Stop trying to sanitize BDSM.
It’s raw. It’s dirty. It’s dark. It’s depraved. It’s sick. It’s twisted and perverse. It’s unsettling - if you’re doing it right. It makes you uncomfortable by design. We don’t avoid triggers, we throw our bodies into them with full force.
Your Dominatrix isn’t going to go out for beers with you; she isn’t going to be your best friend.
If we become friendly, remember time spent outside of paid sessions is a gift and should be treated as such. It’s incredibly uncomfortable having to reinforce these boundaries.
We exist to be the monsters under your bed; to terrify and torment you, taking you to the brink of madness through the manipulation of pleasure and pain.
We accept you, break you, and then build you back up again.
If you can’t accept that then BDSM’s not for you. 🤷🏻♀️
It’s easy to be “on brand” when your brand is just an authentic representation of who you are. Basically figure out who you are and then do you. That’s it. That’s the secret.
A 14 year old child on TikTok said I should be put to death for breaking Catholic law and desecrating an alter, in case you were wondering how American youth are doing.
“‘Nasty women’ was once the catchcry of any feminist worth her salt: are sex workers maybe too nasty? Perhaps the title was only intended for those who are nasty enough to crochet pink hats.
Right now, women are dying, and feminists don’t care.”
#SexWork
If you’re judging other Dommes for nudity or being sexual, ask yourself why you have a problem with women expressing sexuality? Policing what other women do with their own bodies is anti-feminist and has no place in a community focused on the sovereignty of women.
Evolve or 🤐.