarriage tries to find herself but unfortunately falls into toxic feminism.
Learn More:
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Actors like Uzor Arukwe are slept on because they're mostly on Iroko. Been thrilled for him this year as he has had a few cinema roles. Man has range.
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I think, for the most part, the girls just don't go finding them. They're ok with being single and as such, are able to take decisions that are in their best interests very quickly. No hanging with or making excuses for mediocre/shitty guys. Effective filtering system 🤷🏽♀️
How do girls find these loving and caring lads who are actually mature enough to treat them well ?? Asking for a very fucking fed up friend
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Sega did just enough to muddy the waters...no one can say he called Seyitan a liar or declared Dbanj innocent after all that plenty English but the loon achieved his aim...to get enough people saying "so" & "what if."
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Remember the attacks on that babe that went to Adekunle Gold's concert a month after giving birth? That was someone that left her child with care, & for a limited time.
But they're so understanding now, they're jumping to "suicide and abuse" for deadbeat fathers.
I know it seems unsympathetic but to see ppl admitting to upping and leaving their families and getting eeyah pele dias is hard when ur mouths are so sharp when u see mothers living a life without their kids😂. Lets be real ehn
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Saw that Ajibola fraudster's tweets during the Aribisala disgrace and blocked him.
This has nothing to do with the current story because I haven't even read it but you see those guys that are always playing devil's advocate on here, the 'my twitter persona is not the real me'
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Jola & chaos, like 5 & 6 🤣 At times FK starts off hesitant but you can bet on her ending up an enthusiastic participant 😂
IG: isaidwhatisaidpod
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THIS!!!
I am [M34] and my wife is [F29]. She has asked me to pay her almost $50,000 to have our child, and I'm not quite sure what to do.
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We're tweeting ozoemena and this is happening 💔 Nigeria is exhausting sha 😓
WATCH:
@HQNigerianArmy
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@PoliceNG
Invade Enugu Church, March 50 Members Away Over Alleged IPOB Membership
Visit: for full story.
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That men can abandon loved ones in tough times and have people cape for them is just...
WOW!
The woman pushing out a stillborn, the one with cancer, the women who stay back to care for them, they are not suffering or experiencing grief???
How can you excuse abandonment?
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This is the problem with being with people who posture as nice vs being actually decent humans 😓
Likeable personality in public but shitty BTS is how they isolate their unfortunate partners.
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@ozzyetomi
@LIBGyal
As in! It's like people are just skipping over the whole Angelina Jolie & kids bit.
Men are enjoying sha... to be able to mess things up so bad and have the public cape for you is amazing.
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Expecting men that lack the capacity to listen during basic conversations to be attentive enough in bed...
When these topics come up I often wonder if the women involved are having orgasms.
Cause imagine dealing with all of this and I’m not cumming 4-5 times a day.
I will die.
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As a christian who believes in God's sovereignty & that life is sacred, I believe that this should be the ideal situation.
Still,
1. I don't believe that it is right to force my opinions on others.
2. I have carried a baby that I 100% wanted & prayed for & it was traumatising
My stance on this is clear:
An abortion is a medical procedure that should be done only for compelling indications i.e. when consent wasn't granted and if it is harmful to the mother.
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See the way Nollywood fans have taken it upon themselves to hype Brotherhood??? LOVE IT!
Give people good stuff to talk about and they'll do it for free.
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I don't get why people are vexed that ex-housemates are being filled in on what went on in the house.
Are they robots or why shouldn't they know? If it was 'just a game' like y'all say, why did your own faves feel the need to play dirty at the expense of others?
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@EniolaHu
I bought into the 'boys make easier friends' lie. Only thing with boys was they let a lot of things slide so the friendships with them are relatively shallow.
And other girls, like me, were just trying to figure life out. I just needed to find girlfriends with similar values.
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Crazy thing is many of them still get away with it. The average Nigerian woman never wants to be the one that caused his 'downfall,' so they put up with the bs for a long time.
By the time you're seeing videos & police, the lady's probably barely surviving.
