Daughter of Athena
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The fight is against poverty. Fighting for the wig and the black gown.
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More than 2 years ago, I found myself being a single parent. I had 3 children who seemed more composed than I was. It was terrifying. I couldn’t make sense of my life so I went back to the drawing board. We held a family meeting and filled our vision board.
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I was 15 when I remained with one parent to raise me and my 4 sisters. We were the talk of the town. Our relatives gave speeches about how we wouldn’t finish school, would get married to poor men because we were raised by a woman. I made it a point to lecture my sisters, a degree
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Bagged myself an LLB in Commercial Law. It can only be God. ❤
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Crazy day today. Found out on the last day of the virtual graduation next month and graduation portraits were needed. I dropped everything to make it happen. Even plugged in to find a make up Artist 😂😂uwakanwa taluba. 😂😂Anyway, 🥂 😍😍
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I get a lot of DMs from people asking how I managed to walk out of a 12 years old marriage. It’s not easy, there are no rule books to follow and Priests and Pastors will tell you to pray, turn the other cheek and be patient, but only you know when you’ve had enough. When staying
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Linked up with
@tonytheegoon
to introduce him to my new baby. I shouldn't hear any jokes about a charger for a phone charging a vitz 😂😅. It's an answered prayer for me. A sacrifice beyond measure. A win in a sea of losses and a spark of hope for the future.
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Got my ZIALE results. I didn’t get everything but I’m so grateful it’s nowhere near denovo. I went through so much whilst I was at school that I can only say, Thank you Jesus. My faith in you will never change. You lifted me when I could not walk. It could only be you.
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I have just sold a 100 bottles of perfume to one person and I don’t know how to react😂😍😍I have no stock left. This has never happened to me before. ❤️❤️
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I have a friend who got tired of suffering, found a guy who hired her his car at K400 per day for her to drive it on Yango and everyday she sets a target of 20 rides and she has never looked back.She’s motivated and says she got tired of begging people for money.I’m Happy for her
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What’s the point of any of this?1. There will be drawbacks, that’s just life. 2. Make a plan, just don’t exist. 3. What people see about you is their issue, live your life. 4. Master your finances, everything is achievable.5. Keep trying, don’t stop. Nivi life chabe ivi.
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If you’re a single parent, whether male or female, I want you to know that it gets better. The children grow, whether the other parent shows up or not. The children see your love and your efforts, that’s what counts. Treasure every moment with them, this is their childhood.
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Some years back I abandoned my Masters in Public Administration program with just research to complete. It’s always haunted me. I started the process to be reconsidered by UNZA to complete my program since I didn’t formally withdraw and they accepted. I’m so grateful.
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Here’s a photo that’s sure to annoy some people on Facebook. I aim to please 😂😂😂Happy Wednesday ❤️❤️
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So when you turn 40, people just send you money, for just. 😂😍It’s true. My greatest moment was when a tweep I share initials with sent money for me to spoil myself. I had mentioned that I wanted to buy shoes. The generosity 👏👏😍
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Today and same day last year 😭😭😭Started my journey to fitness today. I’ve reached triple digits😂😂I’ve officially never been this fat, not even when I was pregnant with my babies. Every journey has a beginning, so here’s to another one🥂
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I posted this on my FB page. Someone had the guts to inbox my mom to complain about my mental health issues because somehow wearing colourful dresses and posting on FB is a red flag. I know what the real problem is, a divorced mother who dares to live life on her own terms.
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Just posting this to say, I need more fossil friends on this app. The kids are wilding😂😂 Don’t even come at me. I have time. 😂😂
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Yesterday, I went into Woolworths to buy two bottles of wine and walked out with a dress 😂😂No regrets 😍😍
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Congratulations Tumelo for making your Mama the happiest mother in the whole world. The sky is the limit. ♥️♥️
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Don't let anyone tell you that you can't start over. Start over as many times as you need to.
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Before and after. 7 years apart. Try and have positive thoughts as much as you can. Be kind to yourself 😍
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Just ignore my posts if you don’t like photos 😂😂😂Soli. Anyway with my sister Monde and Queen, Broner. 😍😍
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Anyway, I’m grateful for where I am. Evolving to my perfume business has made life easier for me. I hope to get back to keeping my village chickens one day soon and I always have so many plans running around in my head. My biggest dream is to make money in my sleep. 😂
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Safely arrived in Siavonga for our vacation. We are here to eat nice food, swim, unwind and bond ♥️♥️The weather is perfect 😍
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Last night was cold. Decided to sleep at a Lodge as the funeral house was filled to capacity. Some guy wanted to shame us for going to a Lodge. He wanted us to sit on a log around the fire spend the night there. Some people and the love for suffering. Anyway, miss me with that.
