The time has come for me to take a semi-hiatus. I've updated my rates and site to reflect my current reduced availability and energetic capacity, as well as my desire for a lower volume lifestyle prioritizing trusted regulars. I love you all dearly! 💚
There are clients who are FUN, and then there are clients who fill your cup, leave you feeling adored, appreciatiated, and honored, see and value you, and make you appreciate every little moment you spend with them... And that just does not compare.
This silver fox literally said, 'I feel like I'm fucking a piece of art,' while he was inside me and I think it's the most flattering thing I've ever heard. 🥰
It's funny how once you do any kind of kink people like assume you don't like vanilla sex anymore? I have shy guys apologing for being boring and it's like, babe... Variety is the spice of life, and that includes vanilla sex!
This guy is finger banging me on the kitchen island, making me GUSH ALL OVER, then proceeds to pick me up and carry me to the bed with his fingers still inside me!?! Lol sometimes my sex life really does look like porn.
Yall it is not okay to fatshame clients. I would be so fucking happy if I never had to see another fatphobic tweet from a stripper again. Yall can legit hate your job or your clients, but using their body weight as a way to express your frustration? Just staaaahhhhhhhppppp. Fuck.
'Sorry, I can't do deposits/ send ID, I'm concerned with privacy,' says the client from his work gmail, who has his v-nmo set to public, who has all his fb photos and posts public, who has has a phone without any password and gives his apps all permissions and gps location... 🤡
Regular reminder to check in with whoever you're sending money via payment apps to about how to best do so. Don't include suggestive emojis, notes about meeting or services, or anything SW related. We have few so platforms to use safely and your notes can compromise that for us💚
“To be sensual, I think, is to respect and rejoice in the force of life, of life itself, and to be present in all that one does, from the effort of loving to the breaking of bread.”
- James Baldwin, The Fire Next Time
The biggest piece of advice that I can offer providers is to really reflect on what YOU want. Not what you think you're supposed to want, what you think you have to do, or what you think others are doing to be successful. What fuels YOU and how you can attract more of that?...
"Shiny, shiny, shiny boots of leather Whiplash girlchild in the dark Comes in bells, your servant, don't forsake him Strike, dear mistress, and cure his heart..."
- Venus in Furs, The Velvet Underground & Nico
At the end of the day, clients should be reflecting on what kind of experience they want to have, and find a provider who offers that. There is no one-size-fits-all and there's no reason to think of it like some kind of hierarchy. 4/4
"Some people are settling down, some people are settling and some people refuse to settle for anything less than butterflies."
-Candace Bushnell, Sex and the City
There's almost nothing better than a sweet follow-up message from a client telling you how much you helped them with their self-image or confidence. Truly humbling.
"Kiss the boot of shiny, shiny leather
Shiny leather in the dark
Tongue of thongs, the belt that does await you
Strike, dear mistress, and cure his heart"
- The Velvet Underground & Nico, Venus in Furs
I love being spoiled and given lavish gifts. But the gifts that resonate with me the most are the air purifiers, medical treatments, health spas, ect. Things that are less sexy, yet a direct investment into my longterm health. These gift givers are the real MPVs.