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You're so progressive that you don't mind pushing women to the bottom of the ladder for your ideals 😕
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Thank God her friend came through. If no friend, I'd pay in that instance, but afterwards, we're done. Especially with the mum backing the nonsense.
Reddit is saying she’s not the asshole for this and the teenager lacks empathy but how are you gonna ask someone who does this for a living to do it and then be surprised when they ask about their pay?
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Erica that has mostly stayed her sweet self is being painted as manipulative and some kind of Jezebel to suit whatever disgusting narrative the producers want.
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I don't like that E's people got her to wear white and post on her IG 😓 Just setting her up for avoidable yabs.
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@JoeyAkan
Does he hate transactional sex or it's the girls having it that bug him?
"I want to sponsor you
Just give me the chance i’ll change your life...
...Am capable I full ground
Thanks for coming
Shey you can manage just like 2 grand
That’s pounds sterling o this is just a starting"
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@JoeyAkan
Does he hate transactional sex or it's the girls having it that bug him?
"I want to sponsor you
Just give me the chance i’ll change your life...
...Am capable I full ground
Thanks for coming
Shey you can manage just like 2 grand
That’s pounds sterling o this is just a starting"
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There's so much to unpack here. Quite easy to see how someone would see this and balk at her utterances
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Men will always come. That is a fact. 'Hold on to what you have because men are scarce' is a lie that's used to scam women into staying in crappy relationships. Efficient filtering system is what's needed...ability to say 'boy bye'. Free up energy & space for the types you want
How do girls find these loving and caring lads who are actually mature enough to treat them well ?? Asking for a very fucking fed up friend
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How many of you have been able to witness those cringe family 'interventions' that Nigerians stage for a troubled marriage? Even if you haven't seen it directly, you'd have seen some in movies.
That's what that thread is.
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@_LOHI_
If he looked different and they thought he was rich, they'd def be expressing their frustrations differently.
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@JoeyAkan
These are his words. So let him say what is truly bothering him because it's surely not transactional sex.
If it was, he wouldn't be so one-sided. Hyping sugar daddies in 1 breathe and condemning girls in the next.
Did a 3 min check, the only songs I found focusing on Sugar Daddies are Regards to Your Momsi which is banter, and Baby Boy which is aspirational. Did I miss any? The runs babes yarns does seem one-sided.
@falzthebahdguy
this is something to consider.
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This thread popped up on my TL and honestly this is why when someone says "I love you", it's best to ask what they mean. Also gotta shine your eyes and pay attention to their actions and unspoken messages.
"I think I will live my life a sad man forever, since I never took the chance to marry her last year. Now I believe I will marry any woman now. 💔"
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Even if it's just one woman, if you're really interested and you search, you'd find similar stories.
It's why I believe a lot of twitter guys are intentionally obtuse when it comes to gender issues.
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But what if he has truly never tasted it?
Marriage doesn't suddenly make us the best to ever do any/every thing for our partners.
If your husband tweets "I've never tasted Egusi Soup that will make me lick my fingers", what are you going to do?
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Lola Shoneyin shared screenshots of her private conversation with a dead man whilst he wasn't exactly at his best ☹️
And all for a dumbass point that could have been made without said screenshots 🤦🏾♀️
She revealed herself in 2015 sha but jeez, that woman is vile!
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So they should have forced her to be visible? Considering what is being claimed re her mental health now, if they had done that & she ended up not being able to handle the kind of vitriol Kiki had to endure, people like you would have also blamed them 🙄
You and a junior colleague led an award winning work... she chose to go anonymous, you let her...
You went on to win multiple awards, and she won nada...
It didn’t occur to you to ask her “nne hafa na?”
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This is the thing with being a feminist and a Christian 😂 People chew you out from both sides.
Sure it's a path with conflicting points. Trust me, I know. I'm figuring things out for myself on a daily basis sha. Gbogbo wa la ma wa alright.
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@Littlemrs_A
I have a journal with stuff like this from secondary school too 😂 I"m also married to my Dayo 🤣
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You know how there are political posters everywhere during elections, I'm thinking we should make posters with the stories of the victims & flood the streets with them.