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Happy 64th birthday to my Queen. Just delivered the cake. Festivities in the evening ❤️🎈🎉🎊🍾
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Last week, I had an emergency and asked 5 friends to each send me a K100 and only one did. Today he texted me that he was arriving at Intercity bus terminus in 30 minutes and I turned up to pick him up. It’s the small things and great to know my circle. Also life happens.
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Every time when Zesco connects power at night, my chickens cheer and when I peep through the window, I see a few of them have jumped on the drinkers and feeders and they are addressing the others. I wonder if they are the politicians of the chicken coop. 😂😂
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As a ma foursa. I’ve failed to locate my first year photos. 😂😂
Do you guys still have your pictures from first year of varsity ? Hlebathung let me see them 🤣
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Sadly, almost doesn’t count. We try again next year. But no regrets, when I recall how I used to make drop offs and pick ups while writing exams 😬When I recall how I had to go shop and visit my daughter at boarding school half way through my exams 😬 Everything’s a miracle ♥️♥️
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Still laughing at how baby daddies showed up for Christmas, got photos with kids they don’t support and splashed them all over social media, then quickly disappeared because talks of term one school fees came up. They are nothing but predictable.
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One thing about me, I’m not obsessed with how many people follow me here. I do try to follow back as many people as I can but it’s about interaction. What’s the use of 20K followers when we can’t chat and learn something from each other? It’s all about good vibes for me.
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Got my balloons today. No plans. Txn for wine very welcome. ♥️♥️
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What vexes me is the way you need money to make money. Even if you have good ideas, you’ll need money to implement those ideas. So yeah, I respect money.
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I have a friend who says, "People want you to do better, so long as you're not better than them" I felt that.
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I’m a firm believer that God sends Angels disguised as human beings in the moments when we feel the greatest rawest pain that a person can endure. When I went on separation, I had the most honest, most open conversations with a Priest 😂😂Must be all those confessions at Fatima
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I had a conversation with a man who talked about how happy he was because at 48 he had found the love of his life. She was everything he had been looking for in a partner and he was so in love with her. I was like 🥰 Until he asked for my number 😡😂. Like for real? 😱😱
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My Nephew came through to see me as I wait for lunch 😍
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I had two prayer points and God answered them both 😍😍😍He is an amazing God. Today, I’m walking on air. I’m that happy.
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It’s easy to sabaila, if you’ve never been through something. That’s it. That’s the tweet.
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One of the smartest things I did last year and continued into this year was opening Treasure chest accounts for each of my kids. I applied for K200 to be deducted from my account into each child’s account. They are each standing at about K2600 each and I am so proud of myself.
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I didn’t get to travel for the Kuomboka ceremony, our friend who offered transport had an emergency. Luckily, I already had a plan in place. A photo shoot for me. Worked with a local Designer.
Disclaimer: No apologies.
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Where a Secretary in a bank dated to believe that she could raise graduates, you would know why I am the woman I am today. I do not quit, I am relentless, I get what I want, I lead. I said I would be a Lawyer when I was in Grade 3 and here I am. Never listen to your enemies. Ever
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When I told my daughter that I got an increment at work. She jumped for some time and then asked, ‘That means more money right?’ 😂😂I said ‘Yes’ she jumped some more and said ‘I’m beginning to like this President a lot ’ 😂😂
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This was my lunch yesterday at Boulderview. The tbone was really yummy, might drop by during the week. 😂
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Agony is my friends gathering over drinks to have a soirée over the death of my marriage 😭😭. I couldn’t have asked for better company. I am blessed. 😍
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I’m happy. I don’t have everything I need but I have enough to survive. I’m grateful for the gift of life. ♥️
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Turns out my son broke his new spectacles and didn’t know how to tell me because I’d get disappointed. We had to have the conversation again about how he’s more important than grades, than goods than anything else and I’ll pick him over and over again if I had to make a choice.
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Ka photo, kale mwe. Anyway, mommy and the Dictators. We've planned a movie and pizza date this weekend. Plus the swimming, it's going to be a busy weekend. Happy Friday ❤
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On this day, 10 years ago, I gave birth to my son weighing a whopping 4kgs. It was love at first sight. It’s been a pleasure to raise this amazing boy and to watch him overcome all the obstacles to become who he is. I’m his biggest cheerleader and it’s a privilege to be his mommy
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I’m so happy. Got my results, bagged myself an A in Competition Law,2 B+s in ADR and CCP and a B in Pension Law💃💃💃I’m now left with Research can’t I’m done. I was worried because of complaints about my handwriting but here we are♥️
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I once did math homework with my daughter and she got everything wrong. When she came home in tears to complain, I felt bad😭Hired a tutor to bring her up to speed and help her with homework and life has been easier for me.
