It’s sad that a community that’s all about feeling safe and escaping the real world, also has such a toxic side. I’ll honestly do whatever it takes to keep my community a safe and welcoming space for all of you that listen to me<3 I love you guys, thank you for your support.💗
PSA, in this community...you need to do what you do FOR YOU! Stay away from people (🐍), do not get involved in their business, do your own thing, and be super careful with who you trust. That’s the best advice i can give any aspiring creator:)
If you are a VA/ content creator, please remember to:
1.Keep all your videos downloaded and saved, no matter what.
2. Enable 2FA on your google accounts.
3. Change your passwords/ use strong passwords.
Getting hacked is the most terrifying thing in the world. Stay safe. 💖
If you shame any online creator for ANY content they make, you’re a terrible person. There is absolutely no reason to belittle someone for any content THEY choose to put out. If you don’t like it, don’t listen/watch and move on with your life.
You don’t need to have a “sexy” voice, or expensive equipment to do ASMR. If it’s something you enjoy doing and you want to do, just go for it. Just take that step and post your first video. You’ll never know what might come out of it! ❤️
If you guys see a post on reddit like this: aka somebody talking about leaking my or ANY VA’s Patreon audios, please please please report. This makes the creator feel like shit. Thanks
I hate seeing people in my comments calling others “simp” and making fun of them for expressing their opinions. I also hate when they make fun of those who are going out of their way to support me on Patreon by calling them simps. It’s not cool. Please grow up.
Youtube has added a strike on each and every video i’ve produced at this point. It seems you can never please them?! Uploading on there is becoming more of a hassle every day and it sucks that it has to be this way:/
I can’t stand comments on my videos that say “someone leak her patreon audio”. Like, seriously? That’s not cool. There’s plenty of free audios you can listen to online. No need to leak something someone actually profits from & works hard on :/
Idk how to answer people that ask me “what do you look like?”
A girl…? LMAO
I use my OC as reference of me so i guess that works too, but i never know how to answer 😩
I’m going to say this right now. Do not EVER compare yourself to other creators in the community. Doing that would not only disrupt your motivation to continue, but it would make you question your own work and success as well. Some grow fast and some take longer. Just be Patient.
If you’re out in public and a girl starts giving you dirty looks & pulling her man closer when she sees you…not sure why she’s so insecure to do so, but take it as a compliment babes. I promise i’m not interested in your man miss girl😩
I understand that people like making friends in the community, i mean who doesn’t? But just remember that IF you want to become a successful VA, do what you do for YOU and not the community or people that do the same thing you do. Focus on your own work. Keep your circle small.❤️
Not youtube being a bad enough platform, that people have to delete their channels cuz they feel like their work is going to shit. Honestly such a shame to see that. I know exactly how it feels too, and it isn’t fun. Don’t give up guys!💖
Pleaaase stop sending me pictures and descriptions of yourself in my email. It’s not tinder in there, and it feels weird. I’d appreciate it if we left things professional and only professional, as that’s the ONLY point of having my email. Thank you.
Many creators hate when you compare their work to someone else’s or play judge. Understand that everyone does things differently in their own way. Let’s not put any VAs or content creators down:)
I didn’t really realize how toxic the community can be until i joined twitter. I’m gonna take a small break from this app for a while. Seriously, i need it😂