Since it's obvious that NBC controls radio & TV. I'd join groups to work on this
#EndSARS
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Some crimes just don't make sense. Like this Williams Uchemba drama...how did he see it ending? Real name, real handle, SM chats...all easily traceable. What was his end game?
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What he said! Any politician that wants to protest or collect mic should go and stand outside Aso Rock for their own protests!
#EndSWAT
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Dorathy doesn't even know how much she is loved yet. It will shock her ❤️❤️❤️
Solid babe through and through!
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@IchieWayne
@JoeyAkan
The song is actually titled sugar daddy so random man & his girlfriend angle doesn't apply.
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@rabiasquared
He claims he just hangs them without much thought but he has NEVER mistakenly hung them the right way up, EVER.
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Why should I say sorry? Did you see me push her to the ground? 😂😂
The way I've overplayed this video ehn. Eriife was like we die here! Apologise fire.
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I LOVE when ladies see red flags and cut dudes off instantly. Especially when the situation doesn't directly affect them. Such foresight saves us from avoidable pain & tears.
No matter how great his other qualities might have been, a relationship with someone who applies a different logic to themselves because of gender, would be precious time spent having unbearably stupid conversations disrespectful to my intellect & I can never do that to my life.
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Nigerian man making a film about feminism 🤣 Couldn't even tuck in the madness, o ti fi toxic si from the start 🤣🤣
One side of Twitter would love it sha.
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guys, RUN!
It takes a degree of moral bankruptcy to be comfy with tweeting the way they do. No one that's decent can just switch off their senses and tweet like them. It's not normal.
It's not bants, not vibes, just avoid them.
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"Based on a true story"
Imagine using your talent to help an abuser tell 'his side' of the story.
That logline alone was already questionable, yet these people took on the roles. Now that it has been confirmed that he beat someone till they miscarried nko???
I'm judging.
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Cee-C & Tobi's fans keep reminding me of PDP & APC people on here sha. Cee-C's people accept that she's flawed & openly discuss her issues, Tobi's people gloss over his issues & some are outrightly in denial
#interesting
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Nollywood doesn't pay enough for them to do a few films and chill sha. Odunlade's work rate is humbling but then you see their colleagues needing gofundme for emergencies and you understand why.
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So a biologically male human tried to rape a woman but this is the headline.
Well done to all involved.
A woman has been thrown behind bars after sexually assaulting a stranger she followed down a Melbourne street before issuing a shocking demand.
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@AfroVII
I saw that tweet and clicked on her handle & realised she had been preemptively blocked. Made sense when I saw a tweet about her BBN behaviour & this cements it.
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Then when she left, the lesson you got was "don't choose your wife above all" and not "don't cheat."
You fought to marry the woman you wanted and still had affairs. Men men men men
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Acknowledging the pains of their mothers and doing better by their wives would involve giving up certain priviledges. Their love never reach that side.
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Young girls are lectured about having zero expectations & accepting the barest minimum because "wife material" + "you are not his wife."
Then they become wives & start hearing about earning their own money & how wives are not blood.
😂😂 You want to see he was very stingy when they were dating. I don’t think traits like generosity just disappear.
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So many women go from getting married so they can share their lives with the "love of my life" to living a nightmarish existence of being buried under domestic chores & child raising 💔
They won't even remember/have time for the 'love' that led them there in the first place.
I notice she was breathing.
I quickly called for another hand and we took her to a nearby clinic.
The medical personnel told me, she lacked rest and have over worked herself, the cause of the unconsciousness.
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Or they'll start disturbing everybody with complaints, talking about "nobody calls me" after wife has left for perpetual omugwo and his kids have little or no interest in engaging him beyond basic pleasantries.
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💯 because we'll all be here when those wicked people would start labelling protesters IPOB.
EndSars was way before elections, remember their sickening tactics? Please stay home.