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One thing about me, I don’t wear my battles. I had 2 hours of sleep last night and this morning we fought with my son. He says he can’t wear a Bata shoe because the soles are hard, ati I should buy black sneakers. I refused. I’m not budging 😂😂
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My countdown has began. I was in casual Friday when I went to get the portrait for our virtual graduation 😂😂I’m so grateful, it’s virtual with this new variant of Covid that has come.
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😍Can’t wait to wear the black one. 😂
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My girls, going for the end of term party at school🎉 🥳🎊
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One of my friends called crying last night. Her daughter is finally cleared all her courses and is graduating. I was so happy for her. The endless salary advances, the stress that comes from worrying if there will be enough food on the table tomorrow for both of them is now over
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My 8 year old proudly told me that she had joined debate and football club at school.But she added that her friends jumped on her when she held on the ball for too long, so I asked her what kind of football they were playing.Her answer ‘the regular one,Barbra Banda, plays’😂
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The way my friends from Campus got married to the boyfriends they used to do this for? Life has no formula. Just do you, boo. 😂
To our university wives, thank you for your services.
Sadly, you are not the type we wanted to marry you can not be cooking for a man you are not married to.
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Self expression is everything😂😂. Cherish it but don’t abuse it. Tomorrow, I’ll post 2 more outfits. 😍😍Enjoy your Friday ❤️❤️
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My son said I looked nice and he wanted to use my phone yo just get one photo of me and this is it. I’m so grateful that he is affectionate and he believes in giving compliments. I’m winning when it comes to raising him and his sisters. It’s a good feeling ♥️♥️
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Im thinking about that adage : A fool and his money are soon parted 😂😂
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The cake 😍 😍It’s big, worth every ngwee. Birthday boy is happy ❤️❤️
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As for me and my household, we shall faithfully save the 12% salary increment that the New Dawn Government has blessed us with. Then we shall go to Lower Zambezi or Islands of Siankaba and drink and eat away 😂😂Have a plan for your money or you’ll consume it all.
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Took my baby to braid her hair at Chilenje Market. I delayed to take her food because errands. Grabbed wings and chips from Capello’s, got there only to be told she ate nshima with beans with the Hairdresser. I said cool. Character building. 😂😂Elo don’t come for me. 😂
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One thing about being a parent, I love watching my children. I live with them but once in a while, it’s like they grew taller overnight. I watch them when they are asleep, talking, laughing, eating. I’m always like I made these humans🥰😂Look at that gorgeous skin, eyes, hair 😂
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Forgot to put a lock on the gate and thieves lifted it off the rails. Not sure what triggered the alarm on the electric fence and we woke up in time to see the thieves run away. Ku Shantumbu nako. Anyway, now fully awake and romanticizing owning a gun again.
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This man I know is a Senior Manager at ZRA but his wife beats him in public for staying out after midnight. She had the audacity to boast that she has been married to him for 18 years and I called her Mrs. GBV to her face. She was livid. I was unrepentant. Chikwati cha GBV.
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Woke up and discovered that I made a loss of K22,750 from 65 missing perfume bottles. Amaka nayapwa. They were in boxes in my house. I’ve fired the Gardner now I have to find a replacement for the Housekeeper. Workers can make you cry.😭😭
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My afternoon. The cocktail- The pink lady packs a punch😍😍
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My daughter forgot her ream of paper and sneakers in the car when she dropped off at school. I went to drop them off when doing fieldwork. When I walked in, her face lit up, waved at me and she whispered loudly, ‘that’s my Mom’. Imwe, we are loved at home mwe. 😂😂
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My mom, Broner Kabika turns 65 today. Words fail me. Feels inadequate to say ‘I love you ima, thank you for loving me.’ Happiest birthday my Queen. 🎉🎈♥️
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One thing about me, I’ll never let a person shame me about being a single mother. Keep your ****ing fake standards to yourself. My children live a good life, I have a good life, so for me to attach myself to a d**k to satisfy fake society standards, miss me with that shit.
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Went to work dressed in jeans for ‘casual Friday’ 😂😂I called a friend and casually remarked that she enjoyed ladies night yesterday 💀That’s how I went back home to change clothes and I have 3 back to back interviews, how’s your Thursday going?
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I was recalled from leave. Happy to report for duty. I’ve lost a bit of weight. Gym is really working for me. Still a long way to go but I’m happy to fit in this suit. 😂 😂
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Choose to unlearn what doesn’t work for you anymore. Reinvent yourself as many times as you need to. Happy Wednesday ❤️❤️❤️
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My greatest love. My greatest reward. Stepped back in time. ❤
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Ati no one will tell you when the NAPSA payment has been made but there will be signs. The sign 😂😂😂
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