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And the ones that must collect all scripts na 😓
Has he written/shot 'good' feminism? 🤡😂 Next release will be about writing both sides. Mtcheew
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@Omotafede
@OmogeDami
Yup. There's nothing new about feminism or the silliness of the people pushing against it.
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Gosh Boki is so sweet 🥺 Just saw the post she did on Elly's page and 🥰❤️🥰 The way she has supported Erica and Dorathy...beyond words. Watching the video got me emotional.
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He did o, he did!
#EndSARS
Amaechi, bless his forever leaking mouth, has told Nigerians what to do. In his words, if they don’t get stoned, they won’t change.
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@theDamiDami
@adekunleGOLD
Second time seeing him and he really cares. You can see it in their set up & time management. Maximum respect for fans. Plus he's really comfortable giving a show ❤❤❤ Love to see the growth, he has earned it.
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Having an abortion is not without its share of consequences. And none of us are God. Why are we so hell-bent on controlling people? Leave it to them & God.
Becoming a mum made me pro-choice tbh.
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I hope Thaddeus Attah pays that condescending trash of a letter dust. Mtchewwww.
One thing to want to get familiar with someone you don't know but the phrasings in that letter would be very different if there was any modicum of respect.
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I don't know what to call people who believe that 2 people from different backgrounds got married and have "never" argued in their marriage.
Either the story teller is a liar or the dynamic is that of a master & slave. Won't be surprised to find that both apply.
So Kenneth Copeland and his wife Gloria Copeland have been married for 59 years. Waoh!!😯😳
They just celebrated their 59th wedding anniversary and according to them, they've not had a single quarrel all through these years.
Wow! 🙂
This thing is possible
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Deyemi is going to make it look as if people hate Banky when they don't. This thing he's doing doesn't serve Banky.
Because if you're talking about records, all we have are Banky's campaigns as well. Yes, it has been longer but it's not like he has ever been elected & proven
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From Watriangle to Veenom, imagine being on the receiving end of their BS, then somebody somewhere says "let what happened in the house stay in the house" 😒
That one is fake peace/maturity abeg. Better for everyone to know what the others are about.
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The babe was only asking for the salary she'd be losing o.
Paying for her to have his baby would mean putting a price on her dealing with the actual pains of pregnancy & childbirth, her risking her life in the labour room & 4th trimester wahala, on top of the salary.
50 50 till you see it in black and white.
That man is an unarmed robber. “It leaves a bad taste in my mouth. Makes me feel like I’m paying her to have our baby”.
But there will be changes in finances and why should she bear it alone? Are you a thief?
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This stage really sucks but she will find her feet & will be fine. It's that shock of moving from people all around you, noisy horns/gens/signs of life everywhere, Nigeria to the crazy quiet in the west.
It takes time to build a new social circle but she will 🫂
She feels so lonely and sad after moving to Canada 🥹😰🇨🇦
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There are certain things that it takes being a shitty person to do. Can't just reduce such behaviours to 'it's a game'.
Especially when they actively chose to go down the dirty route 🙄
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I feel like every independent minded girl got variations of this 😂 I even got told that not every man was like my dad all because I said he cooks & looks after himself.
Oppressors & their allies will always try to get you to cave.
My relatives constantly told me while growing up in Nigeria, that I was too difficult (opinionated, stubborn, free thinking) to ever end up with a Nigerian man..
“If you continue behaving like this Doreen, a Nigerian man can never marry you!”.
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He'll still ask babes out, they'll still say yes.
Same with the FFKs. Is FFK single now? No.
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The angry responses I just saw on a post that has Mikel Obi discussing black tax ehn 😫
It's either those people are leeches themselves or they're truly ignorant of how wicked some relatives are.
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I've known for a long while now but still, realising that a significant number of the preachers I grew up listening to, both males & females, are nothing but predatory and fraudulent scammers still gets me shook from time to time.
And yea, I know faith is a personal thing.
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While this tedious Bridgerton chatter is still ongoing 😓, I wonder if Christian influencers would like to free the low hanging fruits of sex on TV/red flags and do posts/Clubhouse hangouts on the subject of 'Married life after waiting':
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